Guys do you check out your female friends? (Page 2)
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Yep I check out all of my female friends usually every time I see them. They rarely catch me unless I want to be caught. Usually I start to get more blatant about it when they get more blatant about it.
Yes, but not all the time. Even though they're friends, they still have girl equipment, and I can't help myself.
You should feel very flattered that he checks out your breasts and butt because he finds you desirable 😉
Yeah it is typical guy stuff lol 😂 😜
Of course. Why do you think there's attraction in the first place.
And explains why there's no such thing a man-woman 'platonic' friendships - one or the other will always want more.
A girl I like, I told her, I was checking her out all night, she was flattered, but, the problem is, she has a boyfriend.. why though then, was she flirting with me the entire night, and also gave me her number, when I asked for it
Maybe things aren't good with the boyfriend and she likes you.
She said last night that she "respects him a lot"
Yet she flirts with you... if she isn't going to leave him then maybe steer clear of her so that you don't get your heart broken.
She flirts with me, while having a boyfriend. That's called cheating
Then maybe she wouldn't make a good girlfriend for you either. How much do you like her?
A lot
Well all you can do is tell her how you feel and that you want to be with her and then the ball is in her court after that.
But I can'ttttttt... don't you get it. She's got a boyfriend, and she's still flirting with me
I know she has a boyfriend so tell her that you like her and then distance yourself from her. That way she knows how you feel and you have given her some distance to think on it all.
But it's not fair to her then, because she wants me as a friend, ya know?
Besides, I like her attention
Then at this stage all you can do is be her friend and try to shut off the feelings that you have for her until she becomes available.
Which likely, won't happen.. I mean if she "respects her boyfriend a lot", right?
Yeah I really don't know what to say. The easiest thing at this point is to try and move on from her I would say. You need to protect your own feelings first
I've tried making her jealous too. But, it's difficult when you live at least 1000 miles apart. Anyway, she's trying to tell me how to get this girl near me, but, I get the feeling she's trying to screw me over
I don't know why she would do that. Maybe just go with it and see what happens
Oh, you'd be surprised what women are capable of.. trust me
So why don't you just stop talking to her then?
Easier said than done, right?
Yes but if you don't want to tell her how you feel and don't think she will leave her boyfriend what choice do you have
She's going to lose one of us either way, right? If I get rejected, I leave, if he breaks up with her/if she breaks up with him, he leaves. It's kind of a crap shoot for me. This way, staying, and getting the attention I like.. keeps her from losing either.. until she decides what she wants to do.
I've even told her. I will not leave her, until she says "creep", or "go away". And even if she's saying it in like, a playful way or whatever.. to a guy, that means, you crossed a line, and I should respect what she says. If she wants me back, she could then come back to me, but, if she says those things, don't expect me to come crawling back to her
crap shoot for her*, is what i meant
If that's works best for both of you go for it, it won't be an easy road though and someone's feelings will get hurt and they will likely be yours sorry to say 😥
Maybe so, but, I can enjoy the attention while I'm at it.. ya know.. we both win. I get the attention, she gets to stay with him
If that what works go for it and I hope it works out for you 🙂
Anyway, I hope you sort of got what I was trying to say in my original answer.. if we check you out, we find you attractive, and want to at least talk to you
well yes it is normal (animal nature )
all depends on how and what they do after getting caught 😅😅
yup we can't really help it. it just happens. If it's someone we shouldn't be checking out we stop as soon as we notice.
Yes, if they are attractive or have features I find appealing. It would be silly not to.
Sometimes, though not all the time. A pretty girl is still a pretty girl.
More so I take notice and acknowledge lol. But yes, just not all the time.
Yes, but you have to understand how little that means. We check out *every* girl.
there are rarely any true friends of the opposite gender. really rarely.
I think that's typical. The important thing is to not be too obvious or creepy about it.
Yup. I could have no romantic or sexual feelings for them and still check them out.
Hell, I used to catch myself checking out my guy friends, not to mention my girl friends.
He's hardly your friend just a guy that wants to fuck yoh and foolishly thinks listening to your problems and drama will get him laid.
Yes. The odds are if you are friends with a guy, he will find you attractive. Hence he checks you out.
Sometimes. But I've mastered the art of not getting caught.
Simples...
you sure he doesn't like you , and i dont mean in the bestfriend way. i mean in the would she ever be mine way
Yeah but I've fucked most of them already or done 4 play with them so doesn't really matter