What does it mean when a guy mentions his mum a lot?

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We’ve met 3 weeks ago online just before lockdown and have been texting pretty much everyday. More recently he shared a picture of him with his mum and brings her up a lot during conversations. He says things like “oh when my mum has had a bad day I do this for her”, “right now I’m making her dinner”. Apparently he’s very close to her.

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Yes but the fact he mentions his mum/family is it a sign that he’s serious about?

Answer 1

Mels26

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i went out with a guy like this not too long ago, he lived with his mum & little sister & he ended up having quite a co-dependent relationship with his mum. at first I thought it was really sweet, like he loved & cared for his mum, then i realised she had an opinion on him going out with me & was trying to tell him i was a bad idea, that’s when it started to get weird, as i told him it’s best we don’t see eachother again, he said ‘i’m never dating anyone again, i could never put my mum through that!’ ummm, what? that’s when i realised all of his mum’s profile pics are of her & he, not his brother or sister... hopefully yours is innocent, but just be aware, it could be a red flag.

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Answer 2

DavidFox

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She’s an important part of his life. What are your concerns?

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Asker

1 y
Why would he mention it to me tho?
DavidFox

1 y
You said you are texting everyday, isn’t he telling you about his life?
Asker

1 y
The fact he mentions his mum/family does it mean he’s serious about me?
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DavidFox

1 y
No, simply mentioning his family isn’t a sign of his feelings
DavidFox

1 y
How many dates has he taken you on?
Asker

1 y
None because of lockdown but we’ve called twice and one of them was FaceTime
DavidFox

1 y
He’s not likely to be serious until he’s been out with you a few times. Be sure not to let your emotions be that deep for him until you meet him irl.
Asker

1 y
Sometimes when we text and he’s about to wish me goodnight he says things like “dream of us 🥰” or he asks for selfies and then says “I’ll just be imagining how it’ll be like to hold you from behind, would you let me hold you against me?”
Asker

1 y
He sends a lot of kiss emojies and similar
DavidFox

1 y
Good on him, he’s envisioning the future and projecting positive vibes. Sounds like things are starting out well. Couldn’t you all meet at a park and have a conversation while you walk?
Asker

1 y
It’s literally a week just before the end of lockdown, I think I’d rather wait tbh
Asker

1 y
I don't know and maybe this is silly but I’m just afraid he might not ask me out after the lockdown is over
DavidFox

1 y
Gotcha. If that’s the case has he asked you out and planned your first date?
Asker

1 y
Not yet no he hasn’t
Asker

1 y
He might?
DavidFox

1 y
Oh there’s the answer. See why I suggested you hold onto your emotions and not fall too deeply? Bluntly the daily texting is too much at this point, you haven’t met. But no, he’s not serious if he hasn’t even planned a date yet. Sounds like things are ok, just will need to see what actions he takes when lockdown ends.

You could suggest a few things you are looking forward to go do after lockdown ends. That way if he’s considering meeting you he better knows how to plan activities you would enjoy doing.
Asker

1 y
Oh but he asked at some point like a week or something ago what would be my ideal activity for a first date. We were playing 20 questions.
DavidFox

1 y
See? He’s thinking about asking you out. Sounds like things are ok, just relax and don’t overthink
Asker

1 y
Okie dokie thank you so much for your replies :))

Answer 3

Asker

Why would he mention it to me tho?

Answer 4

DavidFox

You said you are texting everyday, isn’t he telling you about his life?

Answer 5

Asker

The fact he mentions his mum/family does it mean he’s serious about me?

Answer 6

DavidFox

No, simply mentioning his family isn’t a sign of his feelings

Answer 7

DavidFox

How many dates has he taken you on?

Answer 8

Asker

None because of lockdown but we’ve called twice and one of them was FaceTime

Answer 9

DavidFox

He’s not likely to be serious until he’s been out with you a few times. Be sure not to let your emotions be that deep for him until you meet him irl.

Answer 10

Asker

Sometimes when we text and he’s about to wish me goodnight he says things like “dream of us 🥰” or he asks for selfies and then says “I’ll just be imagining how it’ll be like to hold you from behind, would you let me hold you against me?”

Answer 11

Asker

He sends a lot of kiss emojies and similar

Answer 12

DavidFox

Good on him, he’s envisioning the future and projecting positive vibes. Sounds like things are starting out well. Couldn’t you all meet at a park and have a conversation while you walk?

Answer 13

Asker

It’s literally a week just before the end of lockdown, I think I’d rather wait tbh

Answer 14

Asker

I don't know and maybe this is silly but I’m just afraid he might not ask me out after the lockdown is over

Answer 15

DavidFox

Gotcha. If that’s the case has he asked you out and planned your first date?

Answer 16

Asker

Not yet no he hasn’t

Answer 17

Asker

He might?

Answer 18

DavidFox

Oh there’s the answer. See why I suggested you hold onto your emotions and not fall too deeply? Bluntly the daily texting is too much at this point, you haven’t met. But no, he’s not serious if he hasn’t even planned a date yet. Sounds like things are ok, just will need to see what actions he takes when lockdown ends.

You could suggest a few things you are looking forward to go do after lockdown ends. That way if he’s considering meeting you he better knows how to plan activities you would enjoy doing.

Answer 19

Asker

Oh but he asked at some point like a week or something ago what would be my ideal activity for a first date. We were playing 20 questions.

Answer 20

DavidFox

See? He’s thinking about asking you out. Sounds like things are ok, just relax and don’t overthink

Answer 21

Asker

Okie dokie thank you so much for your replies :))

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