Ask yourself this: is she asking you to spank her? Does she get turned on by this? Is it a playful thing and have you asked her about it?
If you answered no to all of these questions, then ask yourself this:
Is she a human being with feelings and a tangible body? If yes, then...
Don't even think about it. Women are not property, your wife or girlfriend does not belong to you, nor does she deserve to be abused by her loved one for doing something "you don't like."
Consent is key, your significant other is not an animal, and will listen to reason if the relationship is worth anything at all.
P. S. I loved to be spanked in bed, but I make that very clear to my SO.
As your a woman I can't accept your answer for the obvious reasons. Your a woman the person in question if you've done something very wrong and I ask you should I spank you for it of course your going to say no because your biased.
On top of that spanking your wife is legal so long as there are no marks it wouldn't qualify as abuse.
I'm too old for any man to try and discipline me. Lol. I promise that won't work and he'll just end up knee deep in shit and dumped. We can talk like adults; I'm his partner, not his child.
If he wants to do so as a kink? We can talk about that.
Your 23 as well as that what knee deep shit would he be in?
And you can dump him fine but it just goes to show you don't love him.
If he loves me he won't disrespect me by physically assaulting me against my will with the mind to think he has to punish me. I'm an adult, he's an adult, if he has an issue with something I've done, we'll talk about it.
Knee deep shit - if any guy thinks he can slap the shit out of me as a punishment, in the form of spanking or not, I'm pressing charges. If it's sexual and consensual - okay. But if he physically tries to do that crap with me he's not going to like what happens.
He's not though your disrespecting yourself as usually as an adult talking about it goes nowhere because your both adults who thinks your tight he's wrong. And most of the time the wife walks away or ignores it when he's got a point. by the way it's not sexual assault it's discipline.
As regards to the knee deep shit you can't spanking your partner is legal as long as there are no marks if you tried to press charges for it he would counter charge you with slander and attempted fraud of the law so if anything it will be you in knee deep shit and who's not going to like what happens.
Lol you're dense.
😂 is that it
Give it a try and see what happens man.
You state factually incorrect information and call me dense? 😂 very smart. On top of that this doesn't sound like an adult who will reasonably talk about an issue see this is why you get spanked.
Oh what will happen girl? Please tell me?
@chico_brah Do you get spanked when you misbehave bruh?
Go ahead call for the police 😂 but when they answer they'll be coming over to arrest you with wasting the time and resources of the police force.
Dude I don't know if you're just obsessed with this topic but if you hit someone, it leaves a mark - unless you hit like a bitch that is, in such a case that's hardly a punishment- even then someone can do something about it. There are stories of parents getting into shit just for spanking their own children, I don't think you'd be a magical exception. Again, unless you hit so weakly that you can't leave a mark, in which case I don't get the point.
Why are you calling someone else for help your a strong independent woman right? You shouldn't need someone else's help if your so in the right proving me wrong shouldn't be a problem on your own.
You can't arrest someone for making a report. Lol.
Hey man you asked for an opinion, you don't have to get so defensive just because one woman wouldn't tolerate you spanking her ass. 😂
Here in the law marks qualify as lacerations as a result of the spanking. As some people use implements.
Sources?
I'm not I'm discussing like an adult. And women don't have to tolerate because of course if you are taking drugs and I decide to spank you for it obviously your not going to say yes to it but you clearly need it as proven by your attitude in this discussion to the general male populous that would spank their partner.
Again: sources to the laws you mentioned?
There are none or few general articles online. Nobody puts the law online if they did anybody and everything could manipulate it and repost it on their own website making people believe false laws.
The real laws are on paper or on government computers you'd have to visit as ask for public documents which typically mostly law students go for.
That's what I thought. 😂😂
If you want your sources you'll have to google the laws on spanking your partner and you'll find what I said.
Well what country do you live in? I'll fact check.
Thought what? You asked something entirely different.
You said it's legal in other comments so I wanna see if it's true.
UK but I qualify for the rest of Europe as well as an attorney.
Comments?
I'm gonna look into it. Thanks.
Your thanking me? 😂 Well who needs to spank you when you listen to reason it only took 27 replies. Realistically i'm not going to just spank your or my wife for no reason but there may be some exceptions such as taking drugs I probably would.
Harsh but true the reason he walked away was because that law is in place and it forms a "precedent" (just google it it's easier)
www.dailymail.co.uk/.../...r-walks-free-court.html
Not finding any laws that support your theory dude - is there a specific name for it? Because as far as I see, this doesn't exist.
