My friend got handsy while giving me a back massage?

[Anonymous]

I slept wrong last night and my back was in terrible shape. My friend was over and I asked him to give me a back massage because he is really good at them. He said yeah so I lied down and he straddled my back like usual. Only thing that was weird was that he was obviously feeling me up. He pretty much massaged my bum and his hands wondered about the side of my boobs WAY too long. He has given me plenty of massages but never done this should I say something or act like it didn't happen?

[Kingd353]

if you don't like it tell him you arent' comfortable with it it's as simple as that and if you don't mind (witch i assume you do) then let him feel you up i guess

[PiuBelloAmante]

If you feel uncomfortable you have to say
"watch it"
or "HEY"

[Asker]

When he was doing it I pointed out his focus on my lower back and he just said that my lower back was screwed up. I didn't persist because I didn't want to make things awkward.

[PiuBelloAmante]

You have to!
cause now he might be thinking "she was letting me feel up on her! sweet!!!"

now you can't really do anything about, just make sure you always make your feelings known, especially during a massage, you are very vulnerable in that state

its a weird and tricky situation no doubt

[Asker]

He isn't really like that though. He have been friends for almost 5 years and he isn't a douche.

[PiuBelloAmante]

Ok, well i think that speaks to his character, maybe he genuinely was trying to help you, but didn't realize that he was making you feel uncomfortable, if he has been a genuine friend for many years, give him the benefit of the doubt

[Asker]

I think he may have been feeling me up unintentionally but his hands wondered considering his is a guy. I didn't want to put this in the description but I did feel his member against my back growing... He pulled back so I wouldn't notice but it was still obvious. We have always been close friends though. Always cuddle, he stays over a few times a week, and just generally close.

[PiuBelloAmante]

well i mean he was touching a pretty lady lol!!
His mind was telling him no, but his body, his body was telling him YESSSS lol! jk

it was just a natural reaction to him touching a pretty girls body

[Asker]

I know it is a natural reaction if any guy is touching a girl and that's why I didn't point it out. My back feels amazing now though 😂

[PiuBelloAmante]

well, i think if he has been an honest friend, you should trust that he wasn't being fresh
Haha! i need a massage myself lol!

[Asker]

Well he was definitely feeling me up and I know he knew he was but I don't think he was trying to make a pass. I'll give you his number and he can head over.

[PiuBelloAmante]

I mean do you like him?
lol! yeah send him over but if i feel something growing down there i am calling the police haha

[Asker]

No, he's my friend. If you call the police just tell me so I can go bail him out.

[PiuBelloAmante]

lol!

[CheeseLoveWhiz]

If you don't like it, just tell him. If you don't speak up , it could happen again and it will make him think that it's okay.

[Asker]

When he was focusing on my upper bum I pointed it out and he just said that my lower back was screwed up. I didn't want to persist.

[Ren-Riven]

Yes you should say something about it... He didn't even ask if it was okay?
My reflex would have been a kick.-.

[Anonymous]

Wow that is good

[Asker]

Huh?