He secretly brushes up against my breasts, what do I do?

[Anonymous]

So, I have a classmate/friend who's really naughty at times but he's really kind, funny, sweet, and thoughtful. But for the pass few days, he's been really touchy and clingy inside our class. He normally is, but in a way that he just wants to hold your hand or give u a small hug... But he was different now. I sometimes feel his hands/arms or his body feeling the side of my breasts and thighs or sometimes he leans against it. I find it really awkward and weird since we're in class, there are so many people around us. I do try to avoid his touches and when he notices that i get all awkward he says "sorry" but still end up trying to get close to me again. How do i get to push him away and tell him i'm not comfortable with it when i'm not even sure if he does it on purpose (but i feel like he does). And i also get anxious easily and overthink about it. Because i'm sure that his friends notice it and what if they've lost their respect for me. Because i, myself had lost my respect in me, i can't even protect myself. And i'm also scared about what would my friends say. And what other people would think. I'm really conservative and i don't want people to think that i'm an easy person. I just want to gain myself back, the respect and such. But i also don't want to offend anyone. Aaaahhhhh


I would really appreciate an honest answer. Thank you. Hope y'all have a great day.

[Th3B1ackguy11]

If you feel it's inappropriate you need to tell him that. And the first time it was an accidental, the second time it was intentional. If it bothers you then you need to make him stop, tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and you want him to stop, if he continues move away from and tell a teacher's that he's inappropriately touching you

[Insanyx12]

Tell him to respect boundaries and it makes you uncomfortable don't degrade yourself also that's not good hope all goes well and if you need to talk im here❤️

[Anonymous]

If it makes you uncomfortable you need to have him stop asap. If this continues it could basically be called sexual assault and he has no right to touch you without your consent and his gross butt needs to be called out for it

[leafygreen]

Either tell him to stop, or when he does it, grab his hand and push it away from you. I doubt his friends have lost respect for you.

[20yearsolder]

It's intentional. He's gotten by with doing it and it will continue unless you call him out on his actions. Pull him to the side and tell him you know what he's doing. Please stop, it l makes me uncomfortable.

[thebutters]

Tell him firmly how it makes you feel. This is borderline sexual harassment if it's uninvited

[Thinkthought]

If you truly don't like the touching then talk to him about it. It might be a misunderstanding or maybe he thought you enjoyed it.

[Bigboifun27]

If u don't want to make it a big deal just slap his hand or pull it off u

[eagle1951]

tell him how you feel about this. . he's probably trying to either show off for his friends. or see how far he can go with you

[Wesley_5577]

Just be direct and honest, and tell him in private

[Anonymous]

Touch him back and see how he likes it

[thegr8lion]

Kick his dick...