Why do guys constantly pause during sex?

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SOUTHofZERO Follow
Xper 6 Age: 25 , mho 78%

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As dudes we know our limitations and, by the way, we want to make it last too. A lot of guys need a breather to slow things down sowe can last longer. As he gets more experience be'll be able to go longer and longer. My very FIRST time wirh a girl, I was 12 n came on her leg BEFORE my dick even came in contact with her. She was 16 n had me bone hard again in like 5 min. As I got more experience I learned more control. Another idea would be for him to jack off before you guys have sex. That way he might have a little more control.

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- Asker
  
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  I've heard that too! He's actually very experienced tho lol
  
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- SOUTHofZERO
  
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  Maybe he oughtta beat off before u guys hook up...
  
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mrinalashesh007 Follow
Xper 7 Age: 39 , mho 60%

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Well.. he might be suffering from a PME.. so he was trying to give you a better sex.. long lasting one. that's why he might be having a pause.. lol he didn't know that u hated it.. haha..

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cupcake_625 Follow
Xper 6 Age: 27

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Not sure lol. Has something to do with cumming too soon probably

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RJGraveyTrain Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 55%

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It's called catching your breath. Lol. Pumpin' ain't easy.

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MrSaini Follow
Xper 5 Age: 33 , mho 47%

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Probably thinking of 'chandler' or 'baseball' to feel a little less excited.

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pierre7i Follow
Guru Age: 44 , mho 34%

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For me, it's to experience the very special sensation of the girl's deciously warm, moist vagina caressing my hard cock tightly... I can feel a sense of pure sexual excitement when I do that.

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karan140888 Follow
Xper 5 Age: 37

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To prevent himself for cumming too early. If the rhythm is perfect without any break a guy can cum in mere 10 min.

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- Asker
  
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  It was 5 tops
  
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- COCOCHANEL
  
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  i think he meant 10 seconds
  
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- karan140888
  
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  Yeah then he is really trying to cum not early. Also I would say and I am talking out of my personal experience, foreplay really works. Our ( me and my dear wife) our foreplay session takes upto 30 min and by that time we get hot considerably and then I fuck her first slowly and depending on her reaction I change the pace. That's how I control myself from cumming early. Rarely I have stopped.
  
  Have sex like this. Your whole act will be stretched for an hour.
  
  Enjoy it.
  
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- karan140888
  
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  @COCOCHANEL= for that it's doggy style. way too tightness and pressure in that position.
  
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- Anime27
  
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  Hahahaha doggy. 😂😂 that's my partners weak position too... something about the view and all that. Lol thing is being pregnant doesn't leave a lot of positions available... so he has what he says is a "tactical wank" a few hours before sex... so he lasts longer. Poor cherub it still feels great whether it's 60 seconds or 60 minutes. 😂
  
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- karan140888
  
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  @Anime27.. hehehe tactical wank.
  for me more than the view it's the sensation. You really the grip of the vagina on your dick.
  
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OrdinaryGentleman Follow
Guru Age: 31

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While you are being a dead fish we have to move our hips, do some work for once and maybe you'll pause too. #rektum

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- Asker
  
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  Definitely not a dead fish
  
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- OrdinaryGentleman
  
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  Then you should understand why he pauses. Either to stop cumming or to catch his breath
  
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- Asker
  
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  I thought to stop it because I can feel it pulse but I don't know
  
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- OrdinaryGentleman
  
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  Guys can pulse it voluntarily.
  
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- Asker
  
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  Really?
  
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- OrdinaryGentleman
  
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  At least i can, I don't know about other guys.
  
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echoaj Follow
Yoda Age: 30

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Easy question. Because we don't want to cum too soon.

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Anonymous
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Probably getting close to cumming and want to hold out longer

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Well sometimes we might need a breather for a second. Enjoyable as it is, it's work too

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- Asker
  
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  Fair enough lol
  
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Carley99 Follow
Yoda Age: 26 , mho 37%

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Because they get tired

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behappybabe Follow
Xper 6 Age: 29 , mho 36%

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Trying to prevent cumming early.

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mooky06 Follow
Master Age: 32 , mho 45%

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To prevent himself from cumming too quickly.

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Anonymous
(36-45)

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Because half time is over and they can't continue until the game is over.

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Doglover9 Follow
Xper 4 Age: 35

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Probably because they are trying to last and not try to ejaculate too quickly

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BeastRB Follow
Yoda Age: 26

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We're trying not to nut

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BeautifulPromisesx Follow
Yoda Age: 31

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You need to press "play"

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PrincessPie Follow
Master Age: 33 , mho 38%

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because they're trying to last probably...

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Princeofanons Follow
Yoda Age: 33

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So he can take a fart in between

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JustinTheGreat Follow
Master Age: 28

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457 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

To hold back from cumming too soon.

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rgb008 Follow
Master Age: 31

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He's bored obviously.

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Kit_Kat88 Follow
Yoda Age: 32

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To make it loooooong lasting

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thomasans Follow
Xper 6 Age: 50

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You must have a defective guy.

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- Asker
  
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  ? Meaning
  
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- thomasans
  
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  Maybe I could come help teach you about guys, cock and sex.☺
  
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Anonymous
(36-45)

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Mmmm not sure honestly mine doesn't do that...

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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To change positions? I don't know

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Anonymous
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To ask for consent? YES MEANS YES Law

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EAZYE Follow
Xper 4 Age: 45

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it's all about rhythm..

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Finnick Follow
Xper 5 Age: 27

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Buffering.

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COCOCHANEL Follow
Master Age: 40

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to last longer

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Anonymous
(30-35)

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Not to cum!

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Anonymous
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I never do

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