This guy was prosecuted though, so it kinda goes against what you're saying. Lol.
He was persecuted for sending abusive emails staff etc not for spanking.
Like I said you won't find anything because the law isn't really on the internet the best you get is article from news papers who ask actual officials in the law and they give an answer but they don't give away information. The best your going to get is if you ask a barrister or judge you know i'll see if I can find something but the media is the media manipulative in its words.
"But he pleaded guilty to assault last month at Mold Crown Court in North Wales"
"Jones, from, Wrexham, was also ordered to attend a domestic violence course and made the subject of a two-year restraining order."
He was prosecuted for assault. Like I said. Lol. Case closed.
The linseed court case is a good example.
This isn't an article. This looks like fanfiction. Lol.
Not so simple as that in this case. Jones "pleaded guilty for assault" but he was not "convicted for assault" by the court has he not pleaded he would be a free man. Case far from closed.
And that's the best your going to get. Linseed v linseed is a good example but it's details are kept confidential at the request of the claimant and defendant. Long and short of it husband spanked her he got away with it but you don't have to believe me.
Lol if you plead guilty that means you admit you assaulted someone and were charged subsequently for the crime you pleaded guilty for. It insinuates those were the charges imposed.
He was punished for assault. Like I knew he would be. You've yet to prove that this law exists and this is generally accepted dude and even went as far as to shoot yourself in the foot by giving me an article of a man who was actually prosecuted for domestic violence for spanking his wife. It states it in the article. This is just further proving my point.
You can be into spanking all you want but there's no evidence supporting any laws in favour of it, not that I can find.
You're right, I definitely don't believe it. Lol.
That's besides the point here. He pleaded guilty but he was not found guilty by the law. It insinuates it but it doesn't change the fact it is law.
It's not for me to prove I have no personal gain proving anything here.
And I haven't shot myself in the foot at all I have indeed proven spanking is not a cause for arrest. It doesn't say that he was prosecuted for spanking his wife it's for assault. You can twist whatever I give you but it still won't help.
And of course there is evidence if I spank you right now and you go ahead and proceed to claim those charges and I don't plead guilty nothing will happen.
Lol. Okay.
You don't have to believe what you want but when the situation arises you'll find the outcome says it all.
I don't think it will, as far as I know, people don't do that here, and my man certainly never would. We talk out our issues, like I said. That's just what we prefer to do.
Yes but what you think and what it is are two entirely different things. Just because something isn't socially acceptable doesn't that man is obliged to obey societies standards.
Lol.
What?
Literally no rational person living in this day n age would ever attempt to spank their girlfriend or wife. Slapping your wife in the midst of domenstic violence sounds more reasonable than to bend her over and spank her lmao. I mean, I've been on a lot of domestic disturbance calls and I've literally never heard of someone spanking their wife or girlfriend. Only on gag would I ever read this as being a normal thing. I'd have to think that you're socially isolated because no socially well rounded individual would ever deem this as normal. Their peers would laugh at them. I mean, do you realize how weird this sounds or have you just not gone outside in a week? Jesus lmao
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Correction no smart and experienced living person.
And what? Your telling me it's better slap someone then spank someone?
Well then you see the problem that's your mind frame your stuck in a deluded world as a deluded individual your saying because society doesn't it means you don't fact is you don't think for yourself you let someone else do the thinking and who is this person you trust?
This sounds weird because like I said your stuck in societies rules your not looking at the bigger picture.
Your telling me in short it's ok to eat chicken or beef but when I say it's ok to eat horse meat or crocodile meat you call it weird reality is cavemen must have eaten both at some point in time.
And you shh don't laugh I thought your an adult? Like him you just take his word for it trusting don't else to do the thinking to be right but what happens when he isn't yup you look stupid.
I'm still laughing. Lol.
Societal norms are comprised by the general population. Meaning, the general population deems what is normal and what is not normal. The general population are to be considered rational when in regards to what's normal and what's not. You sir, have completely deviated from rational thought. It's not so much that I follow society as much as it is that what you're saying is just very strange. No rational person would ever be able to piece this together in a way of rationalization. You are so socially isolated to the extent that you've actually deemed this as rational. You stray away from societal norms for a reason. The reason I think you are socially isolated is because anyone that's participating in basic communication with other human beings in a multitude of normal social settings... would never see this as rationally applicable. It's not applicable and you don't know that because you don't communicate with the world. Go outside and experience the world. You sound crazy.
