Why I'm a girl repellent?

[medical2412]

Like girls have zero attraction for me

[Mistnigqa808]

"Why I'm a girl repellent?" I guess it's the opposite of the reason/s of why I'm a girl #attractor in real life. Since you'll never see me 2nd guessing myself, mopping around like a #LIL bitch, trying to seek ___'s approval nor impress them, walking around with my head down, have a negative #AURA surrounding me... overall I'm always laughing and or making others laugh + just trying to have a good time etc. So once a girl comes around me it's a good chance that she isn't going to be going anywhere anytime soon (speaking from exp) LOL. Since we'll always be friends after the ice has been broken ^_^.

Now judging from your post on here, you're the exact opposite + like @xXiTacoXx said "Because you take pictures in your underwear trying to show off the abs you don't have instead of just working on your personality and cleaning yourself up a bit. :T" and I can tell you 1st hand that most girl... well any respectable girl will probably not like a guy who's always showing off/trying to impress them in that manner. And if you're going to #FLEX your ___ yo ass betta how something worth looking at. And if ya don't... well ya may as well get ready for ___ to laugh at yo ass + dog you out to her all her friends thus making you a laughing stock + deterring those/other girls from hanging around you in the 1st place etc. #NeverFails

So basically just be yourself (meaning don't try to show off) and either the girls will come or they won't... at least you'll have some dignity left, right? ^_^

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[Mistnigqa808]

And a good personality can put you over the hump with girl/boys alike if done right ^_^

[xXiTacoXx]

QuQ Mist-sensei praised my comment. Yasss~ xD

[Mistnigqa808]

@xXiTacoXx + #dodgersgm made some good points/couldn't agree more LOL

[xXiTacoXx]

His fits into what I said about the asker working on his personality. He's right being a Debbie Downer is not attractive at all.

[Mistnigqa808]

@xXiTacoXx good grasshop ^_^

[DodgersGM]

Women can tell when you don't feel good about yourself, man. You calling yourself a "girl repellent" is no bueno, because they'll sense that and it puts them off, making it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I know it's so much easier said that done, but you've gotta like you and be damn proud of what you have to offer. You can make your way there, but it's gonna take some work. Like @Mistnigqa808 said, though, it'll really change your interactions with women. You'll see yourself as a prize, and that will help them see you the same way. It's
only natural that they'll want a guy who believes he's worth desiring, ya know?

[666threesixes666]

agree on self-fulfilling prophecy aspect. work on friendly, charming, and fun. =)

[Mistnigqa808]

"You'll see yourself as a prize, and that will help them see you the same way. It's
only natural" Goddamn you always say what I was trying to say but better >_< ^_^ LOL

[xXiTacoXx]

Because you take pictures in your underwear trying to show off the abs you don't have instead of just working on your personality and cleaning yourself up a bit. :T

[aficionado]

@xXiTacoXx

You said it! You deserve MHO!

[xXiTacoXx]

@aficionado Everyone should know me by now, and how I'm not an ass kisser I'll just tell it like it is. u3u

[Mistnigqa808]

#MHO right here <3

[xXiTacoXx]

@Mistnigqa808 Thanks Mist-sensei

@medical2412 I hope you know when I say work n your personality it means you shouldn't act sleazy in any sort of way. Act like a proper gentleman, but make sure you don't act like one of those desperate pussy worshipers that get on everyone's nerves. Make sure your standard aren't ridiculous, and even give those who you're not normally attracted to a chance. What I've noticed with most guys (usually the more "unattractive" ones) they're always mad about their type either not noticing them, or just being plain bitches meanwhile they ignore those girls who may not physically be their type, but they do often come with better attitudes and personalities. It annoys everyone when guys who are below the line of handsome have the nerve to complain about how the women who meet their super high standard never give them any mind meanwhile they look like Boogaloo Shrimp, and ignore those average kind girls because they don't meet said standards (continued)

[xXiTacoXx]

@medical2412 ... when it comes to looks.

[medical2412]

I don't even know what my standards should be like I said I never had a girlfriend

[xXiTacoXx]

I know, but often guys who have never had a girlfriend has never had one because their standards are nuts.

[medical2412]

OK bases on how I look what should I go for

[medical2412]

Like give me a girl on a number scale I could reasonably stand a chance with

[xXiTacoXx]

That depends on your look, and how you carry yourself. I'll help you find a style that'll work for you, but when it comes to the women you want to ask out just go for who you're emotionally attracted to.

[medical2412]

OK what kind of style would you like on me

[xXiTacoXx]

I think what matter more is that you're comfortable and stylish. So the question is what kind of style is that the you want to wear that makes you look good, and comfortable that you've never tried?

[medical2412]

i dont know i go with a lot of athletic wear like jordan shoes shorts shirts

[xXiTacoXx]

You should stop doing that unless you're heading to the gym.

[xXiTacoXx]

I'm going to put an outfit together for you in the fashion category and it'll be part of a question so please give me a moment.

[youknowitt]

They're just not attracted to you. You'll meet a girl who will:-) just be patient and don't complain about it. Complaining is a turn off.

[medical2412]

Not complaining just saying some people say its impossible to not have any girls like you byb me being single at 23 and never having a relationship blows that theory out of the water

[aficionado]

Maybe it's just the the girls you have come across, who aren't attracted to you. Does not mean NO girls are attracted to you.

[medical2412]

Dude no girls have been attracted

[aficionado]

Have you tried to determine the reason for this?

[medical2412]

I'm 23 and still trying to figure it out

[aficionado]

Welcome to the club, mate! I'm almost 29, and I'm not sure either! I wouldn't go as far as saying girls are 'repelled' by me, but they don't seem to be attracted to me either. Not that I'm making any real effort to go out there and meet more women, so I take a large chunk of the blame as well!

[I_am_repulsive]

Must be the way you act around them