Is my boyfriend a wimp?

[Anonymous]

I Would say fag, but I know many people get offended. So I'm just going to put it like this. My boyfriend texted me early in the morning, before I had even woken up. He said "baby cakes, I need you here now." Obviously, being sleep I didn't see the text. So when I woke up about 4 hours later and this was how I conversation went.

Me:bae I was sleep sorry. Wats wrong?
Him:I was lonely and my tummy was hurting sweetie I need you to come kiss it.
Me: bruh go back to sleep.
Him:but i need your kiss please hun
Me:😘go to sleep now it's too early.
Him: real kisses bunny cakes real kisses! I won't settle for anything less.

He is nineteen by the way. He seems nice but he is on the verge of going back to being single. What guy would text this to their girlfriend if they want to keep being her boyfriend. He sounds retarded. Smdh

[redeyemindtricks]

Ok, look. Are you interested in helping him? Whether or not YOU are ultimately the woman who benefits from the help?

Here's what you can do.

• Print out some of the text exchanges.
• Put them in front of him.
• Ask him: "If you were looking at this... who would you think was the girl?"

BAM.
Kick in the gut.

Who's the girl?

Have him play the "Who's the girl?" game with EVERY FUCKING PIECE OF COMMUNICATION, for the next couple of weeks or so -- even stupid trivial things like "see you at 8". Every piece.
It's an easy game to play, and it's frighteningly effective. Most men have NO IDEA what they are doing, and just how badly they are fucking up -- until you throw their own communication in front of their faces, and say... "Who's the girl?"

Who's the girl?

Yep.

Even if you've decided that yr done with this dude... Play that game, with him.

In fact, why don't you just go ahead and play that game with him, WITH THE OBJECTIVE of pissing him off. Like, TRY to get him mad.
WE don't care if you call him a "fag" on here, because we don't know you, or him, at all, and we kinda don't care. LOL
But... HE cares.
See if you can get under his skin a bit. Tease him about how he's a damn girl, communication wise. He's doing the texting equivalent of ending his sentences with that upward question-type inflection (OMG I CAN'T EVEN). Ask him if his period's coming up... mb you can pick up some pads or some tampons for him.
haha...

But, really. Mb he'll get pissed off in the RIGHT way. Mb he'll take control of the situation, and understand YOUR thoughts, and adjust the way he communicates for the better... and perhaps, just mb, he'll even fuck you the way a man's SUPPOSED to fuck a pissed-off woman. <3

Or mb he'll just get mad like a little bitch-boy, and then you can confirm that the decision to get rid of him is, indeed, the correct decision.

Eh.
I mean, if you think he might actually get violent, then, do this somewhere where you have a safe exit. But, otherwise, GO FOR IT. Putting a boy in this kind of situation will reveal much about his character.

[FakeName123]

And he will end up wanting to be the girl in the relationship so OP gotta get one of those things that poke. #backfiring101

[redeyemindtricks]

@FakeName123 haha nooooooo

[FakeName123]

You never know ;)

[chintita]

hahahaha i wish you were my sister you have the best advice

[redeyemindtricks]

@chintita You can be mah #honorarylilsis <3

[chintita]

wooh :D

[redeyemindtricks]

@chintita But, that shit with boys saying sentences that sound like questions, though.
Please, please tell me that isn't happening where you live, too... Is it?
o_O

[chintita]

lol i hope not, angolan guys are very macho :P thank god

[spuitkaas]

Honestly I would be turned off as well. It kinda sounds like he doesn't take himself seriously and wants you to play some sort of motherly role, more as a girlfriend.
I read some comments and you guys have only been together for a month. It's normal to find something that turns you off that much to break up over it. You guys are just not compatible and you've already tried to talk about it and I'm afraod it won't change anytime soon.
Some girls might like it to be called sweet names and to take care of their boyfriend like a baby and some girls don't. Like me and you.
Just wanted to tell you that you're not a heartless monster.

[helpmejack]

What was the point of not saying fag when your first sentence brings it up anyway? I don't think anyone who would have been offended is going to be any -less- offended. XD

Anyway, honestly, that sounds like annoying behavior. He was probably just trying to get you to come over, but he took a terrible approach and I would be super turned off by that as well. That is the exact kind of behavior that causes breakups for me, haha. Very childish. Kinda clingy. He'd probably be more compatible with a different type of girl.

