Why do guys stare when you dance with someone else?

[archiz]

I always notice that...
when I am dancing with someone and if it gets a bit sexual, I always spot guys eyeballing us with their mouth open -__-
most probs mentally jerking off to the sight of us

[MrMysteryMan]

Maybe. Usually I just watch how the girl moves with the guy and watch what he does with her and her reactions to it. Not necessarily for pointers, because, I'm a pretty good dancer (not being cocky, I am just well aware from many comments and how women watch me as I dance). But, just for judging from a majority of people watching, how women will react to movements from me I suppose, or where I can touch them usually. Also, it's great entertainment to people watch at a club.

[Ephemera1]

If I'm staring at you while it got a bit sexual it would be with disgust, and my face would clearly show it. Like get a room fuck outta herer

[archiz]

Lol dunno about you, but they weren t disgusted 😂
And I dance latin dancing so it s kinda sexual
And mixed with oriental... you get the idea

[Ephemera1]

Well I wasn't there to see the dancing 🤔 but when I do stare it's because of that

[archiz]

I ll keep that in mind next time

[Izumiblu]

lulz... ok, you had me going trying to figure this out right up until you said "if it gets a bit sexual"

lol, cmon girl...

[archiz]

hahaha well I answered myself in the end lol
so it s basically a reproach.
shouldn t guys back off when they see someone taken XD
the more annoying ones are the ones that try to hit on you while you re at it, thinking maybe they can get some too since she s giving it to the other.

[Izumiblu]

well, when guys are out like that they basically have two gears... forward, and forward faster

evolution seems to have rewarded guys with a determination to soldier on even in the face of impossibility

when you dont like the guy, its annoying as all fuck, you want nothing but for them to go the fuck away

but its sexy as all hell when your guy has that determination in the way he carries out his life

[archiz]

good point
that s how your man is?

[Izumiblu]

stupidly so...

[archiz]

hahaha ^^

[datgirl]

I guess they just think it's hot or that you're a good dancer...

[JustRollTheDice]

You answered your own question, they want what others have

[archiz]

yea it s more of a reproach haha

[capturemyheartnow]

Dancing is a skill. And girls who know to dance well , are highly priced so they see , if you have got the grace of movement and action. If you can kill the floor , they will be there to make a kill on your heart. So they are measuring you up with their expectations.

[capturemyheartnow]

Thanks for the MHO.

[Ali55sven]

Just enjoying the view i guess. Why do you need the brag?
Dont you enjoy people watching you dance?

[archiz]

Not really
Imagine you re getting in your moment with a guy you like then when you turn your face you see his friends looking at you from up to down.
Makes it really awkward and a bit embarrassing.
That s why I really don t like making out in public.

[Ali55sven]

Lol you can't complain. If your dancing in public everyone will look at you, even if its in a sexual way or not. No harm, no foul, right?

[archiz]

Didn t say it s harmful
Just saying it s awkward lol

[Ali55sven]

In addition to this i can't imagine myself with a guy because i happen to be attracted to the opposite sex.

[archiz]

Imagine yourself with a girl lol
I was speaking about my case ali

[Ali55sven]

Maybe if its awkward for you, I suggest you get used to it lol.

[Ali55sven]

You know if i was dancing with a girl and happen to attract the attention of other women, i should feel good right. If i was constantly in eye contact with the girl im dancing with, i wouldn't notice anyone else. So in this case, i would be trying to impress other girls by dancing and putting my cards on the table.

[archiz]

Ow shush boyo and keep your suggestions to yourself

[archiz]

Well that s not what I was doing

[Ali55sven]

Alright no need to get salty about it. didn't mean to offend you.

[archiz]

I am not salty
I am sweet 😋

[Emagster21]

:D archiz

[archiz]

@Emagster21 😛😛

[OrangeBoy]

Mouth open? xdd, they all have their mouth open while dancing with you?
You sure you are not stepping their feet? And they are like... trying to avoid screaming of pain or something?

[archiz]

Nah while watching me not dancing with me 😂

[OrangeBoy]

I think I've seen the same with girls ahaha.
In the end we are all sexual animals. The best to do is to laugh about how derp we are by default.
Being respectfull is what matters, but i can understand you if some guys are too obvious and do it for a long time, now thats kinda disrespectfull yes.

Meh, what can we do... only just say to ourselfs "fuck yeah moron im madafokin sexy hot, deal with it !!"

[archiz]

No I also get creepy dudes touching me
Like touching my hair out of nowhere and trying to dance near me

[OrangeBoy]

That actually is nasty creepy endeed : /
And with alcool... people just do it with no problem... i have to admit it can be pretty scary being a girl and trying to chill at night...

