Do you mind if a girl falls asleep on your shoulder?

[Anonymous]

We were on a road trip and I was in the back seat with my friend and I ended up falling asleep for about an hour. I told him that I may fall asleep so just shake me off and push me to the other side. When I woke up he had his arm snaked around my waist and his head resting on mine. It didn't bother him right? His reaction was normal?

[ccp16]

No not bother... around the waist though, sounds like he may have been making a bit of a move...

I have a very good friend and she wants did exactly this on a long night bus ride. I did put my arm around her, and feel asleep on her, but more because it was far more comfortable than me trying to make any moves on her...

[Asker]

If you weren't making a move on your friend why would you assume my friend was?

[ccp16]

my hand was around her shoulders, not her waist... I don't know, it just depends on how his hand was placed I suppose. the waist is a bit more sexual than a shoulder haha

[Asker]

He just had it where his arm was in the crook of my waist and his hand was resting on my tummy.

[ccp16]

hmmm ya that is a full on wrap around and grip, i would say that was a move... unless he naturally did that after he fell asleep.

[Asker]

He didn't fall asleep...

[ccp16]

Oh yea, sorry I thought you had said he slept on you. I would say it was a move for sure then.

[Asker]

He didn't fall asleep he just rested his head on mine and relaxed. It could have been a move a guess...

[ccp16]

well it looks like me and the other commenters think so as well... form the sound of it, you are not very excited about this?

[Asker]

I mean he is VERY attractive and sweet but I just don't think it is worth the possibility to ruin a friendship.

[ccp16]

Ya I know what you mean, as I mentioned, one of my best friends in the world is a girl and she is a cutie for sure, but neither one of us pursued dating, but also because of a lack of romantic interest? It is hard to explain... But either way, he may try and a make move again... just be ready is all, but still be friends and treat him the same etc.

[ThisDudeHere]

If it were to bother him, you'd know. I think what he did was a sign of interest.

[complicated_soul]

I would not mind. My friends (girls) fall a sleep on my shoulder whenever they are sleepy. (In the bus)

And yeah, he didn't seem to mind. :p

[simplyadorable]

He's a good guy :) He definitely didn't mind, 1 hr is quite long too not to react if he's bothered by it. The arm snaked might mean something...

[cinderelli]

Awwww... that is so sweet... 😢

[Asker]

Huh?

[cinderelli]

I mean he is a good guy. A sweet one.

[Asker]

He is! 😊 A really great friend.

[cinderelli]

I just love these little sweet gestures.. ☺☺☺

[Saydou]

It's ok, but putting my hand on a friends waist is not suitable, i think

[Zendrya]

He probably likes you

[Anonymous]

I really don't think he minded.

[Asker]

You are completely sure?