What are the signs a guy is inexperienced in dating?

What are the signs a guy is inexperienced in dating?

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  • Probably if they're awkward, nervous, and what others said about them not displaying affection in public cause they'd be nervous to. They may be super romantic and invest a lot of time into you as though its a movie, or it might feel platonic for awhile because they don't know what to do.

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  • Does that really matter? If he's dating you, shouldn't that be all you're concerned about?

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  • If you really like someone you will always look inexperienced just cuz you care about what the other person thinks of you. If he's just looking for sex he won't give a fuck how things go.

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  • The simple fact that he is stupid enough to date you means he is inexperienced and dorky. If you can't get laid the first night then it ain't worth the bllsht and he will eventually learn that.

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  • 1st sign he's super shy n nervous.
    2nd, doesn't have the balls to make d 1st move.
    3rd, secretly wishes u could make a move n talk to him.
    4th, becomes super nervous around u.
    5th, afraid to ask for ur nmbr, if asked, will ask indirectly.
    6th, wants u to ask him anything.
    7th, wil be super concious when talkin to u.
    8th, wil treat u like a princess.
    9th, wil tel u if asked he is a virgin.
    10, wants to hold ur hand n touch but doesn't.

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    • i dont think inexperienced necessarily means extra nice. plenty of people are cold if they feel at a disadvantage. plus some people are jerks. experience or no.

  • 1. Shy on holding hands.
    2. Publically won't display affection.
    3. The conversation would be random.
    4. You might feel he doesn't care when actually he does.
    5. He will try to be with you as much as possible.
    I know coz I was one at some point.

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  • He is afraid to show he is attracted to you, things like touching, kissing. But he will make you seem like a goddess buying you everything and incessantly complimenting you, rather than flirting and making himself seem like the catch. Instead he will talk about boring unoriginal topics and fail to create any sexual tension. He will also constantly ask what you want to do rather than being a man and making decisions and leading you through the date.

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    • This is interesting can I ask you a quick question?

    • Okay so i tend to struggle with flirting and creating sexual tension when talking to females especially over text. are compliments not a form of flirting as well it is that completely spereate and if si how do i go about flirting or teasing when i don't know much about a girl sorry that was long

  • I remember back in the day, it was hard to figure out how to talk to a girl in order for her to become my girlfriend because I didn't know anyone who was experienced to look up to. For me I had a readers block so to speak when it came to them. Had no idea how to start. Verry frusterateing... Didn't know exactly what I wanted out of such a relationship either so totally lost is the key thing to look for with an inexperienced man in the dating world in my opinion.

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  • If I was inexperienced I would tell you.

    Do people only like whores nowadays?

    Don't tell me "experienced", that is just another word for "I sexually touch a ton of men or women throughout my lifetime"

    "Oh, I probably have caught some STD along the way but oh well as long as I sexually satisfy you everything will be alright :)"

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  • I just straight up tell them about it, no point in lying. That said, no one has ever been surprised when I said it, so you might just know. I also think it's kind of funny that every single time I've asked if inexperience is a disqualifier, the opinion is always, "No, no one cares about that," but like four out of five answers are negatively stereotyping, some absurdly so. And all the answers from one gender are negative as of the time of this writing.

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  • I don’t have lots of experience dating. However, I have lots of experience being in relationships, being with women, etc. so inexperience with dating may come in different forms. I hardly ever get nervous for example, if I were to go in a date, but dating to me, feels like I’m doing something, that other people do lots more than I have done, I’m always told “I am different than what I expected” or “it didn’t feel like a date” or whatever, but I’m not sure what is supposed to happen, and I grew up with sisters and just at ease around women, and that sometimes works against me, as some girls interpret it as “indifference” or being too relaxed, to the point, they think I don’t give a shit. But I think they just are used to more tension and nervousness and structure maybe? Not sure. So, I don’t know how you could tell, based on my story

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    • That very interesting. I could say that about my brothers. I live and sleep and share a room with my brother since he was born. But I still get shy when I see cute guy around eventhough I been around boys all my life. Boys as in my brother and cousin. I am the oldest so there is that. I don’t claim to understand men but in a way I am comfortable around them. But I am still trying to get over super hot guys thing where I become speechless. lol

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    • I don’t consider myself smart. I think my brother is great. His grammar is no joke the best.

    • That’s cool, main thing, is to have a good relationship.

  • Shy, flusterd, hardly talks, no eye contact and very very nervous and insecure, just look for his facial features and body movement, im inexperieced as well like not at all.

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  • Is it bad for a guy to he inexperienced? 🤔
    No, why would think so, it might mean he have a hight standard and he just picked you...

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  • Experienced in dating? Dating is a construct based around early love, dating isn't a skill its a stage of life. So to answer your question you can't tell, you either like the guy or not I mean it shouldn't matter his experience.

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  • 1.) He takes things slow.
    2.) He's not a smooth talker who says the right things all the time.
    3.) Getting him to open up may be difficult.

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  • If he calls you the next day, sends you flowers or acts interested within 72hours

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  • I'd love to answer this but I feel like a girl would know better.

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  • It’s not always easy to tell, but I guess if someone is just super clueless when it comes to dating and thinks it’s like the movies

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    • what is that like compared to real life? I don't know if there is a standard 'movie relationship' and usually they are dysfunctional, but maybe we watch different movies :)

  • Shy, awkward, talks too much or too little, babbles when he does. Weird sitting posture. Doesn't know where or what to do.

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  • When they think your vagina is higher than your asshole.

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  • Usually if he's nervous to touch you, or shakes a bit. If he doesn't really talk much on a date, or blurts out too much.

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  • Avoid any questions related with love and commitment

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  • There are more options to handle the situation for guys eighter they can be a bit nervous sometimes but really treat you like you are everything! Or they can be (over) confident but make stupid (yerk-) mistakes without noticing it.

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  • They need to study us girls ask us what are the sign is and read up on before you start to make you all a couple

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  • I am not sure. I only dated one very experienced guy.

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  • Emotionally unavailable or afraid of commitment. Also, bad at communication.

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  • He acts awkward and shy

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    • I agree with this.

      Girls tend to make things awkward though by making men in putting most of the effort and the work into a date.

  • He over use the sweet sweet words

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  • Not keeping u entertained or present in the moment

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  • If they look like ass

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  • My ex was. That pile of shit. He learned on my skin and than dumped me for a girl with zombie jaws.

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    • Wow, that sucks.

      I guess that is how people build "experience"

    • @Ljd213 yeah he never apologized for a single thing but said shit like “I hope I don’t do the same mistakes to someone else” “ I need to learn from tgis” (he was 26 not 12). But I mean, he didn’t fund my clut at the beginning and stopped trying understanding where it was afterwards, never went down on me once, so theees still a lot baby must learn 🤔😂

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