[kaylaS91]

You think your boyfriend is a wimp for having a stomach ache?
Sorry hun, you're the one who sounds ill in the head. Clearly failing to grasp the basic concept that males are just as human as girls.

[Asker]

Its not the stomach ache. Its the "come over and kiss my tummy" "baby cakes" "hunny" "darling". Excuse me for not enjoying that kind of shit I just don't go for that. I'm not that kind of person to make up pet names and speak like a child why would I want to date one?

[kaylaS91]

well... fair argument to say you're not into that kind of talk. If you feel like him talking in that sort of way is a deal breaker after just one time, though, you're clearly not satisfied with the relationship in whole so yes, do break up with him and find someone who will have the emotional capacity of a rock.

[orphan]

I agree with you. a persons choice of words say a lot about them. I myself have been caught between using the word tummy or stomach. I always go with stomach.

come kiss my tummy sounds gay.

[Asker]

He doesn't have to be a rock but the point is, it isn't just one time. Its all the time. Every time I see him. He never can just chill out for five seconds or call me by my real name.

[Asker]

@orphan thank you. You understand

[kaylaS91]

... have you ever thought of telling him how you feel? He's not a mindreader, y'know.

[Asker]

Yup and by the way I said that in like ten other comments. I told him plenty of times to call me by my name, to not day weird stuff to me and I think I have been a pretty good girlfriend so far. My personality might not appeal to whoever doesn't like it but oh well. At some point you have to realize when your irritating somebody nonstop and not doing anything to change it.

[Billlewis]

I agree with Ms. Asker, and I think she's 100% right.

[Kountry_King]

He's not a wimp he's very in tune with his emotions. Most guys don't even show emotions because guys and girls call them wimps' and fags. You should br happy to have a guy like this and not an asshole. Maybe you're tired and you felt like this or he was over doing it that morning but tell him that. Who leaves a guy because they're emotional and affectionate or wants affection from his girlfriend?

[Asker]

This isn't okay with me. I don't want to date somebody who tells me to come over and kiss his tummy. He doesn't sound like a man. Sorry if you don't like it but that's how I feel. I feel like he is more like a friend and a kid than my boyfriend and a grown man.

[Mesonfielde]

I am in tune with my emotions and THIS is not it.

[Kountry_King]

Yeah I had a problem with it but its not my partner and neither are you that's why I said tell him you don't like this especially in the morning and @mesonfield I also said he over did it.

[JuanShisuko]

I agree that it isn't exactly the best of ways to address your partner. If it bothers you that much you should talk to him about it and tell him it's not something you like him to do.

If that's all there is to it, I don't think it's worth ending a relationship over, though.

[Asker]

I have talked to him but he doesn't take me seriously when I say I don't like it. I mean what I say though, it seriously turns me off. And I started dated him solely because he was funny and goofy and fun to be around, not because I actually liked him. I thought I liked him at first but I see that I don't and continuing this farse of a relationship is just playing us both.

[JuanShisuko]

Sounds like it's a pretty serious thing for you then. By all means, do what you feel you have to do. Best of wishes. :)

[Mesonfielde]

I wanted to disagree with you, but I think you're right.

[Asker]

I honestly don't know why someone would want to disagree with me. These girls are quick to say I'm being a bitch. Like, I can not like a behavior and I break up with him if I think it's overboard. I don't do pet names and all that. I can deal with it occasionally but this is everyday with him. If we aren't compatible we just aren't, it is what it is. I wouldn't expect to be all clingy and weird to any guy and expect him to be like "hey i REALLY like that weird clingy childish girl."

[Mesonfielde]

By default I tend to disagree with anything that has to do with "not being manly enough" because I see no merit in forcing people to be callous, but in THIS case it's not his emotions that are the problem, it's literally his language usage. And it makes him sound like an annoying immature clingy twat.

I've only ever called my girlfriend "dear" once and that was when I asked her out, I have been using her real name since. As such, pet names are quite clearly just a nope to me... And it irks me just as much as you.

Bunny cakes... Man, I'd be offended.

[chintita]

he wants you to comfort him for some reason, you shouldn't be annoyed with him because it might be for some deeper reason. if he's doing this because that's his personality, needy, and you don't like it then leave him because you obviously like macho men.

