Guys have you ever regretted not asking a girl out?

[Anonymous]

Especially the shy guys. Have you ever really liked a girl, but you never got enough courage to ask her out? Did you regret it later? Did you ever stop liking her?

If you did get enough courage how long did take?

[jacquesvol]

1.Y

2.Y

3.Y and N

There is some annoying logic :

Getting a "no" from "just another girl" isn't fun but no drama.

Getting a "no" from "that unique-best-in-the-world girl" or from a girl you consider your best friend really hurts.

-If it's a girl one doesn't care about very much, it's much easier to risk deadly answers like "Never in my life", "I'm in love already" or "I thought we were real friends and you weren't after "that" like all those jerks."

-If one has given up all hope one can always try.

This leads to asking out the girls one could miss easily and sounding too desperate when asking the girl that's really important.

This is why it's important that girls show when they're interested in a guy and don't play games.

[PinkMaggit]

I've regretted asking many girls out.

But once I turned about 22, I realized that it was better to ask her out and get "no," than to wonder "what if?" for months.

I still get nervous sometimes when I ask out a girl. No one likes rejection.

A "no" stings for a while, but you recover. however, a "what if?" eats at your guts much longer.

[St-Dank-Tanks-LG]

Well, no I've never not asked her out. I've waited too long plenty of times, though.

And it's hard just to stop liking someone, and (for shy guys, well some of them) equally as hard to approach the girl they like.

[BrianHan14]

That was the worst f*cking mistake of my freshman year.