We have known each other for 4 years and he has had a girlfriend for 3 years. Need advice on what to do?

[Anonymous]

He & I met in high school, graduated & are off to separate colleges. We have always had a deep connection. His girlfriend is average looking & a mean person. I'm everything she isn't in a good way! At school he would make sure he was able to sit next to me & make people move if they were in his way. During the summer we would go on adventures and have a blast (just him and me). Nothing ever sexual has happened. But he would constantly find reasons to touch me gently or play footsie. He honestly would pay more attention to me than his girlfriend. I know he loves her, he has told me that but just because you love someone doesn't mean you want to stay with them (ex. My current possessive/jealous bf). Anyway. His girlfriend got extremely angry with his & my behavior & destroyed our friendship. It wasn't till this summer that he & I made an effort to talk. He started constantly reaching out to me over text & social media & now his girlfriend is on vacation & he is continuing that behavior. I don't discourage it. We hung out & we were so happy to be with each other & he really opened up to me about what been happening in his life & the drama & how he isn't too thrilled about his girlfriend following him to college. Understandable. On top of that, some drunk texting took place a couple days later & he admitted he wanted me & was willing to be unfaithful. Now, I know that that means he may just want sex--but this has been going on for so long so I feel there is more to it. And I also know that his shady behavior could mean the same fate for me especially in college but I'm open minded & would be down for an open relationship during college if he wanted to "be with me" in the future. That way we can have fun and meet new people but still be "together." Seems worth it. Any input or advice would be helpful.

[Anonymous]

You need to tell your current boyfriend if you decide to have an open relationship with this guy. And he needs to tell his girlfriend as well. It's the right thing to do. Put yourself in their shoes for a second, think about how they would feel if they knew you were cheating on them and they thought was an exclusive relationship. As far as having an open relationship goes, you know what it means and if ur cool w it, then go for it.👍🏼

[Zeeshansheikh]

As a guy i am gonna tell you that this guy just want your body i mean sex with you and if this guy say just because you love someone doesn't mean you want to stay with them what if this guy boring with you and same line use to another girl? i am guy i dont whats your boyfriend think about you i may say that chack this till the end than start ralationship :)