Well no because the general population agree on a subject and assume that it's normal but that doesn't make it normal. If everyone says 1+1= 11 then apparently that's normal when truth is what's normal is 1+1= 2.
I think it is you sire who have not only completely deviated from rational thought but common sense too.
Well yes because when someone isn't rational and they hear the rational reasoning it will be strange to them because they're not rational that's why it's strange.
I find it very futile that you base your false claims on the idea i'm "socially isolated" yet you don't know me at all realistically it's impossible to be one has to work to eat.
And very wrong I stray from societies because to me your like lost sheep in a herd following never exploring.
But you know something funny this sounds like a lot of detail based on assumptions? But is it? Maybe your not speaking about me at all sounds to me like your talking about yourself which easily projects why you lack simple
Simple understanding at the current situation. So if anything I think it's you who needs to ho outside and experience the world because you sound crazy to me. And most people lacking intelligence struggle to understand the intelligent.
I know question is why are you laughing at yourself.
I'm extroverted and talk to literally everyone. You're barking up the wrong tree. I don't need to know you personally to come to that assumption. So yes, it's an assumption. What you're stating here and how you're talking brought me to that assumption. I'm not sure if you can really call anyone stupid or insult their intelligence when you literally dug yourself into a deeper hole proving YOURSELF wrong to RJgraveytrain.
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Good for you.
I'm barking up the wrong tree you say as you approach me with bold accusations.
Exactly an assumption is far from the truth and the big problem is you don't know me through the way I talk you only think you do.
Well actually yesI can be I DID NOT dig myself any hole because I didn't prove myself wrong at all she like many small minded people read things and exaggerate to support her argument but it is ultimately wrong funny how you question me but when it comes to her you didn't question that at all so who is really digging themselves a hole?
And you RJ butt out of it. I like how your hiding behind a man occasionally coming out when it suits you. Nothing says childish then that your clearly on your way to a spanking.
I'd say yes but only with prior consent where she expressly says she likes/ loves it. If she's into getting spanked then yeah.
Well the thing is if a woman is doing something very bad would she consent to it?
If she broke the tv because she was silly drunk would she say "yes you can" exactly this is the thing.
Agreed on that but would she really every agree to it? Would you? I don't see many women facing up to it. Lets say you break that tv and I ask you "do you consent to a spanking?" What's your answer?
Oh hmmm well no spanking for you then. I'll pay for a new tv too.
spanking a woman in form of discipline is plain retarded imho. If you're the type of guy who needs to use violence and want a girl that obeys him, then I suggest finding a girl like that. otherwise you'll date a person who doesn't like that and then you're commiting assault
It's entirely legal so long as there are no marks it doesn't qualify as assault in anyway. Trust me I know the law well.
only for actual discipline.
What would you say are reasonable circumstances.
Like from spilling milk to using drugs (in which case personally she won't be sitting down for a while) but I wouldn't hit out of anger
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During sex maybe, if she's into that. As punishment? Hell no.
Why not?
I'm well aware. And actually I do as her partner I have authority to discipline her it's lawful. And you don't know how women work you ask them to stop and they continue and be childish about it.
Seriously? lol in the bedroom is fine but to discipline me hell no. I'm packing my bags and leaving if he ever tries that.
Yes seriously. And that's fine if your going to leave then do so but it just tells a man you don't truly love him if you did something wrong and instead of facing up to it run away that's a bonus for us.
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The fact that people pull this kinky shit on *anyone* as a form of discipline is weird.
Leave the kinky shit to be kinky shit, leave the discipline to be discipline.
That being said, "disciplining" your partner is generally a bad idea; it's more likely to get you dumped than it is to teach them a lesson. (If your partner is hooked on alcohol/another drug/some other harmful thing, however, it's okay to steer them away from such things.)
I'd rather she dump me because if she's going to run away from her problems that's fine by me but it's not going to involve me. She'll use the same attitude in our relationship.
I have been and so get spanked by my husband and some past boyfriends... I have a temper and have done somethings bratty or things I know I shouldn't have. The heat if the mo. ent or impulse makes me think I can do things and get away with doing anything I want... so I've been spanked for having that attitude or breaking things or face slapping him when I'm in a testing don't mess with me mood.
