Do guys get confidence after losing their virginity?

[STARRGREEN2GOOFY]

because me and my ex started dating and

i wasnt a virgin and he knew but hated that detail.

well i took his virginity and hew was shy about it at first .then we started having sex alot.and then later on like five months deep into the relationship,he started acting all mean.and if he had something to say he will say it.and before he was a shy little boy.

and then when we turned like 7 months deep into the relationship he broke up with me and told me he needs to get into his studies.but later on like three weeks he hooks up with this girl and tells me she is nothing compared to me.i was like wtf?

and he tells me that he still loves me.(me knowing thats bullshit)

[Rafael151]

I'm sure that does give a guy's ego a boost. He's not playing in the minor leagues anymore as he figures it. Years from now he'll know different. I can see two reasons it may be worth wondering. One is he could be trying in his own bumbling way to say that he made a mistake. The second is, you want to know whether that's the story and how to avoid a repeat situation, if you meet another guy who is a virgin. Apart from those questions, not much else seems to matter. And really he may not know why he does things. Obviously the part about studying was not on the level . unless he's studying anatomy or para-gynecology. Guys that age can be real jerks without even trying. It comes from not thinking about other peoples feelings or anything else before they act. I was that way until I was about 25 or more. I think the saying about how guys don't have enough blood to supply the penis and the brain at the same time holds true. And normally the brain gets short changed.

[apelsinuke]

Nah, don't bother, find a mature guy :) Since my first one was also a virgin, but a different person, he found that sex is not the most important thing in life [good for him].