What is wifey material?

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What do guys consider wifey material/girlfriend material? What qualities would you like in a girl to consider her these things? I'm 22 and I don't go out a lot on weekends I prefer to stay in. I have a job and go to school full time and own my own vehicle. What do guys find attractive about a girl? I'm just curious to know what guys look for in a S/O

AlexanderNicolai · Accepted Answer

What I look for when I'm romantically interested in someone:
- respect (self-respect and of others)
- takes care of herself, both physically (gym or sport) and mentally (learning, reading self development books, etc)
- doesn't smoke, drink or club (occasional or moderate drinking is ok-ish)
- likes trips and sightseeing
- good communicator (can maturely solve issues by talking it, understand and accept each other)
- has a career plan and acts on it
- confident

I find that incredibly sexy and attractive, a perfect woman.
I don't want a woman to cook, clean, etc for me, I don't want a slave.
I want an equal that I can share chores and pleasure with.

AynonOMouse · Accepted Answer

1. Never did hook ups/ONS
2. Never did drugs (because it does affect future kids they have)
3. Trustworthy and trusts me
4. Loyal (doesn't side with others in disagreements and is not friends with any of her exs)
5. Very affectionate at home but is fine with only holding hands in public
6. Has the same long term life goals (wants family/kids, etc.)
7. Has the same moral values and is fair to me
8. Some common interests of stuff to do together
9. Will give me her opinions but I make final decisions for things that matter to me
10. Is possessive of me so I feel like I matter to her

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I am a single mom of a 4 year old daughter. I have a good job. graduated college, work and going back to school. I have a house and a car. but i also love to party and get drunk on weekends.

montey · Accepted Answer

oh you're perfect then.  Guys love the housewife type who sits around, along with having multiple babies. That gives them more time to go out, fuck around, and party.

GeorgeDubyaKUSH · Answer

Wifey material AND mommy material:

- Good looking
- Kind hearted and seems like a genuinely good person
- Not bisexual
- Is not a slut/Hasn't slept around with half the city's population
- Has never been a mudshark (look it up)
- Is not crazy
- Does not do drugs, although weed is fine, and alcohol is fine as long as they're not alcoholic
- Is not a gold digger
- Is not too much of a feminist
- Holds at least somewhat traditional values

A woman that holds all of these qualities is more precious than gold and is so valuable she's priceless. She is marriage material, and any decent man with a good head on his shoulders would find her wifey/wifu material.

hello123456789 · Answer

Great Question. Everyone's List varies.
1. Strong Spiritual Foundation (I am a Christian)
2. Carries herself well
3. Intelligent conversations
4. Goal oriented
5. Looks out for my interests, etc. / Down to Earth
6. Fun! Ride or Die girl.

These are most important to me. And never forget beauty.

Spelling95 · Answer

Wifey material? Submissiveness and respect towards me. Good with children, level headed, mature, can cook, takes care of herself physically. Basically traditional stuff. A girlfriend can have some of these features, a potential wife would have most if not all.

Krodaxun · Answer

Two needs must be filled before I consider spending my life with someone. A. she has to support that I only own a motorcycle and I am a minimalist. (not implying that she has to ride and get rid of her things. Just that she accepts my life style). B. We've been in a serious relationship for over two years without incident (cheating, loss of interest, permanent move to another country, ect)

Anonymous · Answer

1) virgin
2) loyal. Something thats very rare these days. That mean through thick and thin, not fuck it i'm leaving him when bad things start happening in his life.
3) confident. Too many are super self concious which leads to things like bitchy behavior, nagging, attention seeking etc etc.
4) knows her place in the world. Look, you're a woman i'm a man, thats just how things go. You are supposed to act like a woman and treat me like a man and i'll do the same.

MackFreeze · Answer

A wifey woman to me is *Kind, Classy, Mature, Funny, etc. Not a woman who gets wasted, has hookups, does drugs, or swears every single second.

Bloopman · Answer

Men want the same things from their significant others that they want from their underwear; a little bit of support, and a little bit of freedom.

Anonymous · Answer

The girl who don't lie especially about her age when she is seriously wanting long run relationship.

0112358 · Answer

Loyal, capable of contributing, can handle ups and downs, affectionate, high sex drive, gets along with family assuming his family is sane.

VV3ZZY · Answer

Depends what kind of wife you wanna be. Cooking, cleaning, making love, and raising children, seems like the stereotypical wife. But you could probably do better.

Browneye57 · Answer

Desire and attraction to him. How much do you really care for him? The rest of anything else is practically irrelevant.

FakeName123 · Answer

Femininity, loyalty, affection, passion, nurturing are pretty universal for most guys.

johnmichaei · Answer

you are something they would look but according to your personality and your attitude you are something that a man would look for

Bandit74 · Answer

Smart Funny Sweet/affectionate Trustworthy Hasn't had any hookups/fwbs Hasn't sent nudes Common interests physically attractive sexually compatible and being a good cook would be a bonus.

Sir-Tab · Answer

Well it very from person to person. For me that good wifey material. So guy need someone strong and smart, a girl that can manage money and is good with finances.

fritz2 · Answer

she has to cook, be cute, like to cudle, be active not lazy (at some point it's good to lay on coutch tho) i like it if she likes to travel or go for a walk/run/ hike play some sport,

Justinaveragedude · Answer

Someone you can trust, share all aspects of your life with and spend your life with.

heatun · Answer

you answered your question by describing yourself :)

RachelleDraws · Answer

Looking for a long relationship Not really lusty A gamer An artist A musician Snuggly

Regular1 · Answer

A good wife keeps the house in maculate Lee clean, cooks good meals every day and has sex with her husband every night. Everything required of a wife can be done in less than 2 hours a day. And yet 99% of women find that to be too burdensome.

Bekle · Answer

Sincere, loyal, confident, motivated+goal oriented = dream woman

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

If we told you that'd be cheating, you have to become wifey material without knowing what wifey material is

zacknzo · Answer

mention your country at least. then you Will have much better advice

John_Doesnt · Answer

She cooks, cleans and doesn't give any lip.

sfdghgjkj · Answer

LOL X

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