Do skinny guys automatically back off and don't even approach a pretty girl who is thicker (absolutely not FAT) than him?

[Anonymous]

[OpenClose]

Oh god no.

I used to be super underweight. Basically like the guy on top, but I wasn't old enough for it to be sexy. Naturally, most of the girls I liked were thicker than me, with the exception of a cross-country runner I had a super crush on in high school, but she was basically the one exception.

And that is coming from a guy who considers his standards a bit unfair on the skinny side. Most guys seem to love lots of curves, which specifically comes from women being thicker.

So for the most part, I think how your weight compares to his is often irrelevant. What tends to matter more is how your weight compares to your optimal weight, though people have a tendency of either underestimating it, or overestimating it.

[RedThread]

When I was really super thin I was attracted to many different sizes and shapes of women just like I am now.

[pr3ttybr0wn]

I saw a really gorgeous fat girl today. She was so feminine and well put together she was about 5'10 and maybe 260 lbs she looked like a size 22 or something but she was so pretty. I don't think she would have a hard time getting a boyfriend she was white tho

Not to get "racial" but I always notice skinny black men dating fat or thick girls. Thick or fat guys tend to want small girls

[Asker]

Basically you're saying that from your observation-the skinnier the guy the thicker they go for in a girl?

[pr3ttybr0wn]

Generally. Now that you mention it I don't think I have seen 2 skinny people together in a while
(And by "skinny" I am not counting fit athletic people with gym bodies. I'm talking about people who are skinny/scrawny or skinny fat)

[SamA_nold]

Why would weight matter? You should go up to anyone you find attractive and talk to them, introduce yourself. If she's heavier than you why is that stopping you from approaching her?