Why do guys stare at me so much in public but rarely approach me?

[Anonymous]

The only ones that approach me are kinda creepy, as in very forward and seem kinda player ish.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Same reason we stare at food when we see it, looking delicious

[Asker]

I’m literally always single. I’m VERY shy. I just read books all the time and code.
Maybe I’m scared to have a convo cuz I’m a nerd and they’ll be scared away.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well I can assure you that some men love a woman with brains and smarts, because she could've used the time to do anything else but rather used that time to make themselves better, there's just a lot to respect about that, shyness on the other hand is negatively effective but not cause guys don't love it cause shyness can be cute but because it's hard to communicate and socialize (which plays a big part in finding a partner) you can end up being unnoticed, happened to me growing up, best way to overcome it is by stepping out of that comfort zone and practice socialization, from what I can read off you right now you seem like a cool chick and I know you got good potential to be a good wife.

That coding stuff sounds cool by the way, nice choice of computer magic ha

[Asker]

Well with how shy I am I think I need a guy who is more extroverted. I’ve dated too many guys who are just like me which is quiet and shy. And things don’t move forward much cuz we’re both awkward. Lol.
I know I’d be a really good wife, that’s what I want to be. Hopefully I meet that person soon. 💕

[ChicoFromThe305]

Well if it makes you feel better now it's two of us hoping you get a good man 🤣🙃

I wish you well on finding the hubby, until then read and enjoy your books, hack into banks and shit and eventually life will all fall into place for you lol