GUYS - did you ever regret flaking out on a girl?

[Anonymous]

and if you did, how do you act around her when you see her?

[ArtistBboy]

I regret the opportunity VERY much. The girl I have in mind was a model, funny, outgoing, etc... She was closer to my "ideal women" but I passed the opportunity because it didn't feel right, I felt like I was being used (She has a baby with another man which I didn't understand at that age)

Now I look at her and see she is unhappy and that I could've changed that and not let her get into this depressed state, but I can change her- I can only influence her decisions for the better.

When I'm around her, its awkward- I keep remembering what things could've been like. There are times where I want to approach her, but because she shut me out of her life because of this other man- I shut her out of mine for a time being. Imagine running into an old FWB and your currently with someone - awkward right? That's how I feel almost, every time that I encounter her.

[jacquesvol]

YES

I did never see her again: she avoided me after that.