What does it mean when your guy friend slaps your butt?

[Anonymous]

slaps your butt? Just wondering, cause my guy friends has done this a few times, he stopped because I told him it made me uncomfortable...

[laura2011]

Be very clear that you don't like when he puts his hand on you. I had a situation jus like this, where he would slap my ass an such and it was because he liked me..or really just wanted to have sex..But anyways the situation lead to me to an extremly uncomfortable sitation..so let him know that you don't like it or him in that way.

[Asker]

I did let him know, and I think he got the message. Thanks :)

[Blackkid]

Insofar as I can tell since he stopped and you mentioned no other signs of flirtation it was probably a "fun but rude" gesture with no real attachment behind it.

[blah52]

I've done it before, and it was more out of fun than wanting to have sex with them.

[Xenophobia]

It means he wants to be more than friends...more like very very sexual friends.

[Blackkid]

Inappropriate touching, especially slapping or brushing, amongst humans is not a tell-tale sign of sexual interest ESP. in a culture like this one which mistreats and propagates the mistreatment of women or the importance of the sexual prowess of men.

[Xenophobia]

Good point, however, it's a sexual gesture that demonstrates touching in an intimate area...