My ex said this to me, He and I are on great terms. We dated for a couple years, years ago and were engaged. For the most part we are just friends but we do flirt heavily a lot (sometimes x-rated flirting). I had recently come clean and told him that he was my first. He was surprised of course and oddly really happy, dare I say giddy about it. Then today, he tells me that he's been thinking about me a lot and dreaming about me (us snuggling in bed together). It's not the first time he's shared a romantic/sex dream he had about me. We don't exactly live close to each other either. I guess, I'm just trying to figure out if my coming out about having been a virgin when we met has made him desire me more, or if it's some sort of ego boost.