I'm about 179cm...
So short is to me when she is 20-25cm shorter than me, and that's real short. (cute and petite)
As with everything I cannot expect something of the appearence from the girl I am 'possibly' falling in love with, and I prefer not to do so. Eventhough its really tempting sometimes to picturing my "dream girlfriend". Even if I try to, there are so many pictuers appearing in my mind, that I cannot really sum exactly how my "dream" girlfriend would look like.
But sure I do have a "kinda" ideal height for a girl, she should be a bit shorter than me, whether its 1.5cm or 15cm I concider it as a "ideal" height. Or maybe at the same height, it doesn't matter. But it'll be harder to fit into my pre-visually ideal if she is taller/much taller than me, cause usually tall girls isn't my thing. But maybe someday I'll change my mind(?) who knows =)
I remember reading how the general psychological choice (now this is just general, not always) is that males find a mate who is around 0.7 of their height to be most attractive. It's a ratio (1-0.7) so any height can do. Also there are many couples who DON'T satisfy this ratio, it's just a subtle trend thing.
As for actual heights, I think (I Think) somewhere around 5'6" - 5'9" is average and any shorter or taller is, well, shorter or taller.
But it's also personal; If a guy's short (say, 5'7") he's not just looking around for a girl who's shorter and satisfies the ratio, he's also looking at girls that are as tall as, or taller than him. For me, being 6'2", I like shorter girls, but if I met a tall girl (my height or even taller) I wouldn't be adverse to dating her.
Just be happy and confident with your height. Don't hate on small women and call them chowawas like the other poster - don't hate on tall women and call them amazons either.
5'4 is actually the average height for a woman.
I am only 5'1, and it has been hard but I've learnt to embrace my size and just laugh it off if people make fun of me. Confidence is sexy no matter what height.
lol I'm 6ft my boyfriend is like 6'3 it is rough finding tall guys but mostly they don't care usually they're like I looove long sexy legs and when your short its cute and adorable so you can't really go wrong either tall and sexy or short and cute :) plus lucky you can wear any heels and fit into kids sizes lol
Im a 16 year old girl and im 5'8 and 113 pounds and I think most men like 5'8 and lower but it dosent matter about what your height or weight is love is love it comes in all shapes and sizes!!! ( and if your a tall girl like 5'8 or taller and someone says your to tall say "well your to short" ) !!! :)
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I would prefer to date girls who were chest height, so do the math. I'm 6'0 you're 5'4, so you would be around a guy that size shoulder height. It depends on the guy because some guys are 5'4 so a girls your size would be too tall. 5'4 for a guy my size is perfect anything under 5 feet may be a problem. So average sized guy likes girls between 5'0 and 5'7. Short- under 5 feet average or preferable between 5'0- 5'7. acceptable 5'8-5'10 too tall 5'11 and up. It would be different for a guy lets say shaqs size. But for the average guy this is best, so you are just fine the way you are. Guys don't like girls as tall or nearly as tall as them.
5'3 and below is short (girls that height are my kryptonite I love them)
5'4- 5'8 is average usuly the ones who look good in everything
5'9-6'0 is tall always the ones the other 2 groups envy for their height
6'1 + is Amazon woman and kinda scares me..
i love almost all heights of women and have happily dated women of all size shape and personality. but I have to say that fun sized is the best to me so all the girls under 5'0 and over 18.. call me...lol jk
I've noticed if you don't make a big deal about height girls won't either.. If you are not confident then you tend to always choose smaller girls.. I personally don't find short girls attractive. Sorry. I'm 5'7 successful guy with some resources. So, I date girls that are at least my height or taller. I like tall gorgeous women by my side. They look amazing in anything from cocktail dress to workout gear. Last weekend I met a 6 foot blonde and brunette both with beauty queen like proportions one was a model. Both stunningly beautiful. Things are going good with one of them so we shall see.
If you have the opportunity and the balls, date a tall beautiful woman like 5"11 or so. It feels like you stepped out of a Lamborghini. ;-)
male 5'9"
female 5'4"
I consider those averages ideal.Two or three inches shorter or taller may be considered short or tall, depending on build and general appearance (some can tend to look more or less than actual). Generally I would consider two inches difference to still be average (perhaps 25-75 percentile or half of everyone is two inches more or less than average).
I'd say short is below five four, medium is below five eight, but above the short range, and tall is anything else. As far as the ideal height... I really don't know. I've dated women that were five eleven and 4 eleven, both of which were very attractive young women... I think normally I'm attracted to girls around 5 foot sixish. In the end personality trumps all height discrepancies.
i don't know I kinda got a thing for really short girls. that said I have also been out with really tall girls that were also beautiful. Don't really matter. I am a short guy and that doesn't make me any less of a man, though some women would never go out with me because of that. because of that I don't think I could discriminate women as either too tall or too short
as long as you're not short enough to technically be considered a dwarf or midget or so tall that I'm looking at your belly button, it's fine with me. I don't have an ideal height and I don't see why people obsess over it.
I love being short! I'm 5'0 and I love it, people always tell me it's cute and it just generally makes me feel cute, especially when I'm in sweatpants. Not to mention I can always wear whatever heels I want and not be taller than most guys
i am 4' 10.2" and my guy is 5'10" and I love it, I feel safe and protected with him, I like to walk on the curb while he walks just off the curb, makes us closer height wise lol!
everyone mocks my height though :(
Um i guess 5'0 is good? or below that i guess is short :/ but a girl thats is 5'2 or 5'3 is very cute i like short girls cuz my gf when ever she wants to kiss me she jumps on me and i hold her by the hips and we kiss and i think thats really cute. I mean EVERY tall boy needs a short girl ;)
5' 4" is a nice height. A little on the short side, but there's nothing wrong with that.
I've dated girls as short as 4' 10" and as tall as 6' 1".
I'm most naturally attracted to girls on the shorter end of the spectrum.
Most men in the world are in height range 175-185 and women 160-170 so yeah thats it but end of the day height hardly equals love or lust at 5'10" i love looking at girs close to my heigbt and even shorter. Also in men, some great looking heartthrobs have been 5'7"-
I am 6ft tall 200 pounds and I love short girl, around 5ft is the best! When I see a short girl its a HUGE turn on, I just want to grabe her over my shoulder with one arms and bring her home! you can grabe her easily, this is just... wow! yea!
Short girl have also nice curves over her bodie, that hot.
it actually depends on how the tall the guy is and what the guy likes for himself
it depends on the guy like if he's 6'5 he will want a shorter girl and if like the girl is 5 feet she will want a taller guy
usually if the guy is taller and the girl is shorter it works out for both
like 5'4 and under would be short to me and 5'4 to 5'11 would be average and 6 and over would be tall to me because I'm 6ft
Between 5' and 5'6" would be ideal for me. I can deal with 6' but much taller then that and I got to stand on my toes to kiss her.
im 6 ft 1
Ideal for a girl would be around 5ft 8.
Basically, slightly taller and fit but curvy.
Umm, basically not like insanely short (like 5'2" and under) or crazy tall (5'11" and up) is fine. lol
I'm just 5ft. I'm short and stumpy and I really don't like it. But a lot of guys like small girls (height wise) my BFF is 6ft and her fiance is 6.3ft. he loves it because he doesn't have to bend down to kiss her.
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