[archiz]

Yea that s why I am happy when I have guys with me

[OrangeBoy]

Curiosity, do you have some kind of self defense weapon?

[archiz]

I have pepper spray in my car 😂

[OrangeBoy]

o damm, better not lose the keys :p

[archiz]

Hahaha

[Tomsta]

Us guys are visual creature and when a girl dances seductivley oir minds tend to wonder... however I've blocked that out for the most part since starting bachata classes

[archiz]

exactly
I dance latin so it just happens to look sexual

[Tomsta]

I also dance latin

[Nik1hil]

Only of your hairs have bumps, or are straight!.. please.. Can I download that pic now!..

[archiz]

No 😅😅

[Nik1hil]

PiI. It was mesmerizing, I want to draw sketch of it

[Nik1hil]

Plz*

[Jan1ssary_]

Haha lol thats because they dont want any other man to get a chick near them. Afterall every males are there to hunt chicks and be winner of the night 😎 So they be like "Maan fuck ! Look at this lucky bastard" and they be jeolus over this situation.

[FakeName123]

Girls do that as well. Its a matter of social hierachy.

"He/she gets closer with a good looking guy/girl and I didn't". Sexual market and economics.

[Herman_the_German]

Nah, probably trying to tell if you are with the guy your dancing with or a random cum bucket for the night

[archiz]

So to see if they have a chance as well

[Herman_the_German]

Precisely

[ThisDudeHere]

You pretty much answered your own question.

That and they probs get jelly.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Maybe guys stare cause they wish , they were the one dancing with you.

[Bandit74]

Maybe they are imagining themselves in the place of the guy you are dancing with.

[xKirito]

Because a girl dancing is one of the sexiest things in this world.

[realperson02]

it's nothing new. even girls do this. its a matter of jealousy.

[Emagster21]

I think they like doing it. Kinda attractive maybe?

[Emagster21]

Or jealous or like you said turned on.
Really, its very broad.
Many reasons.

[mesio94]

maybe they're just thirsty for some vag.. or your dance moves are way too hot for them to resist

[Roadcruiser1]

Society is pretty Conservative friend. People do not know how to react still bestie. That probably is your reason.

[CHRIS11796]

Do you assume that every guy drools over you when you dance? 😆

[archiz]

Oh come on...
Obviously not every guy. You re making me sound stuck up.

[CHRIS11796]

I believe that's the idea 😊.

[archiz]

lol meany hushh

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Lmao you answered your own question... they're mentally jerking off to you.

[SuitAndTie]

They are jealous and wish they were in the position the guy you are dancing with is in.

[BasicFlake]

We're looking at your shoes, it's shoe envy.

[archiz]

gosh I knew it

[rairai]

they admire your grace posture :)

[archiz]

No way 😂

[rairai]

ofc depending of the dance...

[archiz]

Latin dancing

[rairai]

then the sexyness

[rairai]

you can't dance latin without being sexy and be graceful...

[archiz]

Yes I guess hah

[Anonymous]

Why do men watch other men fucking women in porn?

[archiz]

lmfao word

[Anonymous]

gonna need video of this "sexual dancing" or it didn't happen. :P

[archiz]

I dance latin

[Nightinggale]

You answered your own question amiga.

[archiz]

yea I know

[Nightinggale]

😡😡😡😡

[archiz]

hah :P
you re not in a good moment today lol

[Nightinggale]

lolol im just fuckin around. Im fine :D

[archiz]

good!

[Nightinggale]

😬😬😬😬 ..

[ChocoLada]

Pure and simple - jealousy :P

[Whaaaaa]

They are wondering where your parents are

[Iamathinker]

Some people enjoy watching and fantasizing.

[Anonymous]

Cause you have mad dancing skills

[orphan]

jealousy

[Kurodo]

get a room girl

[Razal]

Jealousy !!

[Anonymous]

jealousy lol

[Anonymous]

yeah cause you would be that egotistical

[archiz]

excuse?

[Opinion Owner]

just sayin'

[archiz]

Lol obviously not every guy drools over me but for me to mention it then it had happen a few times.
I don t see the problem here

[Opinion Owner]

they all must do, i mean, that's what you're implying here..

and yes, you're then egotistical, just like TRUMP!

[archiz]

Then I should just grab them by the dick?

[Opinion Owner]

if that's what you think you should do

[archiz]

Just to be like trump

[Opinion Owner]

if that's what you want