Do most guys wait for the "right moment" to ask a girl out and gain confidence to do so?

[TsundereMatrix]

The guy I like became shy around me for unknown reasons. I think it's because his feelings became more serious than he expected them to be. I asked him out once but he turned me down because of stress of a new job. That was fair enough for me as he didn't want to hang out with his friends either.

A month later he wanted to go out but I left town for a while during my break from college and didn't tell him when I would be back so he freaked out and asked me on Facebook when I'll be back. It's been 3 months. My next break is coming up next week. I get the feeling he's ignoring me to gain confidence and wait for the right moment to ask me out.

Could this be the case?

[Anonymous]

If I had to read into it I would say he isn't into you anymore. I mean you kind of made yourself unavailable and didn't give him any other solution or suggestion to set up a later date. This was after you made a move to so he was probably expecting a yes. So my guess is he moved on.

[TsundereMatrix]

But I technically didn't say no either because his friend found out I would be gone and told him before he could ask. Actually I even heard her tell him because they were walking behind me.

[Nahid1234]

It could. Sometimes they Will ask a girl out on a date on the first day he met her for example.
Some girls will say yes to that.

I can't find anyone here because my saying throughout this year has been, "girl play games." And "girls don't appreciate anything."

[Pamstah]

Yes it could, if he still likes you ofcourse

[Anonymous]

Yeah they wait till they get sure

[TallAnon]

Ofcourse, if I see a cute girl, with no headset on, alone, in a quite area where I can actually hear what she says and she doesn't seem occupied... then I might talk to her.