Why does he view my snap stories but ignore me?

[Anonymous]

We kind of got in an argument and i apologized. I sent him messagss but doesn't respond but he still views my snap stories?

[sheperd]

Why does he view my snap stories but ignore me?

It's a question we've all asked ourselves at one point or another. Why do they view our stories but don't reply to our messages? Well, there could be a few reasons. Let's explore a few of them.

They're not that interested

If someone views your snap story but doesn't reply to your messages, it could be because they're not that interested. Maybe they were just curious about what you were up to, or maybe they thought you looked cute but didn't want to start a conversation. Either way, if someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages, it's probably because they're not that interested.

They're not interested in a relationship

If someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages, it could also be because they're not interested in a relationship. Maybe they're just looking for a hookup, or maybe they're not ready for a relationship. Either way, if they're not interested in a relationship, they're probably not going to reply to your messages.

They're busy

If someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages, it could also be because they're busy. Maybe they're just really busy with work or school and don't have time to reply to your messages. Or, maybe they're busy with other things and just haven't gotten around to replying to your messages yet. Either way, if someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages, it could be because they're busy. There could be other reasons

Of course, there could be other reasons why someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages. Maybe they lost their phone and can't reply to your messages. Or, maybe they're just not that interested in you.

Whatever the reason, if someone is viewing your stories but not replying to your messages, it's probably not a good sign. So, if you're interested in someone and they're doing this, you might want to move on.

[OPBinYYC]

Answer... creeping you to figure out where you're at. His upset and wants to see if you're looking for other people or having fun without him. Try talking to him instead of wasting time deciphering his view/non-viewing of your snapchat stories. Social media = narcissism and is a messed up way to have relationships as it leads to a break down of human interaction and pair bonding (which requires face to face and touch for full efficiency). Spend less time on social media and get in touch with people or him face to face. You're snap stories are not going to fix your situation on create misunderstandings. Or you can sit there and message him (still not face to face) and I've learned and hated when my ex would only do messages etc. How about grow a set and call so it can be resolved. This is where misunderstanding and infidelity occur because people's feelings get hurt and the longer it goes on the longer it festers (resentment is a result of anger and doubt building up) this all leads to breakups and emotional & mental abuse over time.

Best of luck... Cheers!

[Asker]

I've recently messaged him and he opened it i dont want to seem annoying. You know? I've asked him to meet but he is busy with work and he said a lot is going on at work

[OPBinYYC]

He's avoiding the situation. My suggestion from a males point of view, is post less. He may feel that things are going on that are shady, it's human nature after a argument to have doubts about things and where the relationship is going. Social media creates instability. Ask him to meet up and talk about what happened and how to resolve it. Other than that all snapchat is going to get you is single. MHO, good luck.

[Asker]

We aren't dating we were just starting to talk to each other abd get to know one another

[Mornin23]

Viewing a snap story means less than nothing, sorry. I don’t understand why people make a big deal of it. I literally only look at stories when I’m bored, and they offer a second or two of interest at most.

[cmon24]

This might be true if that person occasionally views your story. As in once in a blue one. But day after day? Multiple times a day? Holidays, weekends, any time you post a story? C'mon... if you're not interested, than you legit have no life and spend all your time skipping through peoples stories day-in and day-out. Get off snap and get a damn hobby!

[Mornin23]

@cmon24 if you had any idea what you were talking about, I might a actually have been offended lol

[nala_rawr]

Maybe he wants to see what ur up to and he misses u, but needs some space...

[karennn]

He is still pissed off but is interested in what's up with you.

[Maryluna911]

I've had this happen a couple times with guys who ghosted me. With one situation i felt the guy was just trying to bread crumb me. He would view my story and never message me but when i saw he viewed my story day in and out i asked him lets me meet again and he would either give short answers. or comment something flirty on my snaps i sent to him or ignore. It was like that for a few months till i got sick of it and told him he has a stick up of his ass. The other guy recently stopped replying to my texts blocked me from fb, but still views my story. I stopped texting back cause i hate being ignored and have dignity.

[Emmaaaz]

So I added my crush yesterday at 7pm and I said hi then he says “yo” then soon blanks me for almost a day of js a sentence so then he seen my story and then when I posted on my story today he still blanks me but shares my story to sm1 but I don't know who?

[RuthlessAggression]

I don't use snap. Snap is like instagram at this point, and I barely use Insta either. Seems like they're more for girls, than guys right now. Too many ads geared towards women

[Rocket_Queen]

He's a stalker