[DaniaMQ]

I'm honestly failing in seeing what's the strange thing here.., like.. What's the problem? I'm not getting it! 😅

even if i have no idea why you are about to break up with him for only what he said above.. I think you should just tell him what u didn't like.

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

That's so cute! if my boyfriend texted me like this I'd def. come over and do as he says.
I don't think this is him being a wimp or "fag", I think it's just adorable.

[Asker]

I guess calling him names was a little mean but I'm frustrated. I think he would be better off with a different girl, somebody who acts and thinks more like him. I feel bad becaus I thought he was a good dude and he is, an amazing person. But as far as boyfriend material, to ME personally, its a no. I'm not speaking to you personally sweetheart because your still young and I don't talk to youngens in a disrespectful manner but for the women on here who have so much bad to say about how I feel about this, they can kiss my ass and cone have him. Like, at this point I don't even want to be his girlfriend because at the end of the day, were too different. My upbringing is different from his. Saying that weak ass shit would get him shot if he grew up where I came from. I really liked his personality but just as a friend. I need somebody serious, who knows me well and can understand and relate to me. Am I wrong for that?

[SweetHomicidalQueen]

I understand that and don't discredit me due to my age, I try to be a well-rounded individual.
The name calling was a bit unnecessary but that's okay. Maybe you should break up with him, not because of the example you gave above but because of how different you two are. It's not unusual for this to happen, and maybe you can try to stay friends.

[FakeName123]

He is a wimp, a pushover and dependant on you. And apparently thats not what you arein. So it seems like you will have to have a serious talk about it with him and explaining yourself. Make sure to bring it across in a way that it doesn't seem like you don't want to cuddle and all, but that he needs to grow a pair.

Else this relationship is about to be doomed - if it isn't already if I see your very lacking interest in him in your reply.

[Anonymous]

Hey. It could be guy code.

In which case stomach ache is "I probably need to urgently go to the hospital but lets tone it down a bit." and making some light fun of it with you is his way of managing that.

Or maybe he's just trying to be sweet in a clumsy way. Either way you're overreacting. I'm sure he's still a real tiger if the wolves close in. Nothing to worry about there.

[Asker]

I wish I had explained but he always acts like this. The stomach ache was just the example I used, he acts like this all the time. Its like he has no manliness about him at all.

[Opinion Owner]

Honestly I don't feel I need to be that manly around my girlfriend either. It is however important to me that she sees me as that hero who will protect her from bad people, change the lamp, remove spiders or reach the top shelf for cereals. I quite like being spoiled, heck I'll snuggle up on her lap at most given chances.

That said, I'm driven, ambitious, done martial arts since I was 8. By no means needlessly aggressive but certainly manly to her. The fact that I have a penis probably helps too.
I think your guy just might have one as well. Pretty damn manly that ;)

[Asker]

Lol yeah he does have a penis. But I haven't slept with it at all because every time he turns me off. The closest we got to that was when we were in bed and then he told me to "be gentle with his weewee." He plays too much and I don't want to hear that when I'm in the mood. But we have only been dating for just a month so sex wasn't that big of a priority yet.

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah ummhh.. He might need to get better at dirty talk. A lot better. I get why that would be a turnoff. If my girlfriend called mine my weewee I'd probably burst out laughing, certainly not be turned on.

I'd assume you've made this clear to him. Calling it a weewee won't be very attractive to most people XD

[Mesonfielde]

It has only been a month and it is clearly not working. You should consider your options.

[Chrissymaynor]

Really? Calling your own boyfriend a faggot/wimp? Who does that? You clearly don't love him or respect him... Please do him a favor and break up with him, hopefully he finds a better girl 😊.

[Asker]

I dontbknwo what you think of is better
Perfect maybe? And yes, I absolutely wish for him to find the most perfect girl on this earth if he can. I wish him nothing but the best. But respect is earned and lost depending on the persons actions or will to be respected

[Billlewis]

Call me crazy, but if the woman I'm serving called me a fag, I'd probably take her out to the nicest restaurant in town and bring her flowers the next day... lol

[Anonymous]

Sounds like it. It has nothing to do with "being manly" and shit.
I'd be annoyed by such text regardless the gender.

[BertMacklinFBI]

you do a fine job talking shit on your boyfriend behind his back lol. you are officially two-faced if you don't talk shit to him to his face.

[Bobba_Fett]

You should defiantly dump him so he can go find someone who appreciates him.

