My crush kissed someone else right in front of me?

Question

It hurt like a bitch. He was saying goodbye to this girl and he told her to give him a kiss. They aren't even dating. Can people really just platonically kiss like that? This happened a while ago but I can't get over it. I don't know if he knows I like him but apparently he likes me. Why would he kiss her if he likes me though? If the time comes should I tell him that I was hurt by it? I don't kiss other guys in front of him but I kinda want to now to make him jealous. This may sound immature so what should I do?

Answer 1

jjmarvin | 239 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Xper 7

One time my crush kissed someone in front of me after we kissed the previous day. My feeeels! T_T

Then one time this girl asked me if i liked her and asked if i wanted to be her boyfriend, then she avoids me and i see her holding hands with another guy. Afterward, like a month later, she tried to talk to me but i never spoke to her again. She was too heartless.

Asker

+1 y
That sucks I'm sorry that happened
jjmarvin

+1 y
I'm sorry for you too! :c

Answer 2

Asker

That sucks I'm sorry that happened

Answer 3

jjmarvin

I'm sorry for you too! :c

Answer 4

meatballs21

Master

He likes/liked you but what are you doing about it except sitting around watching him? He is not going to wait around for you, and the immature option (making him jealous) is not going to do you any favours.

Likewise, he's a crush. He doesn't owe you anything, he is not under any obligation to not kiss any girl he damn well pleases.

Asker

+1 y
I wasn't doing nothing about it I tried but he doesn't seem to find it as easy to interact with me unlike other girls. Even if he likes me or not it still sucks I am the only girl he acts this way around and the only way I could show interest at all is if I just came out and said how I feel but I don't want to make things awkward. Overall I just didn't know how to go about anything.

Answer 5

Asker

I wasn't doing nothing about it I tried but he doesn't seem to find it as easy to interact with me unlike other girls. Even if he likes me or not it still sucks I am the only girl he acts this way around and the only way I could show interest at all is if I just came out and said how I feel but I don't want to make things awkward. Overall I just didn't know how to go about anything.

Answer 6

pips11

Xper 6

Then he's not worth it. He is a 1 = A player 2= He isn't interested 3= He doesn't know you like him 4= He did it to get a reaction. Either way I would kick him to the crib and find someone worth your time

Asker

+1 y
I wouldn't consider him a player considering he rarely gets female attention or goes after anyone. I know it doesn't seem it from what I said but this was a one time thing. For the other ones I just don't know but I agree with you. Even if we are kinda friends should I just forget him completely?
pips11

+1 y
Girl to girl I have been there and trust me guys like to have their cake and eat it. The fact he did that infront of you proves he is a scum bag seriously consider moving on and don't waste time on him. Player or not what he did was wrong find a new crush
Asker

+1 y
The hard part is moving on. I have tried to hard but every guy I start seeing I am just not interested in because I still have feelings.

Answer 7

Asker

I wouldn't consider him a player considering he rarely gets female attention or goes after anyone. I know it doesn't seem it from what I said but this was a one time thing. For the other ones I just don't know but I agree with you. Even if we are kinda friends should I just forget him completely?

Answer 8

pips11

Girl to girl I have been there and trust me guys like to have their cake and eat it. The fact he did that infront of you proves he is a scum bag seriously consider moving on and don't waste time on him. Player or not what he did was wrong find a new crush

Answer 9

Asker

The hard part is moving on. I have tried to hard but every guy I start seeing I am just not interested in because I still have feelings.

Answer 10

dudegrt09

Yoda

What are you 15?

Asker

+1 y
Uh no... what's you're point?
dudegrt09

+1 y
because you're question does sound so immature as you have said yourself... he's not in a relation with you and how can you know he likes you... also guys kiss other girls when they are not in a serious relationship with anyone, I assumed that any adult should be knowing that, I mean no offence...
Asker

+1 y
I know it does. I'm almost sure he does like me though because of how he is around me and he has told others. He can be kinda shy so he doesn't exactly initiate these things with girls but my point was do people who are "just friends" do that? I am aware I kiss people too when I am single just not like that only when it is someone I'm hooking up with. I mean I don't platonically kiss my guy friends goodbye.
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dudegrt09

+1 y
doesn't seem like the shy kind of guy to me... he would have been direct with you and been wary of you while kissing someone if he really liked you, so in my opinion he's just not that into you, and no platonic friends usually don't kiss each other like this, probably a little peck would have been okay but not kissing for more than 2-3 seconds
Asker

+1 y
No that is how it was, it wasn't 2-3 seconds
dudegrt09

+1 y
Still the guy seems to be playing the field if you ask me

Answer 11

Asker

Uh no... what's you're point?

Answer 12

dudegrt09

because you're question does sound so immature as you have said yourself... he's not in a relation with you and how can you know he likes you... also guys kiss other girls when they are not in a serious relationship with anyone, I assumed that any adult should be knowing that, I mean no offence...

Answer 13

Asker

I know it does. I'm almost sure he does like me though because of how he is around me and he has told others. He can be kinda shy so he doesn't exactly initiate these things with girls but my point was do people who are "just friends" do that? I am aware I kiss people too when I am single just not like that only when it is someone I'm hooking up with. I mean I don't platonically kiss my guy friends goodbye.

Answer 14

dudegrt09

doesn't seem like the shy kind of guy to me... he would have been direct with you and been wary of you while kissing someone if he really liked you, so in my opinion he's just not that into you, and no platonic friends usually don't kiss each other like this, probably a little peck would have been okay but not kissing for more than 2-3 seconds

Answer 15

Asker

No that is how it was, it wasn't 2-3 seconds

Answer 16

dudegrt09

Still the guy seems to be playing the field if you ask me

My crush kissed someone else right in front of me?

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