What are the signs a guy is inexperienced in dating?

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Bjorn526 · Accepted Answer

I don’t have lots of experience dating. However, I have lots of experience being in relationships, being with women, etc. so inexperience with dating may come in different forms. I hardly ever get nervous for example, if I were to go in a date, but dating to me, feels like I’m doing something, that other people do lots more than I have done, I’m always told “I am different than what I expected” or “it didn’t feel like a date” or whatever, but I’m not sure what is supposed to happen, and I grew up with sisters and just at ease around women, and that sometimes works against me, as some girls interpret it as “indifference” or being too relaxed, to the point, they think I don’t give a shit. But I think they just are used to more tension and nervousness and structure maybe? Not sure. So, I don’t know how you could tell, based on my story

aceexp · Accepted Answer

Probably if they're awkward, nervous, and what others said about them not displaying affection in public cause they'd be nervous to. They may be super romantic and invest a lot of time into you as though its a movie, or it might feel platonic for awhile because they don't know what to do.

notflyingbird · Accepted Answer

There are more options to handle the situation for guys eighter they can be a bit nervous sometimes but really treat you like you are everything! Or they can be (over) confident but make stupid (yerk-) mistakes without noticing it.

apple24 · Accepted Answer

I am not sure. I only dated one very experienced guy.

Honglitha · Accepted Answer

Avoid any questions related with love and commitment

ManOnFire · Answer

Does that really matter? If he's dating you, shouldn't that be all you're concerned about?

Minnow990 · Answer

I mean it depends on his confidence level and how you react to what he does and says. For example, when I first started dating i was shy and really only did what the girl wanted when she was ready. Was not confident and didn't make many moves if any.

Nowadays I am more confident and can usually make attempts at a first kiss because I can read her body language and the way she's responding to what we talk about.

Overall if you like him, give him a chance and dont be afraid to talk straight up and honestly. Let him know that if he wants to make a move he is welcome to, but if it's not something you're ready for, communicate that to him as well.

Unit1 · Answer

- single guy
- gets aroused too easily by women
- has over 5 gigabytes of porn on his drives
- doesn't use incognito when visiting porn sites (unless he still lives with his parents)
- doesn't talk much at first. If at all. Especially when it comes to women. He's very careful with his words.
- has a fleshlight, female body pillow or a sex robot like harmony 2.0
- doesn't know about menstrual cycles
- doesn't have any female friends
- doesn't know what a woman is. There are however humans with long hair and big balls on their chest, whose voices are higher pitched than the usual humans.

Anonymous · Answer

What’s a sign a girl continue to make herself miserable: fault finding and looking for weaknesses in dating partners.

So what if a guy is inexperienced with dating? That doesn’t mean he will make a bad boyfriend. He might be awkward in the beginning but when he gets more comfortable around you that will change.

You girls continue to make your own lives difficult with this attitude.

MusicMayhem · Answer

He is afraid to show he is attracted to you, things like touching, kissing. But he will make you seem like a goddess buying you everything and incessantly complimenting you, rather than flirting and making himself seem like the catch. Instead he will talk about boring unoriginal topics and fail to create any sexual tension. He will also constantly ask what you want to do rather than being a man and making decisions and leading you through the date.

Demised · Answer

1st sign he's super shy n nervous.
2nd, doesn't have the balls to make d 1st move.
3rd, secretly wishes u could make a move n talk to him.
4th, becomes super nervous around u.
5th, afraid to ask for ur nmbr, if asked, will ask indirectly.
6th, wants u to ask him anything.
7th, wil be super concious when talkin to u.
8th, wil treat u like a princess.
9th, wil tel u if asked he is a virgin.
10, wants to hold ur hand n touch but doesn't.

Travis247 · Answer

I remember back in the day, it was hard to figure out how to talk to a girl in order for her to become my girlfriend because I didn't know anyone who was experienced to look up to. For me I had a readers block so to speak when it came to them. Had no idea how to start. Verry frusterateing... Didn't know exactly what I wanted out of such a relationship either so totally lost is the key thing to look for with an inexperienced man in the dating world in my opinion.

prajjwalbisht · Answer

1. Shy on holding hands.
2. Publically won't display affection.
3. The conversation would be random.
4. You might feel he doesn't care when actually he does.
5. He will try to be with you as much as possible.
I know coz I was one at some point.

Liisjak · Answer

If you really like someone you will always look inexperienced just cuz you care about what the other person thinks of you. If he's just looking for sex he won't give a fuck how things go.

WhistleForTheChoir · Answer

I just straight up tell them about it, no point in lying. That said, no one has ever been surprised when I said it, so you might just know. I also think it's kind of funny that every single time I've asked if inexperience is a disqualifier, the opinion is always, "No, no one cares about that," but like four out of five answers are negatively stereotyping, some absurdly so. And all the answers from one gender are negative as of the time of this writing.

