Signs that a guy may be inexperienced in dating?

[Anonymous]

What are some signs a guy may be inexperienced in dating?

Here's some things the guy I like does that make me think he's inexperienced:
-overly shy and awkward around me only
-never tried to touch me in any way but hinted he wanted me to touch him first
-got a female friend to be his wingman
-talks about me to his closest female friend
-doesn't initiate any contact, but seems to like it when I initiate things.
-tries to flirt but isn't that good at it but I can tell he's trying
-checked my Facebook to find out more about me and my interests
-doesn't want to hang out with me due to being busy and fear of the friend zone but friends say he wants to ask me out.

[btbc92]

To a degree, but your getting way off base. People don't do what you say because they just DON'T. Only you can ask him.

1. I don't approach guys because I don't was to date. And even if I was open to dating, I would rather they come first because it always something wrong with being friends first according to them.

2. Unless you mean by hugging. Why should he touch you in a manner that is disrespectful? I don't believe in touching each other lustfully and sexually in dating and your not married to them. Not lustfully at all. So you will need to ask him where his views and morals lay with that.

3. Well if he's that insecure, doesn't that tell you that he is NOT yet ready for serious dating? He's still learning and growing to become a man. He's not their yet. A woman cannot and shouldn't lead him in that way. That is his job as a young man.

4. Maybe he like you, or he noticed that you like him. Just because I talk about a certain guy, it doesn't mean I like him in that way. I only talked about that person, because they were bugging me or my friends kept bringing it up. Which lead to many disagreements with people who didn't understand how I choose to work. So it's debatable.

5. Well, as Introverts, we usually love our space. If we like you enough, we wouldn't mind you coming in if we mentally invite you. That's an introvert thing.

6. Well, I say that it's best to make him feel comfortable. He shouldn't have to try to flirt. If you got the message, just say something to him. He will greatly appreciate it, so that way he can focus on being who he is without trying to fake it.

7. Sadly, I don't agree with this. If your interested in him, please go speak to him yourself. He should never have to stalk you just to not be assertive. It means he gets to play it safe, instead of taking a chance.

8. Don't pay attention to friends all the time. He's probably getting picked on and teased by them because THEY want to see him with you. He may not be ready for that. So you have to figure that out with him. He has to ask you on his OWN, unless you do it. Don't until you hear the horses mouth for yourself. That is my advice. Other than that, I say that if you two really want a relationship, please be friend first for a while and truly get to know each other on a deeper level before you cross that line. That means about morals, views, sex, etc. These things MUST be talked about before becoming official. Because you don't want to make promises you can't keep when you

[btbc92]

are not compatible. It will only hurt the both of you. Plus, make sure that you can see a FUTURE long term with him. Because if not, your wasting your time. Right now, he's being fickle and don't know if he's making the right choice. Dating should be a rational decision, not a decision based on feelings.

[Asker]

It's difficult for me too because I'm an introvert. By the way he's 29 years old so you could be right and maybe it is all me. Maybe I'm just being confusing to him.

[btbc92]

I don't think you'll be a confusing to him I say that he's just caught in his own little world and you're just ready to take a step out of yours. he's not ready to share his world with you.

[Asker]

Makes sense because we still barely know each other

[btbc92]

and that's why I say you better off being friends for a while. that way even if you guys are not romantically with compatible at least you made a friend, and he can still have time to grow and mature. but as a fair warning I wouldn't suggest doing it if you're not ready to take on that responsibility.

[iBluestar]

A lot of guys are like this. They think that all girls will reject them and generally won't ask girls out unless they are certain that they will say yes. Ask him out and he'll say yes I'm sure but it doesn't matter whether he's experienced or not he'll be a good boyfriend no matter what.

[ItsTimmy787]

Nervous bad at starting convos or complimenting or flirting

[Asker]

Yep he's all that

[ItsTimmy787]

Then he sucks at it has he been laid before?

[Asker]

I don't know if he has or not. He's 29 so I'm assuming so.

[ItsTimmy787]

Yeah lol I don't know dates aren't really a thing for some guys lol