Married man asked me (single woman) to lunch?

[Anonymous]

Do you immediately think:
a) wants to go to lunch with just a work colleague
b) is testing the waters for sex/an affair

Wants to go to lunch with just a work colleague

is testing the waters for sex/an affair

[serious]

Well, that will by and large depend on what kind of a person he is and what is his personality/thinking. If he is a man of character then you will have nothing to worry about, he is only asking as a colleague.

[JPSAM]

just don't.
unless there is a third person in that lunch.

[BellePepper]

I feel like it has the potential to go badly. Like you can try it but if he talks about anything other than work or tries to pay for you bail.