How do I become un-single?

[cboy101]

I have been single since just before Christmas.

I have been wanting a girl friend for a while now but I'm not that gr8 at talking to girls really. any help would be awesome. I am a romantic type, sing and play guitar .. I love singing for people yeah anything that could might help would be awesome:)

[bobair]

Many guys ask "how do I get a girlfriend" but very few men are willing to really learn...

If you're a MAN who REALLY wants to know how to get girls, then here's an honest answer...

There are four foundations to the development of a "Player." And before you say "I don't want to be a player" listen up - a Player is a guy who's great with women. This doesn't mean anything else. I'm not talking about tricking women, I'm talking about seducing them.

Foundation 1)

Inner Game. If your inner game sucks then your game with women will suck. You must root out all of your insecurities, and you must do it every day for the rest of your life.

Almost every guy who fails with women is because the thoughts in his head are preventing him from taking appropriate action OR they're causing him to behave in an unattractive way.

So get your head right first. Go read books by Anthony Robbins that help you develop inner confidence. Go read anything by Don Ruiz who teaches you how to love yourself AND how to love others. And obsess about this.

When your mind is free of insecurities, and full of self love you'd be amazed at how quickly women in your life notice. When you're so full of self happiness it seeps into everyone around you, and brings women into your life that you didn't know even existed.

Foundation 2)

Attraction. Read everything you can that explains the misunderstandings of female attraction. Start with my article here: link

Attraction is about tension. If you're a laughing fool, or you joke too much then you'll be killing the tension AND killing her attraction. If you're too serious she'll feel too much tension and she'll find you creepy.

Google "attraction women" and you'll be amazed at what you learn. 99% of men will never do this. Don't be like them. Get smart.

Foundation 3)

Rapport. Look at the word relationship. It has the word relate right in it.

Learn how to relate to people and you'll be able to immediately create rapport with them. Not only will this make everyone automatically like you but it's amazing at pulling women. Google "how to build rapport." And read "How to make friends and influence people." That whole book is about building rapport.

Just remember, don't build rapport with her until you've gained attraction.

Foundation 4)

Always be escalating. Always be moving the relationship forward, even if really slow. Most guys who are single, or who are "just friends" are guys who didn't take action. Don't be a p**** - go learn some stuff!

Breast of luck dude!

~ Robby

My Blog: link

[ryanontario]

i don't know ask someone out maybe ? that might be a start or get out there and meet some new girls

[girl89]

Just be true to yourself and smile enjoy being single for the time being. You can't stay single forever with all that talent you got there.