Don't hate the player, hate the game?

[Anonymous]

i told a guy he was a player, and this was his response... what is this supposed to mean?

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what is '' the game''

[AlexanderRose]

The most helpful opinion is bias, incorrect and part of the problem that creates misandry (hatred of men).

It is not the girls fault she got played. If you want to blame someone ultimately you can blame men, but honestly you should heed what was said to you and understand that the genetics of human beings have absolutely nothing to do with man-made beliefs, morals or rules.

Women are by fat much more adept and masterful deceivers/liars/players than men could ever hope.. to be. This is truth. And if you confront them about it you will be called a psycho or quickly and easily disposed of, and possibly mocked and humiliated depending on the girl in question.

What that guy meant when he said that is that you cannot simply be honest or straight forward with your intentions with a woman regardless of whether those intentions are a relationship or sex. You CANNOT. I don't care if you think I'm wrong, I don't care who says I'm wrong. I am not governed by the words of women I am governed by their ACTIONS. And their actions will 100 times out of 100 demonstrate that what I am saying is truth.

If a man is straight forward in wanting a relationship with a woman, he is desperate, he is trying too hard, he is pushy, he is pressuring the girl for a relationship, he is needy, he is.. add any negatives in here that men ALWAYS hear when they even so much as hint about taking the relationship forward to either sex or a relationship.

There are exceptions to this. A woman who is desperate to get into a relationship will be accepting of this. A very inexperienced woman will be accepting of this. Just like a loose slut will be very accepting of a guy propositioning her for sex.

Therefore guys who want to be romantically successful with women and not be lucky, but actually have full control over attracting and seducing women eventually learn the game that has to be played. The mating ritual. You do this, you get girls, you continue on with morals, you are the forever single and sex-less.

Why is this? Well because men are constantly chasing women trying to have sex with them. If a girl is attractive EVERY MAN wants her, but she is not going to be with every man. Therefore as a result of this, it's game on.

A combination of human biology and girls constantly getting hit on has created this.

So all in all, yeah, don't hate the player hate the game. I sure hate it.

[AlexanderRose]

Also. Women play guys ALL the time, ALL the time. Anytime a woman says to a guy "Let's just be friends" and continues enjoying EVERYTHING he provides him while not recipricating in any way. She is playing him.

[AlexanderRose]

Ergo, women don't have to be labeled a "player" to be a player of the game. They are a player of the game even if they don't know it, just like a fish doesn't know it's in the water.

[AlexanderRose]

Oh the other last thing is:

The game is on whether you realize it or not. You are a piece on the board in the game of life. You're either moving yourself around, or someone else is moving you around like a puppet. You're either playing, or you're being played.

[AlexanderRose]

This has NOTHING to do with morals. This does not mean you are unethical or a bad person.

[Killfest400]

It means he's a player. The statement "Don't hate the player, hate the game" is basically saying that it's the girls' fault that she got played.

"The game" is basically a guy convincing/pressuring you into sex with the promise of having a relationship, only to leave after he gets laid.

[KellieJ111]

He means that you can't hate him because it's not his fault you fell for the classic 'player'. He is probably going to get HIV or some other type of sexual infection. and you should be glad that he told you and you can leave him behind and find a better guy!

[Asker]

Buut he's actually like nicee. he jusst pressures me a lot...

[RockchickUK]

It mean's he's an absolute c*ck and you should kiss his sorry ass goodbye!.

Seriously though, did he mean it in a jokey way or is he just proud of the fact that he is a 'playa'?.

The best way to play a playa is to not get involved.

[Asker]

Well, we were like talkingg on the phone and we sent pictures, and he acted like a plaayer. so later when I was texting him I told him that, and he said don't hate the player, hate the game.

[Anonymous]

The game is the way he gets girls. First time I ever heard this was about basketball. LIke if you lost to someone don't hate them just hate the basketball

[makevali]

means don't hate him hate the game, what's there nott to understand...

[allicansayisthis]

Yeah, he means he's an asshole that should be ignored by every single one.

[ThatGuy44]

It means he's immature.

[Asker]

How?

[ThatGuy44]

By the -1 and the under 18 beside the name it figures I guess. The "game" is all in the head. It's hard to explain and I don't think I feel like doing it. :\

[Asker]

Caan you try to explain? I'm like really confused.

[ThatGuy44]

It's leading people on without ever wanting to commit to a real relationship with the other person. The game can go back and forth, as some people get fun out of this. Best way to end it is to never get involved.

[Asker]

Well he said he would never want to be in a relationship and I'm cool with that. he said just friends with benefitss... he is 2 years older than me though, and lives far away.

[Anonymous]

he thinks you're playing head games with him.

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[pezzonovante88]

It mean's he likes to be a d*** and he is one.

[Asker]

Oh alright.