Why guys have an urge to kiss you or look at your lips while talking?

[FlutteringFeelings]

Over the past few years I dealt with a couple of guys either got to know each other, dated, not serious or relationship. It's like a huge urge to kiss me so I'll have to demand a no and fold my lips. I remember one time this guy I was serious with and I asked him why is it such a priority to kiss me. He responds to me "Its not I just want to kiss you to see how it feels." When we were alone the whole time that I'm talking that is all he's staring at... it creeps me out. A guy 3 years back and I'll never forget he mentioned my lips looks soft and he continuously tried to kiss me.

Okay there's nothing wrong with thinking someone has nice lips but why is it such an urge and the focus to kiss them? What do guys think in general that drives guys to want to kiss a girl?

[evelyn26]

Maybe you attract that type of guy that is infatuated with lips/kissing. My guy has told me that sometimes when I talk he just looks at my mouth and wants to kiss me he says. I don't know, some guys just really like kissing or they know if they kiss/make out with a girl that they will eventually and more quickly get her into bed for sex?

[Rainie_]

Happens to me often. Every time I talk they mostly look at my lips and there's just some kind of force that pulls them to my lips 😂😅 it's definitely lust though

[KantStop]

Well, if you're looking deep into a guy's eyes, most will take that as a cue to move in for a kiss. They are attracted to your lips and will look there to see you noticing them noticing you.

If it's a frequent, unwarranted occurrence.

Draw a line the moment you begin talking to guys you don't trust or aren't interested in.

[JDavid25]

I mean, if you think somebody has nice lips, then there will be a sort of desire to kiss them.. I've even seen girls talk about a guy with nice lips, and say that they wanted to kiss them.. Those guys are replacing wanting to have sex with you for the moment with kissing you.. So, their going off of lust.. They just want some.. LOL..

[FlutteringFeelings]

😂😂😂😂 true

[JDavid25]

Thanks for MHO!

[Avneo]

Just to feel the love, and convey our love by way of kissing but some girls love to kill the magic before it happens, yes you may say it'll ruin everything in just 5min, 5dislikes even with intruder warnings of security breach, but who cares...
Lol I would suggest you that if someone likes you so much from the core of heart then don't go way too much rude egoistic, just kiss you deserve lmfao :-D

[Avneo]

You resisted yourself for self respect or to satisfy your genuine ego?

[FlutteringFeelings]

Self respect and to satisfy my ego. Because if I kissed them without it being official they'll assume they have benefits. It also benefits my ego because when I don't kiss them often most of the time they beg for my attention and have the urge to speak to me. Besides the guy I dated seriously that's a different story

[Bigprince]

I know girls with soft looking beautiful lips but I never acted like that, why do you only attract weird guys..

[mrmeseeks]

maybe they read one of those how to get girls books like the Tao of Badass and they think that looking at your lips and standing at an angle will subconsciously make you want to sleep with them?

[goaded]

I've felt that exactly once. A young woman on a ferry, somewhere. I didn't act on it, but it was really strange.

Generally, I look at people's lips while they're talking to better understand what they're saying.

[Kurodo]

Curiosity and lust, if your lips are attractive then its gonna bring the thought up while they're looking at you other than that they would touch most any part of your body if you let them.

[jtmkd]

I think because when you kiss a girl for the first time , its the first connection that exchanges energies within hence why we are fascinated of lips, ill also add that when i look at a girls lips , its pretty calming for some reason.

[FlippK]

It's not kissing. You have that wrong. sometimes men have to practice mouth to mouth respiration so that we are able to help people in need.

[funwithjai]

I always do that coz I feel that from inside... it may be lust

[Anonymous]

We look at the lips because we are listening carefully.

[pranspp5]

more like a natural instinct

[Browneye57]

They want more than just a kiss, I assure you. :)

[swarnav]

Simply physically attracted

[Anonymous]

Always wondered this too

[Pizzalover101]

Caring for them an wanting to show it

[Noctis99]

men are naturally carnivorous creatures

[Catkitty]

Carnivores means

[Anonymous]

Sexual tendency i think

[CT_CD]

I don't

[Anonymous]

lust

[aaaaa55]

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