[Asker]

Fine by me if you want the truth. I don't date people like this

[Alexious]

I'm no badass. I can't really fight and shit.. But even I wouldn't talk like that.. Sounds like something a young kid would say to their mum.

If I was saying what he said I'd be like "ergh, babe. My stomach hurts so badly. I can't fucking sleep"

[Artist10]

Lol thats a bit much for me, haven't even seen a girl do it. Using that terminology, pet names and all is cringe worthy. Anyways, has he "always" been like this?

[Asker]

Yup since the day I met him

[Artist10]

What kind of guys are u attracted to?
Seems u and him are not compatible, I wonder how u two ended up together. Anyways, u could end things and both of u could find someone better for each other.

[Asker]

The guys I always have known were, for lack of better words, from the hood. The guys I am dating is from an upper middle class family and has a very good upbringing. Me and him met at the mall and I really loved his personality. We had been friends for about a month before he asked me put and I though "what the hell. Its not what I'm used to but change is good I might like it." And now here I am I wish we had just stayed friends. I like guys who are mature, serious, and who like the same things I like and can relate to me. I like him because we are actually really great friends, but a terrible couple. Dating him was a bad idea. He is handsome and nice, and despite what you might assume I am very polite and well mannered and I have plenty of things in common with him. But as far as an understanding, its just not there. That is what I meant. I didn't mean to call him a fag because truly, he has my heart. But just as a friend.

[Artist10]

Hey then its all good.
You tried it and its not for you, even better cause you are so open minded. Now you know what u dont like and u are not afraid to try something different. Maybe u and him can stay friends.

[redeyemindtricks]

Girl, I'm from the hood too. If you are implying that hood boys are any less likely to be guilty of this shit (roughly speaking, "simpin' not pimpin' ")... well, yeah, nope. Wrong-o.

I mean, ok, they probably won't use quite as much cringe-worthy text-speak -- but, the neediness is real.

In a lot of respects, hood boys are WORSE, because so many of them were raised by baby-mama's and baby-mama's mamas and... basically, not by MEN. They have no role models to go by. The neediness is fucking real -- and it's even more of a let-down, when it's contrasted against what's supposed to be a hard-ass exterior.

I mean, look, I got you, totally. I married a boy who's as street as concrete itself, in all the good ways.
... but, you are no more and no less likely to find that kind of masculinity in the leafy suburbs as you are in the hood. It just comes in different forms.

by the way, you should find... better words, for the qualities you typically like. Right now it's kinda tacky.

[redeyemindtricks]

@artist10 Dude I don't mean to be a bitch, but... yr a 34-year-old man. By using "u" over and over again in yr messages here, you are kinda doing exactly the same thing the asker's boyfriend is doing, just a lite version.

Please do not keep writing like my daughter. My daughter is 8 years old. LOL tyvm

[Rahdle]

He was probably just being silly. He definitely wouldn't have sent that if he knew you were gonna post it online haha. You're a meany pants

[teawrecks]

Sounds like he's a super submissive type. If you prefer dominant men then uh yeah he probably should go back to being single.

[Phoenix98]

While I kind of want to disagree with you but that second sentence lol.

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

He was just trying to be sweet, damn girl, calm down.

[Asker]

I don't know what other people accept but I don't do this. I don't like this weak shit

[MaiNameIsSunshine]

Wow okayyy, well whatever, it's your life.

[_lululemonxx]

it's a joke honey ;) obviously ;) don't get the memo ;) for the record he should break up with you ;)

[Asker]

@_lululemonxx not its not a joke I'm not going to keep explaining that. He is dead serious and I honestly don't care who breaks up with who as long as he gets away from me. I don't date wimps and pussies. You can if you want to but I choose not to

[_lululemonxx]

ha. jokes on you bc you already are

[Asker]

@_lululemonxx and I'm talking to you specifically

[Mesonfielde]

Cute is cute when it comes off as cute, but the guy comes off as a clingy whiny bitch. Seriously.

[_lululemonxx]

@Mesonfielde never heard of sarcasm?

[Mesonfielde]

@_lululemonxx there was no sarcasm here.

[_lululemonxx]

@Mesonfielde you must have zero to no friends. i mean come on, you have no social skills whatsoever if you can't sense "sarcasm" here.

[pretty-girl94]

lmao I mean, he sounds needy. But, it's nothing to insult him over or break up with him over. Just talk to him about it.