It makes me smarten up, that's for sure. But I wouldn't admit it to him!
lol. actual discipline? he'd get his testicles pulverized.
You'd got to jail for severe bodily harm. Spanking is legal.
If you're an attorney at 21 in the U. K. then I must be the ice princess in candy land :D
Patent attorney in training your not that lucky love and who said I was 21 ? Because I would put my real age online?
Flattered but not your love hahha lucky? Ok 👍
Never said you were. 👍🏻
lmaoo never said that you said that just stop trying this isn't the debate team
No I didn't I said "love" not "my love" English. And try? Who needs to try when they're succeeding?
Funnily enough I should be saying that to you.
Doesn't matter it still came out that way without you literally having to put the my in front anyways moving on... you're delusional... you've already lost, I shut you down, you could have fun talking/arguing with yourself now, you're not going to get a reaction out of me nor will I even bother to be stubborn or hard-headed like you seem to be to win over a silly argument that's common sense and shouldn't even be formed into a question and to be eager to succeed on something that's common sense🤔bye felicia!😂
You need to stop being so desperate to always have the last word and argue back, there's a lot of better things to do in this one life you get, whether you need this advice or not, you should still consider it, your brain seems to be on edge and not healthy..
Ahem yes it does and no it wouldn't that's one of the many reasons my exists.
😂 I'm delusional? You cannot disprove a single thing I say and say i've already lost? If thats the case i've already won. And did it ever occur to your small tiny mind your the delusional one stuck in societies world. 😂😂😂 that's very interesting you say that because that's exactly what your doing you know they're in the wrong when they become hypocrites you went from a sentence or two to a paragraph funny thing is your shutting yourself down 👏🏻.
Not so fast latisha😂.
Maybe you should mind your own business. And fyi I don't care about having the last word I care about people answering my questions with logic and common sense something a lot of you seem to lack.
You know what I love the most? The fact your describing yourself a few replies from now. Your right it isn't healthy.
And the fact your saying this anonymously says it all what's to hide?
An occasional playful tap on the behind is usually okay, though sometimes she gets mad at me for that. A spank that injures is never okay.
In a sexual way it's acceptable, but it's not acceptable in a mean abusive way.
What about a disciplinary way nearly every wife goes lose eventually
Spank me and I will kick your ass.
Unless she ask you to and s safe word is in place it abuse end of story period
But let's say your wife tried to commit suicide as ridiculous as it sounds if she attempts to do so slapping her across the face somehow snaps her out of it words from a PhD psychologist not mine.
Well unless he is going to be a witness at your trial it is still going to end with you in prison and her having more reasons to kill herself
Well the thing is that never happened fact over opinion.
he'll ya spank the fuck out of it then fuck to show her who Daddy
Like to punish her? Fuck off with that
That's rude I could spank you for that. And before you start with the "Oh i'll call the police and get you done for abuse or sexual assault" or any of that uneducated none sense. It's entirely legal to spank your partner be that official or not. If you did try I could sue you for slander and attempted fraud of the law.
For actual discipline? No. That's fucking weird.
Why?
My boyfriend loves when I spank him
As his girlfriend you qualify in terms of the law as his temporary (until marriage) legal guardian as his legal guardian you do lawfully have the right to spank him as well as long as there are no marks.
If she likes to be spanked.
If she wants it, sure. Otherwise, no.
Well what if she breaks a tv because she was drunk? She's clearly not going to want it but deserves it.
No she doesn't. She gets a bill.
Her bill is my bill I pay for it all she's house bound
😂 report my comments because he got proven he's an idi*t 👍🏻
You can't disprove a single thing I say and you call me an idi*t 😂 nice one ret*rd 👍🏻
Or maybe your the delusional idi*t who hasn't met enough women (no surprise) to realise what they're really like if you did know then you would know there is no "better way" it's her way or no way ret*rd.
What will you do now?
I like how you post this anonymous says it all why are you hiding?
Only if she consents
Yh but if she's drunk and breaks a tv or is doing drugs is she going to say "oh yes you can discipline me" probably not.
That's besides the point she's never going to consent when sober.
And she shouldn't be drunk breaking things I worked hard for and paid for but she did it anyway
And when do two adults who think they're always right never wrong work out?
The answer is never.
They need to be spanked
I've had hubby spank me.
it depends on if the girl likes it
Sounds fun.
LOL nah bro, wtf?
Wtf what?
it is not acceptable
But it is the law.
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