Why a guy press his chest on my breast when hugging?

[Lisagopal260]

I have a guy friend, but we are more likely to be brother and sister. I dont get it why he hugs me so tightly till his chest touches my breast, even when I gave him a soft hug, he will wrap his arms around me so tightly which makes me to feel that he's doing it purposely. This doesn't happened only once but everyday when he offer me a hug. Note: He's a nice guy who is very protective about girls and a person who respect girls. We are in our 20's.

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Sorry for the confusion. What i meant was i hug him in a way where my breast will not touch his chest. Sorry, im not good in explaining things out.

[Rawrzz]

That's literally... the only way to hug... There's like, no way to hug without your breasts getting some pressure... I mean, it's not really a hug unless your upper chest is touching. You can't hug with *just your arms*. I don't understand.

Just stop being so self-conscious about it. It doesn't matter. It's nothing sexual. I've never heard of a girl being off put by that kind of thing. Hell, girls are the ones always initiating bear hugs.

Ah. What Dim_121 said makes sense. If it really bothers you, then just start giving side hugs. Or like half hugs or something. Or just don't let him hug you, if it makes you that uncomfortable. :O

[Lisagopal260]

Thank you

[Rawrzz]

Yep yep.

[skykidx1]

He's right

[Dim_121]

Well if you two are close then I think it is because he wants to hug you and hold you close. Try giving him a side hug.
If he has not shown any other signs of liking you then he probably just hugs tightly. Have you suggested that he is hugging you to tightly?

When I hug my female freinds goodbye usually we will hug full on and my chest does touch their breasts. Unless we need to leave quickly in that case we just give a quick side hugs.

I'm not sure what you mean by softly hug him. Could you explain that a bit?

[Dim_121]

o so you meant like you give him a side hug but he gives you a full hug anyways and pulls you close. It could mean a lot of things but if he does it again pull away and if he asks tell him that what he is doing that you don't like.
I only did that once with my crush when she just gave me a quick side hug in tight quarts I kind of turned her and hugged her full on. like our normal good bye hug. I was not force full when I did do and I did not squeeze her close but I did change her hug once.
With some of my freind's it is really hard to hug them without their boobs getting in the way. Honestly I don't even normally notice them. I'm more focused on the hug and my feelings of connecting with them one more time before I say goodbye.

[Madds1544]

My best guy friend used to do this were now dating I asked him about it apparently it was his way of sorta flirting and whenever I would try to give him side hugs it just pissed him off cuz I was clueless to his flirting so it maybe his way of flirting or he really does see u as a sister and he is just was too touchy

[TheLuckyPizzaDog]

What is a soft hug? Is that like, awkwardly touching arms but keeping a biblical distance between your upper torsos or something?
OP, the hug he gave you is pretty standard amongst... humans. If you don't like it, don't initiate hugs then and refuse them when he tries to go in for it.

[Dim_121]

I don't understand what she means by a soft hug either.

[Anonymous]

Maybe he just likes to hug that way? He could be more of a squeezer than a hugger? I don't think there is one person I've ever hugged that our chest haven't touched. I don't know I never really thought about it before.

[Justanormalgirl16]

You see him as a "brother" but does he see you as a "sister"? Is it possible he wants to be more than friends with you?

[Red_Arrow]

Even if he does not want to be more than friends, he may still want to feel the ta-tas against him

[Lisagopal260]

Yes im sure that he sees me as his sister -i have no doubt in it but still i dont get the point why he's doing that to me.

[Justanormalgirl16]

Maybe it's like Red_Arrow said or maybe that is just his way of hugging. If it makes you uncomfortable maybe bring it up with him and ask him to stop.

[Lisagopal260]

Thank you

[Justanormalgirl16]

You are welcome 😃

[truthbeknown]

I think he likes the feel of your body close to his. It may not be a sexual thing, but more of a nurturing thing. If his hands wander around your body, it would be sexual. If it is just tight in general, I would say he is overly caring. Breasts getting squished during a hug is going to happen normally. If you don't like it, don't hug him. I think hugging every day is rather excessive anyway.

[DJohnny]

A soft hug is just another word for an awkward hug. Most hugs involve what your saying that he does. Maybe not so tight but that's probably just him some people give tight hugs. The only way to hug someone up front but not touch cheat would be like a lean over half ass awkward hug lol.

[Anonymous]

He prob just like feeling it with his chest. Or maybe just like hugging you tight but your breast are on the way.

[Anonymous]

Because when you hug you hug properly and its body on body.
Those weird outreached hugs when only your arms touch are strange and awkward as opposed to a big full wrap around hug.

Even guys playing sport etc hug eachother like that

[Theodorable]

Maybe he just has an odd way of hugging. Maybe you can call him out on it in a funny way.

[heavenlyhannah]

When I hug a certain guy he'll put his pelvis forward so that it's like pressing against my jeans while we hug. I can feel his bulge and when he has a boner!!!

[Jessie8]

He wanted to feel your boobs against his chest to figure out what bra size you are.

[John_Lion_84]

Maybe it's his way in giving hugs, or he wants to go to the next level.

[WhoStoleMySock]

It's a great feeling, not going to lie. But he's either doing it on purpose, or he sees you as someone so close that they deserve a BIIIIG big hug!

[AlwaysBelieving]

Are you sure that he only sees you in a brother and sister way?

[El_Muffidore]

This is such a dumb question...

[rgb008]

Because straight guys love boobs.

[Toad-1]

bingooooo

[rgb008]

@Toad-1 ayyyyyy

[Lisagopal260]

So are you trying to say that he see me in different way. Do i have to avoid that?

[biguyct]

correct lol

[Shaft50]

The more physical contact, the better...

[Anonymous]

he may like you or get off feeling your tits up against him

[RicochetLove]

He could just like bear hugs.

[Gedaria]

He likes the feeling of your boobs...

[melodybluesy]

copping a feel