Why do guys say i'm "attractive but intimidating"?

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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

your attitude or face :c if a girl is too beautiful, too funny, too smart or behaves kida lesbian-like (like not caring for looking cute, delicate, appearance, not putting makeup, sitting with open legs, etc etc) or has a angry resting face, it'll keep man away. i feel like i'm like you irl - intimidating -, so i would know (maybe?) xD

WesternHamiltrash · Accepted Answer

You're probably beautiful, and you have a very confident and forward attitude. Exactly as they said. If y'all want to be less intimidating, try to be more quiet and thoughtful. I have the exact fucking same problem and it pisses me off so much.

azzntittiz · Accepted Answer

Because you shouldn't show them the knife on the first date, hide it until shit pops off.

iRaec · Accepted Answer

They're saying that you do look good but they feel like you might threaten their masculinity. If you're more outgoing than them, if you seem not to care at all, if you act cold and distant... Basically they're saying that they might be okay with dating you, but they're too scared they wouldn't be 'the man' in the relationship.

sineater8 · Accepted Answer

Probably because you are good looking but you carry yourself with the confidence and pose of some one who knows what she wants and how to get it. All men are intimidated by women like that, as men naturally assume the role of leader in a relationship as the man, and its intimidating to see that role possibly challenged.

m0shim0shi · Answer

There's a lot of reason to be intimidated by people. Some people look nice but have a chilling resting face. Some people might feel you're out of their league. Some people just aren't confident in themselves. Maybe they find the intimidatinf part attractive? It's a bit of a mess.

Whatever the reason, you're beautiful, at least to whoever said you were, just hard to approach. So maybe you should do the approaching.

Brockers · Answer

They're insecure, what are they saying you do to be intimidating

Usually intimidation is caused by some kind of aggression

Think about how you would feel if you were the receiver of your words

If you think you could be intimidated then it's your behaviour, however if you can't for the life of you understand it... it's more than likely a them issue

AKilani · Answer

Because they are not men, a man should never fear a free independent woman.
A true man should play a role in a woman's life like no other, and always come number one, if he is not strong enough to convince you that, then he doesn't deserve you.

Anonymous · Answer

It's the sort of thing girls like you love to hear about themselves. It's like paying you a subtle compliment that they know you won't dismiss out of hand, because it plays into your self-belief.

leprechaun18 · Answer

You must be really hot!

MegnWil94 · Answer

Maybe it is a complement. I was called intimidating once but he still went out with me.

burpzzzzz · Answer

You might be too masculine. This isn't to attack you but you might be.

Mediocrates · Answer

Not really sure. I've thought that about bigger or older women. And when I say bigger, I mean a tall woman with nice curves.

niceguy1234567 · Answer

I am intimidated by sexy woman due to my lack of confidence. Its the guys insecurity,

razor97 · Answer

how can i answer if i don't know enough things about you?

dark0light · Answer

Maybe he is being polite but actually feel that you are condescending at times.

Matthew_sky · Answer

Think yourself like wonder woman, she's beautiful but you Don't want to mess with her.

Anonymous · Answer

You look nice but you're a feminist who wants to be tha man.

zombiebabe · Answer

they think that you won't date them

YingKim · Answer

Maybe your personality is aggresive? 🤷‍♀️

Peopleschamp · Answer

Depends on your personality I think

kenjaminSlutton716 · Answer

Cause they're pussies

Djaaay · Answer

Intimidating , how's that exactly?

Anonymous · Answer

Thats because you are a strong woman

wellwisher6969 · Answer

Lack of Intimacy I suppose

hannibalx · Answer

pics please 😇

verybusyguy · Answer

Good

CT_CD · Answer

Needs pics

nick1979 · Answer

Resting bitch face?

animus1988 · Answer

cus there pussies.

Gayview_Mahat · Answer

You know the answer

Damamloyo · Answer

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