What are the signs a guy is inexperienced in dating?

[Anonymous]

[Bjorn526]

I don’t have lots of experience dating. However, I have lots of experience being in relationships, being with women, etc. so inexperience with dating may come in different forms. I hardly ever get nervous for example, if I were to go in a date, but dating to me, feels like I’m doing something, that other people do lots more than I have done, I’m always told “I am different than what I expected” or “it didn’t feel like a date” or whatever, but I’m not sure what is supposed to happen, and I grew up with sisters and just at ease around women, and that sometimes works against me, as some girls interpret it as “indifference” or being too relaxed, to the point, they think I don’t give a shit. But I think they just are used to more tension and nervousness and structure maybe? Not sure. So, I don’t know how you could tell, based on my story

[apple24]

That very interesting. I could say that about my brothers. I live and sleep and share a room with my brother since he was born. But I still get shy when I see cute guy around eventhough I been around boys all my life. Boys as in my brother and cousin. I am the oldest so there is that. I don’t claim to understand men but in a way I am comfortable around them. But I am still trying to get over super hot guys thing where I become speechless. lol

[Bjorn526]

Haha, you being raised with males, I swear, promise you, it’s a really good thing because girls who have brothers, you don’t even have to tell me, behavior alone when around men says which girl has brothers and which one had only a sister for example. Totally different energy and just about everything, you won’t have a contention-like vibe because of it, and accept guys for guys, not trying to change them or feel a need to question them and ignite drama, you will know how to just hang out, knowing how simple they are. Huge advantage.
I didn’t mean to insinuate women can’t make me nervous, yes, I get super infatuated and fumble over myself occasionally

[Bjorn526]

Of course , this is always the case, it’s just a pattern, I’ve seen, isn’t always the case

[apple24]

I can be demanding. I am the oldest. I never wanted my brother to change. I might be a big bitch because he keeps putting trash and not throwing it away. Lol will I change him? I don’t think so nor would I give myself a task. I can’t control others nor do I want to. I really don’t do dramas unless it’s k-drama.

[Bjorn526]

People don’t change, unless they do it themselves but I’ve heard after 4-5 years old, biologically; basically personality, temperament, communication, inquisitiveness, health to some degree, it’s all done. You are complete at 5, meaning it’s basically impossible to change and manipulate someone to change who they are, it’s impossible, their behavior, lot of it, is determined by biology, table manners and being polite and doing what you are told or else, sure, but can’t change a person

[apple24]

Lol I would never ask Anyone.

[Bjorn526]

Usually the first born, of a group of siblings will have the highest IQ, and an ability to take on more responsibility. Yah, I hear ya, there was so much estrogen in my home, up to four girls yelling at once, I would just be outside, had to pee outside anyway, could never get into the bathroom
K-drama?

[apple24]

Lol korean soap opera. I know I am a girl

[apple24]

I don’t consider myself smart. I think my brother is great. His grammar is no joke the best.

[Bjorn526]

That’s cool, main thing, is to have a good relationship.

[aceexp]

Probably if they're awkward, nervous, and what others said about them not displaying affection in public cause they'd be nervous to. They may be super romantic and invest a lot of time into you as though its a movie, or it might feel platonic for awhile because they don't know what to do.

[notflyingbird]

There are more options to handle the situation for guys eighter they can be a bit nervous sometimes but really treat you like you are everything! Or they can be (over) confident but make stupid (yerk-) mistakes without noticing it.

[apple24]

I am not sure. I only dated one very experienced guy.

[Honglitha]

Avoid any questions related with love and commitment

[ManOnFire]

Does that really matter? If he's dating you, shouldn't that be all you're concerned about?

[Minnow990]

I mean it depends on his confidence level and how you react to what he does and says. For example, when I first started dating i was shy and really only did what the girl wanted when she was ready. Was not confident and didn't make many moves if any.

Nowadays I am more confident and can usually make attempts at a first kiss because I can read her body language and the way she's responding to what we talk about.

Overall if you like him, give him a chance and dont be afraid to talk straight up and honestly. Let him know that if he wants to make a move he is welcome to, but if it's not something you're ready for, communicate that to him as well.

[Unit1]

- single guy
- gets aroused too easily by women
- has over 5 gigabytes of porn on his drives
- doesn't use incognito when visiting porn sites (unless he still lives with his parents)
- doesn't talk much at first. If at all. Especially when it comes to women. He's very careful with his words.
- has a fleshlight, female body pillow or a sex robot like harmony 2.0
- doesn't know about menstrual cycles
- doesn't have any female friends
- doesn't know what a woman is. There are however humans with long hair and big balls on their chest, whose voices are higher pitched than the usual humans.

[Unit1]

Lots of bitter incel elliot Rodger alikes were triggered by the truths. Consider joining MGTOW.

