I want to fuck my close guy friend?

[Anonymous]

So me and this guy have been friends for quite a while now and we always flirt around in a playful way. But lately I've been getting thoughts in my head about having sex with him, because he always does this thing where his way of saying "hi" to me is by slapping my ass, and that makes me feel some type of way.

We always hint at sexual things and flirt but how do I go about with telling him I want to fuck him?

He also always jokes about "one day me and you gon' end up somewhere together" but I don't know?

Should I tell him how I feel or if not how do I stop feeling this way?

[SomeKindOfPerson]

You can't really stop feeling that way. Personally, I wouldn't recommend coming out with it directly. Just take the flirting to a higher level if you can, so that your intentions are clear, but you can still back down if it doesn't work, even if only awkwardly. I don't think you'll need to though.

I really think you should figure out what you want from this thing. Just sex or something else. Or at least figure out that you don't know yet.

[Asker]

But up to what level could I take it? Give me an example

[AnonKuma]

You can't stop feeling this way once it goes it goes on and on until you do something about it (which is pretty much nothing you can do since all you have in your mind is having sex with him right now lol). You should just tell him how you feel since he obviously feels the same way and STRONG HINTS BRUH go go go

[Asker]

I think I'm going to tell him, hopefully he won't reject me, that'd be embarrassing :)

[AnonKuma]

It's very courageous, respectable and very sexy for you to confess your feelings. Yes, it would be embarrassing, but hey you showed some dominance, took the initiative and you should be proud of yourself despite what he is going to say at the end. Good luck~~~~~

[Asker]

thank you ;) I'll update you on how it went

[AnonKuma]

No problem and alright lol fighting~

[BilalDS]

so how?

[AnonKuma]

@BilalDS how what? LOL

[BilalDS]

how does it went -_-

[AnonKuma]

Bruh give her some time, I ain't eagerly waiting for her response/story of how it went LOL, then why should you literally the next day ask how it go when this shit is suppose to take more than a day to do. If a girl is going to be assertive, make the first move you gotta give her some time to get her courage together which can take days or a week, then she going to do it so just wait bro lol

[Asker]

I did it :)
I spent the night at his and it just naturally escalated from netflix and chill, I didn't even have to tell him anything

[archiz]

Then Fuck you re close guy friend lol :p
So friends with benefits now? ;)
Ok now, if you don't feel like telling him directly: hey I want you, wanna fuck? Which of course I can understand, try to go baby steps with him.
I mean his giving you sexual hints no? Do the same and see how he responds to it.
Touch him more, flirt more, talk dirty to him more and see how it escalates.

[pineappleshortcare]

You're going to catch feelings that he may not reciprocate.

I'm not of the opinion that females fall for every sex partner. But if she likes his company enough to actually be friends and she finds him sexy enough to sleep with, it's likely.

[Asker]

You make a good point :) I'm going to still tell him

[pineappleshortcare]

Don't tell him you want NSA if you don't, though. Just be honest. If you dig him, let him know.

[Asker]

I can't see him as more than a friend, I just want to have sex with him.

[Esplorare]

This is exactly why I either won't date a guy with "close female friends" or those bitches have to go as soon as I step into the picture.

[miamimi]

Girl if you want him im sure as hell if he's already feeling your ass he wants you to. Just make sure you use protection :') lol

[Asker]

OMG :') loool but what if he doesn't actually want to?

[miamimi]

Flirt with him make a move see if it gets further than third base lol

[lkjhg69cum]

Want to be friends? Haha. How about this get him away from people and say "Hey, do you. want to fuck the hell out of me? I am wet and ready I you want me." He may think you. are joking at first, but start taking your clothes off and he will jump you in a second. If he doesn't, then he isn't straight and you have a new shopping buddy.

[Asker]

ahaha I don't know why this comment made me laugh :) I'll tell him

[lkjhg69cum]

Get et done! Haha. Lucky bastard. Hope he is as good as you think he will be.

[Asker]

I did it :)
I spent a night at his house and it just naturally happened, I didn't even have to tell him anything we were watching a movie and.. yeah :)

[lkjhg69cum]

Good for you! That's awesome. He's a lucky bastard. Was it good?

[Asker]

it was mind blowing, especially since we both wanted eachother badly,
never had sex that amazing before.

[lkjhg69cum]

Awesome! He is doubly lucky then. Good, I am glad it worked out well for you. So, when is round 2?

[Asker]

oh trust me, there's already been many many rounds ;)

[lkjhg69cum]

😁 Hahaha, naughty girl! Well played honey, well played. So, are you two going to be able to stay friends with benefits or are you already catching feelings?

[Asker]

so far we're good as friends with benefits, feelings are too much trouble. I feel as if we're closer friends actually, but no feelings.. idont know where the future leads us but I live in the moment and right now it's just about pleasure

[lkjhg69cum]

I like it! A girl who knows what she wants. Well, he's lucky. I hope he remembers that. If not, let me know. Hahaha!