[XNicholeMariex3]

With your nasty attitude, I honestly don't see how you have a boyfriend at all.

[Bandit74]

If he was being serious then that does seem wimpy. Honestly I don't see how showing weakness or vulnerability to a girl would be beneficial at any level, but especially not to the extent he has.

[Levin]

Dump his effeminate ass, become my furry fluffy snuggle-raptor muff!

[Levin]

To give a more serious answer. It looks like you had a hard upbringing. No one wants the polarities reversed, ie for you to be more of the 'man' than him. You're (too?) hard, he's soft. Maybe it wouldn't hurt to soften a bit, the whole world ain't against you. And of course, it seems it could pay him well to learn to be a bit tougher. Did you tell him this directly rather than passive aggressively? I generally don't agree with gender roles though. I think people should be able to flip between hard and soft energy, and not be constrained by their gender or conditioning. If one struggles to be too hard though, then obviously they're unable to do that, and it's time to practice!

[apple24]

Whoa! Man calm the FUCK DOWN! So he sweet or he just joking around! Thats who is! If you don't like him than move on! No need to waste time posting shit ya know! Just do it! that all I am gonna say!

[PT1911]

More like he should have said

"My stomach hurts, get over here and make me feel better"

I get being cute once in a while, but like... bruh... that second sentence...

[lopflodin]

He sounds like a sook nobody likes a sook can't blame you

[Zombie-Killa]

Over emotional and over-sensitive, But that doesn't make him a wimp necessarily.
But yeah, You sound like the kinda chick that needs to be told to get her ass over here and gobble this boner..

[Asker]

Hell no I'm not saying I'm trying to be told what to do I would kick the shit out of somebody if they tried to disrespect me. I try to be nice to my boyfriend because he is sensitive and stuff, but I would rather him just day "babe come over I'm feeling sick I want to be with you." Than "come kiss my tummy bunny."

[rescuemyheart]

I think he's TRYING to be cute. But really just being infantile.

[ConsultantIsBack]

lol you really say "bruh" irl haha i literally only say that on gag

Ya he does indeed sound like a wimp

[serious]

I don't know the entire interaction is strange!, not sure what did he mean by all this.

[Shaft50]

Sounds like he wanted more than kisses and not so much stomach -ache relief...

[Asker]

I know I know. Its the way he says things that I don't like. I don't like his personality, it doesn't attract me and actually I can't force it. No matter how much I like him, I don't get turned on by him at all and I actually feel very turned off by everything he says. He is better off as my friend

[Shaft50]

Then it sounds like that it would be best for both of you to break it off... no point being with him if he does nothing for you, otherwise the relationship would be based on pity, which isn't healthy...

[fueledbythc]

What a little bitch. You should tell him "suck it up princess"

[ShineQueen]

Honestly he doesn't seem mature enough yet to be in a relationship and he seems to picture you as his mother but I hope you make the right decision. Cheering for you :)

[Asker]

Thanks sweetie

[Anonymous]

Wow, if you're that judgmental and rude about your boyfriend then you should break up with him.

[TheAngryBanana]

wow he might be but you sound like a colosal bitch :D

[CœurRosé]

What's wrong with asking for kisses?

[Asker]

Nothing. But be a man about it. Would you call your boyfriend and say "you what's up bro my damn stomach feels like shit. Come kiss this motherfucker." Like your one of his guy friends and not his girlfriend. I want him to act like my man, not my girlfriend.

[Mesonfielde]

Her problem is being called "babe hun bunnycakes"

[CœurRosé]

Then I think you should tell him that. That's the only way he'll know how you feel.

[_lululemonxx]

ummm.. you sound dumb.
he's obviously joking

[Asker]

He isn't joking and calm down on that name calling. I know my boyfriend he does this all the time and I thought he was joking when in first got with him. He's dead serious

[_lululemonxx]

prove it.

oh and i need to calm down? dude. it's was a light hearted call. you called him as retarded.
the fact that you told me to calm down just proves that you can't sense when people are joking

[Asker]

I don't sense shit over the internet. And you sound like a clown talking like you know my boyfriend or me on a personal level or me. I didn't explain everything in detail but he is always like this so its not a joke. And for the record, I don't do name calling as you can probably tell from my whole post so I told you to calm down with it. You got offended that's your problem.

