Does my guy friend from work wanna fuck me?

[Anonymous]

Hi guys! I’m 28, guy friend is younger 22. He said I could sleepover last night if I want, he said I could sleep on the couch or his bed or whatever etc. we got drunk and were watching a movie and he’s said in the past I’m really pretty he’s also said he wouldn’t wanna date a coworker. He recently keeps making comments about quitting soon. So I slept over and in my sleep at one point his arm was laying on mine then I think he woke up or whatever and moved away a little but this happened again. Do you think he wanted something to happen physically or what are his motives potentially?

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so he saw me looking at Tiffany and co necklaces and he has some cash cus he’s getting a new car soon and said “you know I could literally buy you one right now” I would never let him and of course he’s using it for his car but doesn’t him saying that mean something? He also heard me tell someone I want a Stanley for school and he told me not to buy one so he can get me one, we both had bdays recently so we’d be swapping gifts not just him spending money on me but isn't that boyfriend behavior?

[AviatorTom]

Of course he does, but he doesn't want to risk his job... and yours.

Remember that guys have two brains. The one at the end of his penis is saying Yes, but the one in his head is saying No, not yet.

[Asker]

Do you think he’s going to try to fuck me when he quits soon? He’s mentioned in the past his aversion to dating a coworker but he’s also said he’d date me

[AviatorTom]

Do you want him to? Sounds like yes, and after he quits, it would not surprise me for you two to be intimate.

[Asker]

I do but I want him to make the first move… I wonder if he’ll try once he quits as he’s said before he’d date me if we didn’t work together

[Tim2nice]

It sounds like you’re both shy. One of you has to suggest sex. You could tell him you’d like him to touch you and take it from there

[Flatmanlewis]

He’s just scared to do anything. Chances are you two barely slept that night. Men do not have ‘sleepovers’ with girls they don’t want to sleep with.

[Asker]

Right plus the accidental leaning his arm in mine maybe he was asleep when it happened but even so lol 😂 we did barely sleep. Will he be more likely to make a move next time

[Flatmanlewis]

No. He’s racked with doubt now. If you want to see things progress just make a move and get things going. A timid man is a timid man. It’s not opportunity he’s lacking, it’s confidence.

[Asker]

I’m scared to make a move but do you think he accidentally laid on me? Should I touch him in a flirty way and see what he does

[Flatmanlewis]

Why are you scared? If he sincerely invited you over for just a slumber party then you aren’t losing anything since he’s clearly a weird dude. If you do make a move then you break him out of his shell. You really have nothing to lose.

[Bendi21]

I don't know the full back story. But from this he definitely wanted to

[Asker]

Fuck then why didn’t he try? And was his arm on mine an accident cus he was asleep? I didn’t move away … I wonder if now that I’ve laid next to him he’ll try next time?

[Bendi21]

Cuz he was shy prolly. Try to make the first move next time if he won't. Make small steps slowly getting into sex. Like a touch first, then kiss, then slowly take off his shirt etc.

[spartan55]

What are your motives?

[Asker]

I would fuck him but not sure cus if he wanted to why didn’t he just try

[spartan55]

He doesn't know you are interested.

[AustColombiangirl]

just let him fuck you, it's just sex

[BrookeS]

Good advice

[Pterodon]

He wants to fuck. Do you?

[Asker]

I do! Why didn’t he try then was he just shy?

[Pterodon]

Shy and why didn’t you just tell him?

[Asker]

lol I’m shy as well I was waiting for him to make a move, maybe now that I’ve slept beside him he’ll feel more bold to try? Or when he quits?

[Pterodon]

Oh come on. Just grab his cock and kiss him

[spartan55]

@asker
Is supposed to just know you want to fuck by reading your mind? Show him you are interested and stop doing nothing.