If a guy says you remind him of his mother?

[Anonymous]

Or like exasperatedly says that you have some of her traits, like being picky, and he's an aqaintence, i might have a crush on him I don't know...

What does that mean? my friends think he's weird, and he doesn't ask me about myself just what im doing in the moment... ?

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guys i wasn't into him at first, he keeps approaching me so now im considering it and he's saying weird things like this lol. So no im not digging, i think its generally weird thing another guy who has liked me said this and my ex did too, but that was after knowing me for like a while lol i see him sometimes

[oaknuggins]

I dont think it really means anything. Id say you are just looking too far into this because you have a crush on him. It could mean he feels comfortable with you.

[Asker]

no, he has flirted with me, and i wasn't into him at first so just trying to get a idea of what was going on.. i think he is comfortbale around me but i am not as comfortable around him yet lol

[Petya00]

usually girls fall for guys like their fathers and guys fall for girls like their mothers its common and natural because they look up go them

[Asker]

i heard that, i was just surprised because i dont know him very well, and it seems very intimate to say something like that, it just catches me a little off guard i guess lol cuz i can have a crush on him but not sure if i should go for him yet

[Petya00]

you can wait a bit to see if your feelings are real and serious?

[Anonymous]

He doesn't fancy you. He sees you as a mother figure.

[Asker]

thats pretty definite, but i didn't ask if he liked me. and glad you know?

[LastNightmare]

it's something like having great love for you

[Asker]

whyand how? i just see him around sometimes maybe a flirty hello, but i dont know him well at all so i thought it was a little surprising and uncomfortable, because i owuld like to get to know him but he keeps saying intimate or flirty things

[LastNightmare]

guys are just like that.. they want SEX before anything

[Asker]

-.- oi, yes you're right about that i feel i may have made him feeel rejected by not flirting back, ideas for how i can make up for it?:/

[LastNightmare]

it depends upon how you have done.. can't just say anything to you.. need to know how he talks

[Asker]

well he is a smooth guy who is avery experienced flirt as he is good looking and popular with girls. I am shy, dont have lots of experience and so he will do all the cool hot guy tricks and expect me to fawn but i just ignore it and look him in the eye them because i am shy, so like, he will flex his arms and i would do that etc

[LastNightmare]

wow.. pretty amazing sweet shy girl.. are you really into him?

[Asker]

haha thanks and yes, maybe a little bit i dont know him yet im trying not ruin it but build a friendship with him but i keep freezing up lol

[LastNightmare]

if you're not ready for SEX or thing stuff.. just wait for awhile

[Asker]

I am you're right but i made the mistake of giving a sexy flirty hey and i think he responded to that by neing more sexy, but i didn't mean too, it just happened i couldnt help myself cuz DAMN he is cuuuuuuteeee lol and i was ooh i see you boo haha, but im also very shy and inexperienced so i can't do more than that but i think me being flirty with heys implied it and he's so used to girls drooling all over him... lol

[LastNightmare]

if you keep brining that thing.. you'll end up being his property

[Asker]

so not sure how to get back from that, i think i gave the wrong idea haha, i wish i wasn't a dork, so i gigled and id a sexy hey and i like stared at him like ooo but in a fun way, but for him it must have been annoying because he maybe gets that a lot :/ but im normally very jokey and forward with those things because its fun and people like to be complimented y'know lol

[Asker]

huh? i did this twice but after him being so flirty and aggressive after i won't do it anymore :/ not sure what to do next

[LastNightmare]

just stop.. don't do anything.. are you ready for him? if you're into him go for it.. or just stop

[Blonde401]

Norman Bates...

[Asker]

huh?

[Blonde401]

You don't know who Norman Bates is? 🙄 Pop culture references

[Asker]

haha right ok

[Blonde401]

He's from Psycho...

[Asker]

yeah i know i just didn't know how it related to this lol

[Asker]

oh no lol... thats terrible, but yeah he is weird, he was like oh you're criticizing me like my mother and i was like oh... sorry lol... not sure where to go with this but you seem to have the right idea, not sure what to do lol

[Asker]

(i just watched a clip from it yeah thats disturbing) but i hope norman doesn't compare the girl to his mother lol

[Blonde401]

He's comparing you to his mother that's how it's related. If he's thinking about his mother while with you that's pretty weird

[Aasura]

he just saw u as his wife types.. congratulations

[Asker]

Thank you but i dont get it lol

[Aasura]

it means u r most likely to be compatible with his mother.. when it comes to your mate and her son.. think of it as cookie points..