Why do guys approach me in clubs (AND I DON'T LOOK AT ANYONE. I ACT VERY UPTIGHT)?

[Anonymous]

All I do is dance. I don't even laugh or talk loudly. I don't look at anyone. My clothes are not slutty.
I know that guys always make eye contact and see if she looks them back they approach. But I don't look at guys. I act uptight.

[AnonKuma]

If you're in the club, then you will be approach whether or not you look at other people because a club is a club and there is only a couple reasons why you would go tot he club and the guys are just assuming u are there for the same reason they are there for.

Also maybe you are just really attractive to them despite not wearing any slutty clothes so they will approach you.

[anonman32]

because clubs are the universal symbol of hookupery.

[Becky01]

I am going to go way out on a limb and say did you ever think that your behavior is what causes you to get so much male attention. on an unconscious level they see you as a damsel in distress and they unconsciously feel the need to protect you and when you act so up tight they think you are feeling threatened and have a need to help.

[heavenonearth]

There are guys who approach practically everyone in a club, doesn't matter if you act uptight or not, as long as they find you attractive. Keep in mind most people in there have been drinking too. They're not at the top of their game in terms of reading other people.

[Asker]

guys approach me in parks and other places. And they are not drunk.

[heavenonearth]

They find you attractive then. Not all people are too timid to approach someone they like, even if she isn't showing signs of interest.

[Felinegirl]

If you're not very close with your friends, you're easier to approach. Girls who "herd" are scary because their friends might act bitchy to guys trying to approach. If you stand apart more that's easier for them. Plus you migt look good while dancing.

[nikol_]

They probably find you attractive / beautiful. It doesn't matter if you look at them or wear slutty clothes, people can find you attractive even if you don't do these things.

[aficionado]

Because guys (and girls) in nightclubs are looking for hookups (usually). So guys just play the numbers game and approach every girl.

[cherrymarina]

Maybe you look approachable and less intimidating. Guys in a club have only one mission: scoring a vagina. Thats why I'm never flattered when guys show me attention in a club.

[Miss_Behave]

Cos you're a girl (read: you have a pussy).
I mean, you're in a club. A lot of guys (well, people) go there hoping to score.
I think you can put 2 and 2 together from here...

[Anonymous]

THAT is the cause !!!

1) We feel a little assured that no other guy is going to come take her over from me.
2) Sometimes, it feels like an accomplishment to get closer to a girl like that. Just being able to talk to her for 15 minutes feels like winning a trophy.
3) Sometimes, if dome the right way without showing arrogance, uptightness may also give an impression that you are not "loose".

[mojo_jojo]

If you have a sexy body or beautiful face then a guy will approach you cause its a club not a dance studio. I personally wouldn't. But then again, I have seen guys ask like any pretty they see for their number. They play the odds and have no ego.

[Asker]

Should I act more uptight?

[mojo_jojo]

It might help a little bit to give off a snobbish o rbf look if you want to be left alone. Some guys just never get "it" though. Or go to a nicer club/bar where guys don't come on as strong. Good Luck.

[Rock_Dollar]

What do you think the whole purpose of a club is? Any girl that's breathing that looks vaguely human will get approached.

[GingerGuy]

I'm assuming you're very attractive so even if you're not giving off welcoming signs some guys will try anyway.

[ShaeNielson]

Because you're a girl in a club where people are drunk, expect it.

[Asker]

I never drink. And I know guys approach girls who flirt with eyes.

[ShaeNielson]

They do, and men in clubs approach pretty much everything.

[Asker]

what about guys who approach me in the stree?

[ShaeNielson]

What about them? They see a girl, the try their chances.

[Asker]

So they approach any girl?

[ShaeNielson]

No, but they will approach some.

[00Lelouchxx]

U have a vagina that's why

[StickStickity13]

You answered your own question, you're uptight

[Asker]

Is that why they approach me?

[Polocrew]

Yea right that happen OP, of course lol

[Asker]

they approach me everywhere. I don't know how uptight should I act

[HelloEveryone123456]

Because you're in a club...

[Asker]

I am not always in clubs you know? And guys still approach me.

[HelloEveryone123456]

Because you're female?

[Asker]

guys don't approach any female. or do they?

[HelloEveryone123456]

As far as I know...

Even if they don't, they would like to...

[Fearless_banana]

This happened OP.

[TheSpartan]

You're probably hot.

[pusssy11]

they want some pussy