I’m 19, in college. I’ve dated a few guys but it never really lasts. I’ve only properly wanted two guys, and both were recent. One has gone away to the navy so we ended things and the other was one of my best friends I never had the guts to tell my true feelings to even though he gave me signals I was too dumb to acknowledge and now he has a new girlfriend.
I don't know, I feel like I’ve been ‘ready’ since coming to college. I didn’t really care that I was a virgin last year when I got here, I honestly don’t think I was mentally prepared to even consider it cuz I never really liked someone enough. Now that I have, I’m kinda sad because I never like guys that it can work out with. When I do, it’s after months of getting to know them and then it’s too late. My friend said he thinks I’m asexual, but I honestly think I’m more aromantic. I know I have a sex drive, but I think I just expected to find someone perfect and be his girlfriend then my virginity will go naturally. Now I’m in a position where; I’m VEry single, I don’t really like any guys that can like me back, dating apps don’t work for me because I can’t really grow feelings for a picture, and I can' really have sex with someone I don’t care about because unfortunately it’s my first time and I need someone I trust because of everything that can go wrong (and right lol).
I don’t know. Most guys in my life are just friends, and I’m not attracted to them. I don’t flirt either, so even in lectures or socials I don’t flirt with hot guys. the only time I flirt is out drunk and drunk guys just want to hook up and make out on the dance floor which honestly isn’t the type of guy I want. I don't know I just wish I wasn’t so unlucky when it came to feelings, it comes so rarely for me and the times it has I was heartbroken. But I don’t want to be a virgin anymore, I just wish I could have sex with who I want without thinking about getting my virginity out of the way first. I don’t think it’s special anymore, it’s nothing but a weight.
I don't know, I feel like I’ve been ‘ready’ since coming to college. I didn’t really care that I was a virgin last year when I got here, I honestly don’t think I was mentally prepared to even consider it cuz I never really liked someone enough. Now that I have, I’m kinda sad because I never like guys that it can work out with. When I do, it’s after months of getting to know them and then it’s too late. My friend said he thinks I’m asexual, but I honestly think I’m more aromantic. I know I have a sex drive, but I think I just expected to find someone perfect and be his girlfriend then my virginity will go naturally. Now I’m in a position where; I’m VEry single, I don’t really like any guys that can like me back, dating apps don’t work for me because I can’t really grow feelings for a picture, and I can' really have sex with someone I don’t care about because unfortunately it’s my first time and I need someone I trust because of everything that can go wrong (and right lol).
I don’t know. Most guys in my life are just friends, and I’m not attracted to them. I don’t flirt either, so even in lectures or socials I don’t flirt with hot guys. the only time I flirt is out drunk and drunk guys just want to hook up and make out on the dance floor which honestly isn’t the type of guy I want. I don't know I just wish I wasn’t so unlucky when it came to feelings, it comes so rarely for me and the times it has I was heartbroken. But I don’t want to be a virgin anymore, I just wish I could have sex with who I want without thinking about getting my virginity out of the way first. I don’t think it’s special anymore, it’s nothing but a weight.
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