I have a confession I'm totally straight but sucked a guys dick once, does this make me gay?

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detlef · Accepted Answer

Social science research has demonstrated in the recent past that conceptions of "gay" and "straight" are very fluid and individually determined. There are no fixed definitions, period.

So can a guy describe himself as "straight," and have sucked a cock once in his life? (Or many times?) Yes, that's possible, and apparently quite common.

The labels only have meaning and significance if you need and want them to. Many men with your experience self-describe as "straight." And that's normal. And sucking a cock does not "make you gay." Any more than having sex with a woman would make a man who self-describes as gay suddenly "straight."

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You're a faggot.

tammymac · Accepted Answer

I consider myself straight, but I've had sex with 2 women. I was curious, and attracted to them, so I explored it. I probably won't do it again, but who knows. I don't think the experience makes us gay. I think if you find you are developing real romantic feelings for someone of the same sex you may be bi or gay. So if you are day dreaming about kissing, fondling or sucking a man off you could have gay tendencies. Be truthful with yourself, there is no shame in being gay, if that's who you are, embrace it.

librasierra · Accepted Answer

Sexuality is a spectrum so you can be straight but still of had an experience with the same sex etc. I have kissed a girl but i couldn't see myself in a relationship with a girl or marrying one. As i said sexuality is a spectrum, not everything is black and white there are exceptions

WhatTheHellAmy · Accepted Answer

If you liked it and you want to do it again. YES, you are gay (not a fag). But if you don't like it and it was a mistake and you think that's super gross. NOPE, you're not.

Remember, being gay or straight, what's the big deal? Nothing will change, you can be whoever you want.

skullly · Answer

well yeah, who are we to tell you who you are... but you are asking... sooo... duh! if you sucked it, you're not straight... at least bi.. but def. not straight. NO straight person would do that unless it's a death situation. The fact tat you wanted or did it, is partially gay.

Jersey1 · Answer

You are Bi. Straight guys don't do that, "feelings" or not. you lost your straight card. So did the chick who went down on a couole of girls who also responded. Sex acts like that with or withoit feelings makes you Bi. don't beleive me? Ask your friends :)

Anonymous · Answer

You are still in the grey zone. If you regret what happened or feel disturbed by it (which seems like it by this question), you can still return to our team.
If you continue to wonder by checking again or raoming around the borders to cross it again then I say: "Bye bye my friend" XD

Garbouw_Deark · Answer

Honestly? You didn't give any context here. Did you do it on a bet? Did you do it because you liked the guy? Or were you just experimenting?

AleDeEurope · Answer

I think you're either curious, or bisexual. You're not totally gay, but also, a straight guy sucking a guys dick actually IS very uncommon, so none of those options is ideal.

ShaeNielson · Answer

You can suck all the cock you want and still not be gay. Your sexuality isn't defined by what you do, but by how you feel. Either you are born gay or you aren't, sucking a dick won't change that.

anshin · Answer

Bisexual maybe? Ask yourself if you are fine with either woman or man. Also, a straight guy wouldn't do that.

Anonymous · Answer

Everyone sugar coats everythig these days , If you sucked a guy wang wang. Yes you're guy. No straight guy will ever do that ,

pr3ttybr0wn · Answer

unless you were raped i dont see how you can call yourself straight

LittleSally · Answer

I don't know and I can't say I'm an expert or that I care...  Only you know.

Hyped_up_on_coffee · Answer

Not really maybe you were bi-curious. And sexuality is like fluid and shit

sherbearee · Answer

that's really odd. But you are what you are, and if you say you're straight than you are.

I_am_repulsive · Answer

What the shit? I don't know dude... Only you can answer that question

LetsGoRangers · Answer

It just depends on how you feel. Mind if I ask WHY you sucked a dick?

Anonymous · Answer

The definition of being gay is having feelings for the opposite sex.  So if you don't have those feelings you're not gay.

Ashely_Princess · Answer

No you're not gay you might be bisexual though. Bisexual means you like your boys and girls.

tiredofwaiting · Answer

No. If you are not sexually attracted to men it doesn't make you gay. It means you are bi-curious.

Not_Helping · Answer

"Attraction > Action!" they used to say. Still applies according to the APA.

jakeofalltrades · Answer

we can't tell you what you are only you can do that

Josh2323 · Answer

I don't think it makes you gay. I'm 100% straight but I love big cocks. I want to suck them and get fucked

Anonymous · Answer

You are obviously not straight.

Anonymous · Answer

You may not be gay, but #ThatWasSomeGayShit

PiuBelloAmante · Answer

Its only gay if you enjoyed it

aamy811 · Answer

Unless your sexually attracted to guys then no.

Anonymous · Answer

Once a fag, always a fag. LOL LOL

LokiOfEngland · Answer

Maybe your just bicurious.

ClariceOwen23 · Answer

No. You're only gay if you're attracted to men.

amphet11 · Answer

Probably not 100% straight

Chan7654 · Answer

Your gay if you only do it once

Anonymous · Answer

ummmm. You're a fag. You can't escape the past

BannedSoManyTimes · Answer

LOL you are a little queer..

Anonymous · Answer

Can you take it again... suckerrrrr...

blondfrog · Answer

It makes you bi dude

Anonymous · Answer

Hell yeah you are

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