When thinking about this question, I had the thought of that I prefer shy girls. In the past I've surely said that too. But, after looking back at girls I've been attracted to, most have either been in-between or outgoing. So I would say that I prefer somewhere in-between to outgoing. Minorly outgoing I guess? lol
I know that if someone is extremely out going, it can be a turn off. Rather, if they won't let me have any alone time to recharge or if they are going mach 5 all the time. I can't keep up with them and it gets overwhelming for me.
So I guess, more specifically, I prefer girls who are outgoing but aren't overwhelming? Sociable... just not annoying.
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I like shy when she feels unsafe or worried. Like if she's giving a presentation or on a date if she's shy it's cute but if she's shy for example when around me and she doesn't talk loudly or she's self conscious or acts awkward with individual people then no its unattractive. I like Girls that show all parts of there personality it's kinda hot. Like if she's a bitch sometimes but nice other times thats better then nice all the time. You see there needs to be variation otherwise she's predictable. Outgoing girls get annoying and shy girls are too passive.
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I unfortunately have not had the pleasure of having a girlfriend nor enough experience with women (I've never been past the first date and have only had 4 dates out of asking hundreds of women out) to know if i like outgoing, shy, or in between women. So far, I have noticed traits among all three types that I like.
I typically prefer more outgoing girls... it just goes well with my personality since I'm also socially outgoing so there's a higher chance of us getting along.
I think girls should be confident in themselves, but not overly so, turning into arrogance. The best personalities, are those who know when to be shy, and when to step up their game.
Life has taught me I do not know what I want. I want the woman God has for me. Even if she only has one leg and talks like a pirate.
In between makes for a nice balance - overly outgoing people creep me out quite frankly lol. I like a girl who is comfortable and relaxed.
I'm not a shy person but I prefer hanging with one or two friends at a time at most. I prefer it when a girl is like me in that way so we're not clashing on how many people to hang with etc.
Personally, I have never really had much experience with women dating because i get rejected so much that I have given up.
The more outgoing a girl is, the more partners she's had, the more likely she is to cheat.
I like shy girls. There's just something really endearing about them.
Shy around others when she is on her own, but she isn't shy when I am around. I would feel special because she feels safe and comfortable when with me.
To be honest i could care less. I just want to truly be loved.
I prefer my sexy pillow with a female face drawn on it. The never ending passion, the fact that she never says NO, the glorious orgams, it is true bliss.^^
I like shy women because then they don't ask me out and I never notice them.
it dont really matter but i couldnt put up with someone who just sits there and cannt open her mouth.
Any of the two would be nice, but I really don't mind. Just as long as they aren't ignorant.
I'm shy so I prefer a really out going girl or it won't go anywhere😂
shy because its less of a chance that shell be a ho
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I like intelligent smart girls that are humble
In between leaning towards she.
I prefer outgoing much more
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