Ladies - Do You Find "Lone Wolf" Men As Sexy? (Page 2)

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It's funny... in our society today, people are afraid of doing things by themselves. For example, my Mom stays inside the house all day long on the weekends and is always bored. When I ask her why she doesn't go out and do something, she says she wants someone to go out with or it won't be fun.

When I go to the gym, night clubs, bars, etc... you always see other women with their friends or guys with their friends. It seems people get to used to being around other people and cannot function correctly if they have to do things alone.

I am 25, and over the years, all of my friends moved around to different locations around the USA and lead different lives. I still talk to them, but we obviosuly aren't hanging out (since they live in different states) With that, I had to learn to adapt to being alone and doing my own thing. On weekends, you can find me doing the following:

-Going to the bookstore, coffee houses or restaurants.
-Going to the gym to workout or take fitness classes
-Walking around the park or sitting down on a bench and reading a book
-Going to the mall to look around and people watch
-Going downtown and just walking around
-Going to bars, clubs, lounges and strip clubs

I do all of these activities alone. When people in these venues ask me who I am with, I laugh at them and tell them I am alone and I create my own party and they are usually shocked and amazed. One woman told me that it is incredible sexy when a man doesn't need anyone to have fun.

What is your take on this? Do you view a man who is always alone and doing his own thing as strange? Do you think this is a sexy trait to have?

JSmuve · Answer

I've been doing things on my own for years, mostly out of circumstance rather than choice. I've been doing it for so long its like second nature to me.

I can't understand how some people can't do errands unaccompanied or always need someone there. Its mind boggling.

Anonymous · Answer

It's important to be able to enjoy things both alone and together. It's important to actually do things both alone and together. Any of the two extremes would be weird.
Imagine someone who on the other hand is always hanging around half a dozen people and can't be without them. Weird. But completely lone wolf is weird too.
Personally, I'm more of an introvert, so I'd aim for 51% of the time alone and 49% of it with other people.

Anonymous · Answer

Nah, I generally do things on my own, sometimes with my friends. Your not dependent on them which is good. Nothitg weird about it at all, or antisocial. And if you were anti social who cares? Yo I can work on that, I swear people think it's some type of disease or something

Anonymous · Answer

I don't find it strange, but I don't find it sexy either. It is what it is.

I am similar, in that I or friends moved away, and only stay in contact once in a while. I do everything by myself and actually enjoy it. I can easily make new friends if I wanted, but doing things alone doesn't seem troublesome to me.

REALisRARE · Answer

I don't think it's strange at all. If anything I think it shows that they are confident and comfortable with themselves. I'm also more of a loner myself though so maybe its just that we are one in the same. 😜

OrdinaryGentleman · Answer

I don't know how i am, i just do me, if there is people great if not i am still doing me. I get really bored with a lot of conversations so it feels straightforward to not be so involved. I will entertain people, but i certainly don't rely on them. Meh just doing my thang

ShepherdOfFire99 · Answer

I prefer to date loners. In my experience they've had a better work ethic, are street smart, and have 100x better morals 👌👍 Plus its sexy they can fend for themselves.

abzence · Answer

Most people are extroverts so an introvert or a "lone wolf" as you call it might appear weird for some.  Extroverts need social interaction to function. Introverts need temporary solitude to function.

isthatarose · Answer

Eh it could mean they are anti social personality better known as sociopathic. in that case. it does not appeal to me. its okay to be alone but to be a loner. i dont think i'd like that. i would want my guy to have a social life. its healthy.

Razanmeow18 · Answer

I'm a lonerwolf girl and I don't care if a guy is a loner or not but sometimes loner guys are sexy.
But I really really want to understand people who think being a loner is strange, seriously what's wrong with being a loner? IT IS TOTTALY OKAY!

IamHungry · Answer

I'm actually quite surprised by these results. I'd paint myself into the Lone Wolf category; I travel a lot for business and often find myself in different states/countries where it's just me. Spent 80% of my year last year in hotels on business just rocking room service and getting paid; only "home" long enough to do laundry and line up a new engagement.

devilish-cutie · Answer

I find it attractive as being independent and not sheep in society. but if you are always alone I don't think I could date someone who is not social cause I am and I like someone who likes to socialize too

LittleSally · Answer

It's fine... Nothing special... People watching on the other hand - creepy.

Enaya · Answer

Lone who can open up is good, otherwise they are ones that are depressed and just go nuts on people. I liked a loner recently who opened up to me and really let me see the true him.

TheBraveLion · Answer

I'm a lone wolf too right now, I like to do things on my own, if I want to watch something at the cinema and friends don't want to come... I'll fucking go, likewise with the gym and other places, I don't care.

blacksquall85 · Answer

Those who follow the pack will only go as far as the pack. The lion and tiger may be more powerful, but the wolf does not perform in the circus.

ovodm · Answer

Besides it showing independence it makes me think they are content with themselves. It takes a certain level of confidence to do certain things by yourself and be happy.

9mfeo · Answer

I have always found there to be a strong correlation between solitude and lack of social skills, usually not in an endearing way either. So, no. I don't find loners sexy.

DesiDoo · Answer

Im a loner so of course I hope my guy is a loner as well!!

Humping_Tornadoes · Answer

I agree and sympathize with a lot of what you said.

I think you're good with women if you are a lone wolf, as long as you can also function normally within groups or hanging out with others (when you have to at least).

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