When will average and below average looking guys just stop hitting on attractive women?

[Anonymous]

I am an an ugly guy and I respect that nearly all attractive women don't want to be a bother by a guy that looks like me. When will many other average and below average looking guys learn and just stop hitting on the cute, hot, preety women?

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Why can't you guys be just like me?

[Anonymous]

if ur a guy looks only work to an extent if u let them if u take jay z for example a lot of ignorant people call him ugly but when i watch his interviews and all that he seems funny and a cool guy to hang around. leave ur insecurities at the door bro if u got a big nose rock that shit with idgaf attitude, you have to be comfortable in who you are. I've had hot girls ask me why am so relaxed with who i am, you'll find girls will shit test u to see if ur a man who candle her shit or a pussy always seeking her approval. Change ur attitude and seek validation from other people trust me it works.

[Opinion Owner]

don't* seek validation from other people

[cavmanier]

I don't see an issue with a guy trying with an available girl. Looks aren't the only factor and we all have preferences. There are a lot of opportunities that can be missed if the person doesn't try. Yes a lot of people can get discouraged by failure though.

How can a guy really know if a girl is interested unless they try?

[Asker]

When did I say that looks were the only factor? It is not the only factor but it is a factor. Most attractive women don't want to be bothered by average and below average looking guys.

[cavmanier]

I never said you said that, but you implied it's a deal breaker to most
"nearly all attractive women don't want to be a bother by a guy that looks like me"

[Asker]

@cavmanier. Yes you did say that, you said''Looks aren't the only factor,'' when I never said that. It is a fact that most attractive women can't stand when average and below average looking guys start convos with them.

[cavmanier]

Asker (18-24)
"When did I say that looks were the only factor?"

Opinion OwnerAge: 34
"I never said you said that"

Asker (18-24)
"@cavmanier. Yes you did say that, you said''Looks aren't the only factor,'' when I never said that."

I never said I didn't say it. Yes➡I⬅ did say looks aren't the only factor. I said you implied it.

[Anonymous]

Yes, and after these guys get rejected they come to gag and complain how they are nice guys but no girl wants them and women are just bitches and shallow.

Let these guys be. If they want to waste their time, they can do that.

[Asker]

Well I am telling these guys to stop. I stopped.

[Opinion Owner]

You telling them what to do isn't propably going to make them change. They have to realize themselves.

[Asker]

True and some women on here are saying some attractive women will probably accept them and I agree some MAY accept them but nearly all of them won't. People need to be realistic.

[LauraMarx]

i joined this roleplaying forum and I'm playing a huge monkey who is a geologist its pretty cool that I can do that

[sillygirl13]

Because if they are funny and sweet enough girls would go for it

[Asker]

Most girls won't go for it actually.

[sillygirl13]

I know quite a few who would but I do not believe there is a way to convince you as you are most likely a glass half empty kind of guy

[Asker]

I know a FEW would but NEARLY ALL Of attractive chicks won't go for it.

[sillygirl13]

Maybe but many atractive women are birches (sorry my fellow women but it would s true)

[Asker]

Yeah I know most attractive women are bitches lol.

[sillygirl13]

Yup that's why I prefer to be friends with guys than girls. Other girls seem to crave drama

[sillygirl13]

Yeah most are

[Asker]

@Sillygirl13 yeah. Many people say that most women are nice in college and university. That is a load of bull. Only some are lol. As a nerdy looking guy that wears glasses all the time and that isn't even a nerd but looks like one, I would know this. Of course many women deny it on here when I have brought it up. I am glad you admit it. Most women around my age and younger don't even like it even when I have friendly convos with them even though if it is about something interesting. I notice the same thing happen to most other guys that looks similar to me. Yet nearly all these women are ok with talking to guys that don't look like me.

[sillygirl13]

See I am nerdy but I don't look it but girls are often back stabbers and I hate that

[Asker]

@Sillygirl13 I am sorry about what you experienced.

