What does it mean when a guy friend keeps talking about sex to you?

[Anonymous]

I am good friends with a man whose in his mid-40s we have a good friendship for a couple of years now. We advise each other and we talk about everything... work, family life etc. We have coffee a few times a week and put the world to rights. There was no romantic connection between us but during the last month my friend keeps speaking about sex to me, at first he was brief... but now he asks me really sexual questions and makes hints of going to bed and dreaming of me or hints that I may give him head.

I like it, it's exciting and it's a bit of a turn on, it makes me want to rip his clothes off him... only I'm not sure his reasons for this subject being brought up for hours at a time... it's a very detailed and in depth discussion, but I don't want to make a move on him if he is going to reject me.

So guys... would you talk about sex in great detail to your female friends? And if you did what would it mean?

[Felinegirl]

He sounds interested and his way of flirting is obviously working. You can also make about half a move. Instead of full on kissing him or ripping his clothes from his body, try changing your body language. Next time he insinuates anything, stand closer and make that spark grow. See how he reacts.

I'd like to hear how it turns out between you two!

[Asker]

I'm going for coffee with him later on this evening. So I will try that and keep you informed. I hugged him when we were saying goodbye last time and he didn't just hug me back he wrapped his free arm around me too. I am very open when he talks about sex so I hope by doing that he is picking up on the vibe that I am open to more than just a friendship

[Felinegirl]

Good luck, sounds exciting!

[Asker]

Bit of a let down that evening to be honest 😣

[Felinegirl]

What happened?

[Asker]

Another guy friend phoned me and he heard it and then wasn't that happy about it. Made a few sarcastic digs at me. Seemed a bit distant. Still flirty at times but not the same as before

[Felinegirl]

Too bad

[Alej27]

Usually means he is curious and valuebyour opinion not aure it means anything... it ahopens when people start getting comfortable

[Asker]

It's not really my opinion that he's asking for though... he is pretty much asking me to talk dirty... details about how I would give oral sex etc. We are very comfortable with each other though

[tightpusy451]

it means they dont consider you to be enough sexy or something , so they treat you like a guy.

[Felinegirl]

Would you hint to your guy friend that they'll give you head and tell them you dream of them?

[tightpusy451]

@Felinegirl if those girls were hot I would hint that I want to get my penis sucked and yeah I think you need to hint

[Felinegirl]

You really don't read, do you

[tightpusy451]

@Felinegirl I don't sorry. But I can read it for you.

[Asker]

So you think that he doesn't see me as sexy so he talks to me like one of the lads? He speaks of it as though he wants me to go down on him he asks for details of how I would do it without actually saying how would I do it to HIM