I had a weird day with my friend. I assumed it was just hanging out as friends but my best friends said it was a date. Anyways we went out for lunch (he paid), then we went to play tennis and we chilled at the pool and drank. He called his friend and we were heading to the gas station to get some more beers and my friend came out of no where and slapped my ass as hard as he could. And later on he apologized and rubbed my butt lol. But there were some weird comments made by him which seemed like he was flirting but I really have no idea. Was he hitting on me? I've known him for two years
If you've never had that kind of 'jokey' behavior with him before then yes that is really odd, if he was trying to make a pass at you and express an interest in you romantically then there are a lot of other ways he could have done that. Seems like he had a few to drink and got out of line with a female friend that he should really have treated better.
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My opinion that probably most people will disagree with:
He has little to no respect for you.
It means he's disrespectful. Was he hitting on you? In his perverted little way yes, big time.
He also, does not seem to respect you. He most likely doesn't respect women in general due to how he was raised probably.
My mother would literally kill me if I did that, especially in public.
Well it could have just been in fun but there sure is a chance he thought you had a sexy ass and that is why he did it. He could have been hitting on you to. It could also be that he has no respect for you and just wants to get in your pants.
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It means he’s an imbecile, who doesn’t respect you at all.
He literally sexually harassed you, and you let it happen lol. 🤡I wouldn’t stay there lookin stupid. Best friend or not. The moment you disrespect me like this it’s over. 🖕
Actual attractive men, who have actual crushes on you. DONT EVEN BEHAVE LIKE THIS. They go on a hero role and try to protect you, buy things for you, and impress you.
This person hasn’t even gotten to a first kiss with you. And he’s smacking you butt like your his woman already. 🤦🏻♀️And then he
”rubbed your butt”.
So now he’s groping you, without having given you a first kiss or asked you to be his girl. OK LOL 🤡
He’s taking advantage that your his “friennnnnd”, and you’ll forgive him for anything. In order to not lose this “friendddd”.
Talk about no standards or value. Next time he’s gonna drink a little more and insert a finger. And he’s gonna go “WHOOPS” my finger slipped. And he’s gonna rub your kitty. 🤡
It's difficult to say for certain whether or not your friend was hitting on you based on the information.
However, some of the things you mentioned, such as the slap on the butt and the flirtatious comments, could be interpreted as flirting.
It's possible that your friend may be attracted to you and was testing the waters to see if you might be interested in him as well.
If you're not sure how you feel about being slapped on the ass or if you're uncomfortable with it, it's important to communicate your boundaries clearly.
Let him know that you appreciate his friendship but that you're not interested in ass slappings.
If his behavior continues to make you uncomfortable, it might be a good idea to distance yourself from the situation and focus on other friendships or activities for a while. This will give him the space to slap himself on the ass.
1. It means you have a cute behind, almost surely
2. Yes he was hitting on you. Literally! Right on your behind!
3. He resisted the temptation as long as he could!It means "Bow Chica Bow Wow!"
It could also mean he likes your junk and could not resist the temptation of grasping the sinful fruit of Eden.
It could also mean that he is a pervert who can't keep his hands to himself.
The results may vary.Also HungryJones makes a good point, he will most likely do it again or try something even more bold next time.
Because you did not punish him for doing it or yell/slap etc him.its the same as when a woman slaps a guys ass. She is spicy and she likes him. No reason to go all snowflake. You have not been "disrespected" as some of the commenters as saying unless you are really a "sensitive one". Let him know if your into it or not by making a move back or if your not into him, say something to slow his roll without crushing his ego too badly.
Knowing what slapping one's ass means is difficult. What we know is this guy has a low impulse control and your butt is seemingly irresistible in a skirt or jeans.
So, at the end of the day at school I am waiting for my friend (we were walking home together). Then my besties scared me, and I chased him after that I got tired so while I was bending down to get my backpack, he straight up slapped my ass while I was bending down.
This used to be a big thing in middle and high school lol. Guys just like to watch your butt jiggle and see your reaction. They think it's fun. I don't think he was hitting on you tbh
Probably just seeing what he can get away with lol.
If you have self respect, a man would never think of doing this to you; and any man who does, shouldn't be your friend.
He's pushing the line, see how you would react. But also means he is comfortable with you.
well my best friend slapped my ass today at skyzone!!! I don't know y but i think she loves it and she slapped my ass soo hard I don't know if she likes me
If he don't act like this aways, then you should worry. But if is he always that kinf of "fun", it's ok.
Same as what it means than women Grab of the guy ass.
It means good game and see you out there.
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He want's your booty, and finds it sexy.
Good game.
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