[Red_Arrow]

Next time he says "one day me and you gon' end up somewhere together" just respond with "When and where?" Game on!

[Asker]

ahaha fair enough didn't think of asking him because he'll always change the subject so quickly

[Red_Arrow]

Once you pop that question you can force him back onto it easily. And if he says he was only kidding *which I would not for a second believe) you should answer "If you get serious, talk to me again." If I was feeling close enough to be slapping some woman's ass, I would welcome the opportunity to have sex with her. If I was momentarily embarrassed by her agreeing suddenly and I backed out, her saying to chick back when serious would give me the opportunity to re-approach her once I had gotten over my momentary embarrassment. If he really was kidding, saying check back if you are ever serious allows him to just drop it and continue being friends.

Let us know how it works for you. :-)

[Asker]

thanks for the advice, I'll suggest it to him face to face when I next see him (:

[Xelebrum]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=24CPil1scVg

YES YOU CAN!

[Asker]

you made me actually laugh out loud Oh my God :)

[Xelebrum]

I tend to have that effect on people 8)

[dudegrt09]

OMFG LOL

[CountVronsky]

If he's slapping your ass and making those jokes, he wants it as much as you do. Just tell him: "Let's get this over with. I know you wanna fuck me. Let's do this."

[Asker]

Oh my God, but what if he turns me down, what happens to our friendship then?

[CountVronsky]

Are you serious or is this a troll? If you're serious, then really, it can't get more evident than that. He wants to fuck you. He won't turn you down, and your friendship won't end.

[Asker]

I'm not trolling I promise, but I'm just anxious in case my approach goes wrong.

[Asker]

should I tell him face to face?

[CountVronsky]

You can message him if you think you'll feel more comfortable in doing so.

[Asker]

I think I'll say it to his face, thanks for the advice (:

[CountVronsky]

You're welcome :)

[stubbsy]

Well next time he says something that might suggest he's flirting for sex, just say to him, "yeah promises promises" this way you are letting him know your on board without coming directly out with it, which saves any uncomfortable embarrassments, x

[AidenBlue]

He's thought about plowing you more than once. I guarantee it. Up to you if you want to take it there. He will go for sure.

[Asker]

LOL thanks, I'm going to tell him

[Thor696]

Why do you have to tell him. Just wear something provocative and encourage the flirting. He'll get the message.

[Asker]

Fair enough

[ObscuredBeyond]

Pray and set boundaries with him. Nothing else will curb your urges. Reaching out was the right first step.

[Asker]

Oh alright, thanks for the advice :)

[howzit2015]

ask him to a movie and wiki the movie so you know what happens. Place a bet saying if this thing occurs he has to kiss you! You already won! After the kiss invite to your house!

[dudegrt09]

Well you can be pretty direct, if he'll be interested he'll respond otherwise he'll politely refuse, you've got nothing to lose, I don't think he'll end the friendship because of it

[Asker]

but then won't the friendship get a little weird and we'll distance?

[Xelebrum]

Only if you let it happen

[dudegrt09]

I don't think so, guys usually don't pay much heed to it

[Asker]

Oh alright, thanks :)

[Anonymous]

Just get him alone either at his place or yours and wrestle him to the ground. Or you could smack his ass, he'll respond by smacking yours, then you stroke his crotch. At that point, it's ON!

[Asker]

ahaha thanks for the advice :)

[Opinion Owner]

No prob! let me know how it goes! :P

[Asker]

It happened naturally actually! :) I kept not wanting to tell him then one night I spent the night at his house and we were watching a movie and well, it happened :)

[Opinion Owner]

Do tell! How did it happen?

[Asker]

the sneaky little bastard he is put on that movie with mila kunis and justin timberlake about friends with benefits and when it came to the first sex scene in the movie he just put himself on top of me and it just escalated from there to a lonngggggg night ;)

[Opinion Owner]

Awesome! Congrats! How many rounds did you go?

[Strider90]

Please GaG girls, tell me more about how girls and guys can be ''just friends''.

[Asker]

I won't lie I sometimes find it difficult to be just friends with guys I find attractive. It's not hard if I'm not attracted to the guy.

[Strider90]

If you're not attracted to the guy, then he is attracted to you, but he is not your friend. Simple as that.

[Asker]

never thought of it that way...

[Anonymous]

If you want to fuck him, by all means do. Stop all these questions in your head.

[Anonymous]

have him over to watch a movie and just let one thing lead to another ;) be safe hahaha

[Opinion Owner]

by the way let us know how it goes for you :P haha

[Asker]

ahaha I will, "netflix and chill" I guess :)

[kaungg1231]

How did that turn out? Now you guys still sex friends?

[Katieharrison]

control your whoremones

[Asker]

hilarious :|

[pooper89]

Just tell him. I don't think he'd reject you.

[Asker]

Hopefully he wont! I'm going to tell him :)

[sthudig]

Just fuck him already.

[Anonymous]

So do it, he won't say no.

[Asker]

I'm going to tell him face to face I think

[Naughtyboy71]

Tell him you want him to fuck you