[_lululemonxx]

well i'm not the one on here asking for confirmation or 'back-up' so i won't feel bad dumping a guy.

"he sounds retarted" -you
oh no name calling.

i'm not offended at all. again. proof that you can't sense anything over written communication. which probably hints that you can't sense his 'sarcasm' either. "he's always like this" doesn't prove anything. maybe, just maybe, he's always joking or being sarcastic to lighten the mood because you're his gf? but i guess your rat brain can't wrap around that concept either

[Anonymous]

haha i think you two are not compatible. he needs to find a honey bunny like himself.

[ElissaDido]

Unmm I don't see anything wrong with this

[pavlove]

lol you're a rough one

[Asker]

Its not that I'm rough I'm just not into this. He knows I'm not comfortable with this and he does it anyway. If he wants to do it so bad he can do do it walith another girl because I don't feel like we are compatible at all

[pavlove]

not compatible is fair but you're calilng your own boyfriend a fag... what does that say about you that you're dating him? no standards?

[Asker]

I have standards I made a wrong pick. Excuse me I don't have a "perfect boyfriend" detector. I, along with the rest of us mere mortals, have to weed through the options before I find what I'm looking for. And I call it like I see it. I don't mince words and I don't have to.

[pavlove]

lol why do girls always think guys are trying to control them just because they make an observation? all i said was you're a rough one as in you're blunt

[Asker]

I ddidnt say anyone was trying to control me.

[pavlove]

I don't mince words and I don't have to.

I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to. I don't have to.

[pavlove]

just strikes me as this childish determination to do what you want but the thing is i'm not acting like a parent. idc what you do just point out the lack of politeness

[Asker]

Lol you really threw that back in my face. I didn't even mean it that way. I don't feel like I'm being childish by pointing out that bind on to have to mince words. Not when I'm making a post about how I feel about a situation, why should I be anything but honest. I'm very polite. I mean, it can get real bad if someone gets on my bad side, but I'm never just blatantly rude or purposely trying to pick fights. And yeah, I did call him names, that was my best description of his usual behavior. Fag. I know its not nice but, well I'm not in a nice mood right now. But I do think you were very respectful in pointing out what you had to say and I didn't mean to come off as rude to you if I did. I just was saying what I had to say. Its the females that I'm being rude to because they are being rude to me and my mood is kind of rubbing off on other comments. If I came off as rude or immature, then shitbi probably am, but not to those who don't deserve that treatment. I respect everything you said

[jakeofalltrades]

a lot of guys get really whimpy when they get sick

[Asker]

Its not just when he gets sick I just used this one more ccurence as an example. He is always like this. We are very different but I thought it would be okay, obviously I'm not feeling him anymore though. I can't deal with this.

[jakeofalltrades]

he might be, how longs has this been going on

[Asker]

Since I started dating him a month ago. I noticed that he acts this way and I told him to chill with the pet names, I don't like it. I can be your girlfriend but please just call me by my name. And don't text me at odd hours asking me for something weird like "come kiss my tummy." What person likes to be woken up in the middle of the night to someone telling them "come kiss my tummy." I'm too mature for that and he isn't on my level yet. Nothing against him he just isn't right for me.

[Mesonfielde]

Asker, you sound like you've made up your mind. I personally support your decision, this isn't a habit he will get out of on a whim.

[Asker]

@Mesonfielde thanks for understanding.

[Walls_and_Doors]

Some women find this cute.

[Kylesar]

I find this annoying even in a girl

[Anonymous]

Really? That's your complaint? SMH

[Anonymous]

Are you black? And is your boyfriend a white guy?

[Asker]

What lead you to think so?

[Opinion Owner]

Lol... I am black, and I hang around a lot of other black people. When texting, the black people that I know usually use slang, like, "Bruh"... or "smdh". My white friends don't say things like that.

I also have a lot of white friends. A lot of the white friends I have, I could see them saying something corny, just like your "boyfriend". I cannot see a black man saying that kind of stuff.

[chintita]

lol!

[Opinion Owner]

@chintita This is why black girls shouldn't date white dudes

[skeptic007]

how do you want your boyfriend too act lol

[Jakem_98]

"Tummy" "Bunny cakes" hahaha how old is he 10

[savi235]

He sounds like an idiot. Needs to grow up.

[archiz]

too clingy

[orphan]

sounds like a fruit