What does it mean when a guy looks at you everytime when he sees you and doesn't even smile?

[Anonymous]

I have this guy in uni that I liked and never talked to him. Heard about him a lot though. So the thing is that he keeps staring everytime I pass by " he's handsome so I don't find his stares creepy lol" or maybe cause I like him. He looks at me even from distances. I think he noticed that I like him so he keeps staring at me. Sometimea he holds the stare when I am far away from him other times when I am next to him he doesn't even look and other times he looks and when I catch him he looks away but not fast. Most of the time he holds the stare. My question is , if he thinks I like him why would he do so?

[SpeakNoEvil]

He might like you if he stares at you. You should walk up to him and ask him what he's staring at and see what his response is.

[Asker]

Heyyy! That was last semester and this semester he is still staring and me and then suddenly he stopped but was busted watching me. It's so weird cause it's been too long and he doesn't even know me. Like we had a 3 months summer break and I TOtally got over this crush don't know what's up with him. Do you guys ask this way when u like someone? I don't know what's wrong with him.

[Asker]

Act this way*

[SpeakNoEvil]

I do at least. I kinda shy so I act all weird when my crush gets close. Just today she walked past and we briefly locked eyes and she carried on walking while I was talking to my friends and I totally kept staring at her and zoned out of our conversation. Now I realize I could have used that opportunity to talk to her since she was alone but alas, I was distracted.

[Asker]

How long has this been happening? Like it happened for 4 months then we took summer vacy and he's back to starting. Now he's ignoring me and watches me when I am not looking why would u do so? And why would he like me if he doesn't know me it's been too long?

[Asker]

Staring*

[SpeakNoEvil]

Yeah I do the exact same thing as he does. I know I said like but what I meant was that he is infatuated with you. That's what a crush is, you like someone even though you don't know them. I mean I've recognized this crush has gone on way too long and I've done nothing about it but sometimes I get a glimpse of what she's really like and it makes me smile. To be honest I'm into her but really frustrated with my nonsensical feelings. Stuff just doesn't make sense sometimes.

[Asker]

Talk to her then don't act the same way he does to me I've been waiting for 5 months and at the end I gave up and I stopped caring. So PLEASE talk to her

[Asker]

And yeah why do u ignore the girl you like for like a week hhahaha what is that? What do u want guys?

[SpeakNoEvil]

I.. I don't know. I mean what if she's stopped caring too? In fact what if you are her? Gosh that'd be weird. Now I'm worried and wanna do something though. Thanks.

[SpeakNoEvil]

I didn't really ignore her I mean it's not like we talk to each other but she stares at me and I panic.

[Asker]

I never stopped caring.. I care less now because I got bored but I am dying to know him but nth seems to work so I have to move on because it's been no long

[SpeakNoEvil]

Nothing seems to work? Did you try talking to him?

[SpeakNoEvil]

Also out of interest what is his name?

[Asker]

No cause I am
Not sure what's his intention so one is sure. His name is Abrahim :)

[Asker]

Do u look at her friends? Cause he looks at my bestfriend so I don't know what is this? Hahah

[SpeakNoEvil]

Well sometimes I'm nervous that her friends see me staring so I have sometimes.

[Asker]

But why would u look at her friends? Is there a reason or because they are her friends?

[SpeakNoEvil]

I feel like her friends might know or figured it out and worried that when they see me they are watching to see if I'm staring at my crush and thinking that I'm weird or creepy or something and tell her about it.

[Asker]

Then go talk to her ;)

[SpeakNoEvil]

Well again, I thought about it today but I don't know what to say or do and how to react if she reacts negatively. People tell you to "just say hi" but that's no real help the important part is after that.

[Asker]

Ask her something smart. Ask her about sth in school a general question or if you both take a class together go ask her about what the teacher said. Just anything BUT PLEASEE TALK

[SpeakNoEvil]

I'm not in any of her classes anymore :( But I'll try, okay?

[Asker]

Yeah just say anything. Bump into her as if u didn't see her. Do anything ;))

[SpeakNoEvil]

I'll try. Gosh what have you got me to do?

[Asker]

The right thing maybe?

[SpeakNoEvil]

You say that but shouldn't you try to talk to your guy too?

[Asker]

I am
Not sure of his intention... And from the mixed signals and staring at my friend and sometimes ignoring me I ended up not knowing what he wants from me. Hess 22 I am 19 don't know is he playing on the age thingy or he's really into me. I know nothing and I can't do anything. I am scared of his intentions :)

[SpeakNoEvil]

They can't be that bad. If you're that scared just talk to him and if he sounds off then end it there and tell your friends about everything.

[Asker]

My friend can notice him staring at her but not like the way he stares at me. I think I'll end up her that would be better for me without talking :)

[SpeakNoEvil]

Well whatever, try your best.

[Anonymous]

It doesn't mean anything.

[Not_Helping]

It means that he looks at you and sees nothing worth smiling about.

[Asker]

So lame...

[Not_Helping]

Would you prefer "He was so enraptured by you that he becomes paralyzed and cannot bring himself to lose his cool and smile, embarrassed of his own contortions, and is deeply self-conscious about such things before the woman he yearns for?"

Because that's a lie.

[Asker]

What's your problem dude?
Go find something useful to do. :)

[Not_Helping]

More useful than helping people who sit on their thumbs freaking out over frivolous things? What in the world could be more useful than that?

[Asker]

I agree you're right :))) I deeply thank you for this!! And I am not even kiddin :))))) thanks dude

[Not_Helping]

You're welcome. :)