Am I reading in to much to my friend giving me a massage?

[Anonymous]

So I have a friend (a guy who I used to like and he liked me it just didn’t work out and he is now dating someone else for 1 year) keeps offering me massages. I super appreciate it as I have a couple muscle issues and it really helps and helps me relax to the point most the time when I take him up on it when he is done im half asleep. Recently it has gotten a bit further. I let him convince me to take my shirt of so he could better dig into the muscles. I allowed it but it has since taken a step up. After he will lay down next to me and pull me so im laying on top of him and will ask if he can spend the night even if it is 6pm and he lives less then a block away (small college campus) I know he means nothing sexually but it feels wrong like he could still possibly like me and I’m scared im in the wrong and this is like emotional cheating. Do you think he still likes me? Do you think I should put an end to this? I feel guilty about this. Please

[SueShe]

What you are doing is indeed emotional cheating and you are on a good way to become a homewrecker.

You find all kinds of excuses not to stop him, even going as far as to allow him to sleep at your place. He has a girlfriend and what you do is passive homewrecking. It will not be long before you allow him to go one step further and then one step more until he is finally in you.

I don't know what kind of red flag you need to realize that your behavior is totally out of place and that you should get rid of that guy at once.

[Asker]

I never actually allowed him to sleep over

[Asker]

Me and him also believe in waiting till marriage for sex so it won’t go further and he is always the one to initiate anything

[DannyUk2017]

Sounds like the "date he has" he is kinda done with it, and the passion re-ignited in him for you, taking your shirt off and him having you on top, thats just pure..
I WANT YOU, i want you bad... but that can be just Sexual and not emotional involved. Unless you are ready just for a Fling and nothing more. 🤷‍♂️

[spartan55]

He wants to fuck.. duh.
And what are you doing getting massages and taking off your shirt with a dude who HAS A GIRLFRIEND? You just gloss over the fact that are being a gross homewrecker.

[Anonymous]

Lol he’s just trying to fuck or get a bj on the side. Don’t even have to read this whole post. Men know men just like women know women. We know what he’s trying to do.

[Anonymous]

I don't see anything wrong with this.

[Anonymous]

He wants sex