Ljd213 · Answer

If I was inexperienced I would tell you.

Do people only like whores nowadays?

Don't tell me "experienced", that is just another word for "I sexually touch a ton of men or women throughout my lifetime"

"Oh, I probably have caught some STD along the way but oh well as long as I sexually satisfy you everything will be alright :)"

passinby · Answer

The simple fact that he is stupid enough to date you means he is inexperienced and dorky. If you can't get laid the first night then it ain't worth the bllsht and he will eventually learn that.

Hellllooooo · Answer

Shy, awkward, talks too much or too little, babbles when he does. Weird sitting posture. Doesn't know where or what to do.

Loser94 · Answer

Shy, flusterd, hardly talks, no eye contact and very very nervous and insecure, just look for his facial features and body movement, im inexperieced as well like not at all.

Caaarl · Answer

When they think your vagina is higher than your asshole.

Prof_Don · Answer

He tries too hard to impress (both words and actions), instead of being his natural and relaxed self.

Servus09 · Answer

1.) He takes things slow. 2.) He's not a smooth talker who says the right things all the time. 3.) Getting him to open up may be difficult.

bloodmountain1990 · Answer

It’s not always easy to tell, but I guess if someone is just super clueless when it comes to dating and thinks it’s like the movies

libtech · Answer

If he calls you the next day, sends you flowers or acts interested within 72hours

FlyingSpatula · Answer

I'd love to answer this but I feel like a girl would know better.

SirThomas5 · Answer

If he asks you about everything and is unsure of most things, then you know.

eyesofbourbon · Answer

Emotionally unavailable or afraid of commitment. Also, bad at communication.

TheFunkyThumb · Answer

You know that awkward tension you pick up on half an hour into the date? Thats sign enough

hunter206 · Answer

Usually if he's nervous to touch you, or shakes a bit. If he doesn't really talk much on a date, or blurts out too much.

duckster · Answer

Experienced in dating? Dating is a construct based around early love, dating isn't a skill its a stage of life. So to answer your question you can't tell, you either like the guy or not I mean it shouldn't matter his experience.

cheetov90 · Answer

He'd admit it to you, as I will do right now... Yeah I have 0 experience dating sadly...

Girolamo · Answer

You have a conversation with him about his dating experience, and he tells you.

AbdKilani · Answer

Is it bad for a guy to he inexperienced? 🤔  No, why would think so, it might mean he have a hight standard and he just picked you...

Anonymous · Answer

When your dating him, it feels like your dating his parents since they're controlling the whole event.

Tomsta · Answer

Why does it matter if he's inexperienced or not? Also he should tell you, i did that with my girlfriend

Anonymous · Answer

My ex was. That pile of shit. He learned on my skin and than dumped me for a girl with zombie jaws.

egykimo · Answer

He usually can't keep eye cobtact and can't open different subjects

oussa86 · Answer

He struggle to find good topics to talk about, he is very shy or very forward, his body language too

AlexDelux · Answer

He a bit undecided about things and now and than mumbles unimportant shit

Psycho21924 · Answer

He acts awkward and shy

sugarskullcutie3818 · Answer

They need to study us girls ask us what are the sign is and read up on before you start to make you all a couple

Just747 · Answer

He has a consistent history of a and/or long-term relationships and ability to commit, just sayin'...

Matildaxox · Answer

He over use the sweet sweet words

srinath2205 · Answer

Everything... he'll be more nervous... he will say yes for everything... with no point...

Errantsquire · Answer

He's fearful to do anything.

freakyxbunny420 · Answer

Not keeping u entertained or present in the moment

Anonymous · Answer

A girl would see it right away in me that she would be my first

rienna888 · Answer

If they look like ass

Anonymous · Answer

He can't find the hole.

jacquesvol · Answer

Clumsiness is a dead giveaway

clampfan101 · Answer

Wanting/needing to ask him to do things?

strugglingstranger · Answer

Don't know what to wear

outside_Toronto · Answer

The level of douche in the way he talks

Liska98stad · Answer

He doesn’t last long in bed lol

Nahid1707 · Answer

i thought girls knew everything?

abhishekkatoch923 · Answer

he keep quiet maximum of times

goalgettagabriel · Answer

When he hesitates and lacks confidence

little_Snail · Answer

He doesn't make first steps)

San-Thiago · Answer

He is basically like me hahahha

IsoUser · Answer

Inexplicable Drooling is a big hint lol

Catgoesbyebye · Answer

He says "You're my first girlfriend"

nozimmerman711 · Answer

Asking for permission and if your ok

mikeandy · Answer

A hard question for an inexperienced guy to answer

Anonymous · Answer

He’ll tell you. But why does it matter to you.

Slim57 · Answer

If he's a virgin I guess

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