Seriously get a sense of humor instead of becoming bitterly butthurt.

Or get another hatsune miku waifu.

[Anonymous]

What’s a sign a girl continue to make herself miserable: fault finding and looking for weaknesses in dating partners.

So what if a guy is inexperienced with dating? That doesn’t mean he will make a bad boyfriend. He might be awkward in the beginning but when he gets more comfortable around you that will change.

You girls continue to make your own lives difficult with this attitude.

[MusicMayhem]

He is afraid to show he is attracted to you, things like touching, kissing. But he will make you seem like a goddess buying you everything and incessantly complimenting you, rather than flirting and making himself seem like the catch. Instead he will talk about boring unoriginal topics and fail to create any sexual tension. He will also constantly ask what you want to do rather than being a man and making decisions and leading you through the date.

[MLGbreezy]

This is interesting can I ask you a quick question?

[MusicMayhem]

@MLGbreezy sure

[MLGbreezy]

Okay so i tend to struggle with flirting and creating sexual tension when talking to females especially over text. are compliments not a form of flirting as well it is that completely spereate and if si how do i go about flirting or teasing when i don't know much about a girl sorry that was long

[Demised]

1st sign he's super shy n nervous.
2nd, doesn't have the balls to make d 1st move.
3rd, secretly wishes u could make a move n talk to him.
4th, becomes super nervous around u.
5th, afraid to ask for ur nmbr, if asked, will ask indirectly.
6th, wants u to ask him anything.
7th, wil be super concious when talkin to u.
8th, wil treat u like a princess.
9th, wil tel u if asked he is a virgin.
10, wants to hold ur hand n touch but doesn't.

[VIVANT]

i dont think inexperienced necessarily means extra nice. plenty of people are cold if they feel at a disadvantage. plus some people are jerks. experience or no.

[prajjwalbisht]

1. Shy on holding hands.
2. Publically won't display affection.
3. The conversation would be random.
4. You might feel he doesn't care when actually he does.
5. He will try to be with you as much as possible.
I know coz I was one at some point.

[WhistleForTheChoir]

I just straight up tell them about it, no point in lying. That said, no one has ever been surprised when I said it, so you might just know. I also think it's kind of funny that every single time I've asked if inexperience is a disqualifier, the opinion is always, "No, no one cares about that," but like four out of five answers are negatively stereotyping, some absurdly so. And all the answers from one gender are negative as of the time of this writing.

[Travis247]

I remember back in the day, it was hard to figure out how to talk to a girl in order for her to become my girlfriend because I didn't know anyone who was experienced to look up to. For me I had a readers block so to speak when it came to them. Had no idea how to start. Verry frusterateing... Didn't know exactly what I wanted out of such a relationship either so totally lost is the key thing to look for with an inexperienced man in the dating world in my opinion.

[Liisjak]

If you really like someone you will always look inexperienced just cuz you care about what the other person thinks of you. If he's just looking for sex he won't give a fuck how things go.

[VIVANT]

very very true in my opinion

[Ljd213]

If I was inexperienced I would tell you.

Do people only like whores nowadays?

Don't tell me "experienced", that is just another word for "I sexually touch a ton of men or women throughout my lifetime"

"Oh, I probably have caught some STD along the way but oh well as long as I sexually satisfy you everything will be alright :)"

[passinby]

The simple fact that he is stupid enough to date you means he is inexperienced and dorky. If you can't get laid the first night then it ain't worth the bllsht and he will eventually learn that.

[Hellllooooo]

Shy, awkward, talks too much or too little, babbles when he does. Weird sitting posture. Doesn't know where or what to do.

[Loser94]

Shy, flusterd, hardly talks, no eye contact and very very nervous and insecure, just look for his facial features and body movement, im inexperieced as well like not at all.

[Anon-ymous1]

Decent answer.

[Loser94]

@Anon-ymous1

[Loser94]

@Anon-ymous1 well that cause im a virgin with no dating experiance so i know how that is lol

[Caaarl]

When they think your vagina is higher than your asshole.

[Prof_Don]

He tries too hard to impress (both words and actions), instead of being his natural and relaxed self.

[Servus09]

1.) He takes things slow.
2.) He's not a smooth talker who says the right things all the time.
3.) Getting him to open up may be difficult.

[bloodmountain1990]

It’s not always easy to tell, but I guess if someone is just super clueless when it comes to dating and thinks it’s like the movies

[VIVANT]

what is that like compared to real life? I don't know if there is a standard 'movie relationship' and usually they are dysfunctional, but maybe we watch different movies :)

[libtech]

If he calls you the next day, sends you flowers or acts interested within 72hours

[FlyingSpatula]

I'd love to answer this but I feel like a girl would know better.