[sillygirl13]

It's okay. It's life

[PiuBelloAmante]

I will keep going for who i feel attracted to, why does it matter to an avg dude like yourself if other avg bros are accepting a challenge to talk to women out of their league

[Asker]

Because guys like me should stop being a bother to women. Also you are good looking so you are not included in this.

[meatballs21]

Why can't you mind your own business and let them do what they like? Or are you secretly hoping all the attractive women will be so grateful that you saved them from the uggos that they'll jump your bones?

[akadatank44]

Women like confidence in a man. Simple as that. You are showing no confidence to them if you don't even try.

[Asker]

I have tried and most other guys try and they get shot down. Most attractive women can't stand being approached by guys they think are average and below average looking guys.

[akadatank44]

I think you are putting to much weight on looks. Looks are not the most important factor. Yes some instances they are but depending on the girl. If you are well groomed, not smell like a gym bag, and presentable. You never know what another person is thinking.

[Asker]

When did I say they were the MOST important factor? Also they aren't the main factor but they are a factor and it doesn't matter if you are well groomed most of the time when it comes to cute, hot, attractive women, most of the time if they don't think you are good looking from the moment they laid eyes on you nearly all the time they hate that you even started a convo with them.

[Jersey1]

Land a six figure job in your twenties, and you could too. Cars, confidence and cash.

[bananatossing]

can't blame anyone for trying man. It also comes down to attitude you know.

[Anonymous]

Dude, they can hit on whomever they want, as long as they accept and respect a rejection - but that goes for everyone.

[Chick180]

Everyone can do what they feel like?

[Asker]

Yes Chick180, but most attractive women can't stand when guys they think are average or below average start convos with them.

[Chick180]

No, anon. That's not true. There's no harm in trying.

[Asker]

@Chick180 yes it is true or else they wouldn't be complaining to their female friends about it.

[Chick180]

How do you know they complain to their friends about it?

[Asker]

@Chick180 I know from many attractive women complaining online and I know from many attractive women complaining in person.

[Chick180]

That's very stupid.

[Asker]

@Chick180 what is stupid? The women complaining or my response to you?

[Chick180]

The former.

[Asker]

Oh yeah it is stupid they complain, they are cruel.

[Anonymous]

It'll stop happening when women stop saying that looks don't matter

[Asker]

Women don't mean it when they say that though genius.

[Opinion Owner]

But some guys believe it

[Asker]

They are fools for believing it.

[BittyBear1617]

I think I'm sexy as hell and I don't care who hits on me as long as they aren't arrogant about it.

[apexalpha]

A persons looks are subjective there's no universal beauty so your question is flaw

[Asker]

Oh geez you know what I mean, guys that are not considered attractive by the huge majority of women.

[apexalpha]

Go for them some attractive girls can or will given time look beyond a guys looks I have seen it in real life

[Asker]

SOME but most won't

[apexalpha]

You will only get rejected but will get over it the grand prize is a hot girl

[Asker]

Get rejected 1000 times.

[smexiliciousss]

because some women will like them?

[Asker]

Very unlikely for that to happen.

[Watermelonoma]

I'll approach whoever I want

[TheSpartan]

When we are dead, motherfucke!

[GlassHeart]

there's more to it then just looks !!

[Asker]

I never said looks is the only thing that is a factor, but it is one of the factos and most attractive women can't stand when average and below average looking guys have convos with them.

[GlassHeart]

Lol no that is shallow attractive women there is a difference

[Asker]

Um nearly everyone cares about looks including nearly all attractive women.

[GlassHeart]

Of course but to say attractive women hate having conversations with below average men is absurd personality plays a lot into attractivness and if you think most attractive women base who they are gonna date on mostly looks then maybe your a little shallow as well..
Im just stating my opinion not trying to start anything

[Asker]

@GlassHeart when did I ever say attractive women they base they are going to date based on looks? Once again I never said that. Nearly all of them and nearly everyone give looks an important factor in who they are going to date, I never said looks are the most important factor to them. People who say looks don't matter to them is full of you know what. And I have no idea why you said I am shallow. And I never said all attractive women hate it when average and below average looking guys start convos with them, I said MOST.

[Asker]

@GlassHeart, you know what I am saying is right.