My crush accepted my friend request on Facebook but then minutes later he deletes me. What does that mean?

[Anonymous]

So I decided to sent my crush a friend request but we never talked before. I'm 110% sure he knows who I am since he looks at me all the time at school and we had a few classes together. His friends also smiles and looks at me. Okay so the thing is he accepted my friend request on Facebook but minutes later I found out he deleted me. I'm very shy so I thought it was a good idea to send him a friend request since I don't have the courage to go up and talk with him and my friends encouraged me to do it. Did I get rejected or what? And why did he decide to do it?

[Thomas88]

Maybe he is just even more shy and wanted you to do the first step. But after the accept u maybe stood silent?

Maybe all it takes is... hi xy, i think you are ''fill compliment in here'' and i would like to get to know you!

No guy ever complained about feeling a girls interest.

Just be yourself...

[Asker]

He accepted the request after school and then I found out he deleted me but he must have deleted me fast since I never got a notification he accepted me. I found out through messenger since Facebook automatically makes new friends appear so you can start a conversation with them

[Thomas88]

Yeah thats what i am saying. He didn't realy think about it.. there will be no reasons against you. He was like... ouh yeah a girl... accept! ! Ouh my what do i say now... its so embarressing... i am a fool. Undo this! U got no clue what to say!

And than he acts like he hasn't done anything... while u question wtf happened

[Burn662]

To put it bluntly, he doesn't want to be friends with you.

On the other hand he might be trying to get your attention.

I'll let you guess which one is more likely.

[Asker]

Maybe he doesn't want to be friends but you could also be right that he might be trying to get my attention. How do I act when I see him in the hallways since I fell really awkward? I can't get myself to look at him and it only happened yesterday. I also had a class with him today where I ignored him but I could feel him and his friends stare at me. I'm scared that he told all his friends and when I see them they just stare at me. I know that I shouldn't give a f**k about what they think but I can't help it.

[Jenniferohhjny905]

Could be anything really… maybe he:

1. accepted friend request by mistake.
2. didn’t know who you were until he looked at your profile

3. Wanted to be an a$$**** on purpose; accepted you so you would get the notification then unfriended to show he’s not interested.

Forget him

[Pinay_ako]

oh this happened to me. lol so i called him out

[just_wondering_01]

Then what happened?

[Asker]

Yeah what happened? How did he react?

[Pinay_ako]

@just_wondering_01 First, I requested to be his friend. He denied it. Then I got over him. We didn't speak of it when we saw each other in person. Then a week later, he sent me a request, which I accepted. Then later he deleted me. I was like tf was that. lol I said dude you're lame. he laughed. then he added me again. then we started talking and I got so over him with his lame games.

[Asker]

Wow quite interesting and funny what you went through but how do I react when I see him in the hallways? We had the same class today and I ignored him. I could feel him and his friends stare when I came in to the classroom. I'm kind of scared to look at him since I feel really awkward and the friend request thing happened yesterday. I'm also scared that he told the rest of his friends so when I come to school tomorrow they will be staring at me. I know I shouldn't give a f**k what they think but I can't help it.

[Pinay_ako]

We both ignored each other the first time I got rejected. He noticed I wasn't talking to him lol. I was embarrassed. So a week later, he added me. After breaking the ice, we kinda laughed about it. So just mind your business. Let him come to you.

[Asker]

Thank you so much! Quite embarrassed but you made me feel better about the situation

[Pinay_ako]

Anytime. :D tell me how it went. Be confident. Let him feel, it was not a big deal.

[Asker]

So 5-6 days have gone by and it has been a little bit awkward when I have seen him but I think he's ignoring me. Maybe he's embarrassed since his friends still sit in the canteen and not him. Yeah we have the same lunch break and the table we sit beside or very close to the table he and his friends sit on. I have seen him around school and he can't seem to look me in the eyes. He looks at me very discreetly. My friends send him a friend request on facebook and he accepted them but didn't delete them so why did he delete me? It's really weird...

[Asker]

My friends think he is playing hard to get but I don't know

[Pinay_ako]

just be cool about it and do not pay him attention.

[Jenniferohhjny905]

Guys talk- of course he and his friends are staring at you… He would’ve kept you as a friend if he had any interest, no? I would ignore & Forget him completely

[lordpuru]

You mean he accept your request first then unfriend you

[Asker]

Yeah he accepted first then unfriended me

[RayGreed]

He probably didn't want you to see what he posts because he will be ashamed when u see it or afraid to be weirded out

[eagle1951]

betting he doesn't want you to know what he does , or who his friends are on there. bet he has someone else on there

[TheUglyMonk]

Accidentally accepted you.

[Asker]

Yeah that might had happened

[garfield1968]

He is into you're friend

[Asker]

I don't think since my friends notice him looking at me

[Anonymous]

He gave up

[Asker]

What do mean?