Why won't my husband stop grabbing my butt? Ongoing multiple times?

[Anonymous]

I've told him I don't mind it but he will do it daily when I'm not in the mood to be touched. He then got all bent out of shape & said I can't touch my wife's butt? I didn't say never touch my butt I just asked that he not touch my butt again immediately after he already grabbed me but he continued to do it. I feel like he has no respect for my body. Am I overreacting?

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+1 y

It's a bit much, grabs a hold of one entire cheek with his whole hand , when I'm laying down in bed, about to go in the shower, brushing my teeth, doing the laundry, washing the dishes. Using the microwave. It's excessive. Even while I'm
Sleeping he will wake me up and he thinks it's funny.

[matheus_mb]

Well, I know it may sound weird but it's a very good sign. When we do that, it means that we desire a lot the woman we have. So, he's showing you that he wants you, no other woman in the world, just you, he's in the mood for you. When we like a woman a lot, we touch her, it's like an instinct. So, if he's touching you a lot, it's a very good sign, he doesn't see you as an object, he doesn't mean to offend you, he's just showing that he's happy with the woman he has.

I hope this helped.

[Asker]

Why can't he stop when I'm obviously bothered and ask him not to at that very moment?

[matheus_mb]

Probably his desire was too big that moment, he was with a big sex drive, this is the only plausible reason I can think about.

[HGG3805]

My first response is you are over reacting but it's pretty obvious you are getting irritated by the frequency. It likely is an expression of affection as crude as you might see it. Softly tell him you like the expression but there is a time and a place for that and here are the times that you wish he would NOT do that. Don't yell at him to stop, he will take that wrong. It has to be a honey, we need to talk conversation.

[foolishsunset]

I'd sit down and talk properly with him about it. Just tell him that it's too much and it bothers you. He should respect that.
If it doesn't stop do the same thing to him, that always helps xD

[Jellybean17]

Apparently he's an ass man. It's his way to show he loves you and your body.

[Blondie80]

I love when my husband grabs my butt or strokes them gently. It weakens me.

[TripleAce]

Well if it annoys you he should tone it down
He can grab it but you're not an object of his

We all do that sometimes, like do whatever we want just cause we're with her - but there is a fine line between yes she's my wife and it's my ass too and just having respect for her by not annoying her

[TheNikster]

When a woman tells someone to stop doing that to their body, they should stop. I think he just really likes your butt, probably also means sexual things too.. He shouldn't overreact when his wife says "Please stop touching my butt". He should just stop, it's called respect.

[WallieWhale]

I would like to say he does it too much but i grab my gf's but a hunderd times a day it just means love to me I hope you could see it in another light

[Intraluminal]

You're not wrong. He's not wrong. You're just poorly matched.

[Intraluminal]

How did you get married without discovering this about him earlier.

[Alanfra]

He clearly still finds you attractive and wants to touch you, however, you need to worry about the day when he decides to stop touching your butt.

[Anonymous]

Yes you are over reacting. He’s ur husband and can’t he just grab it few times a day. It feels nice holding a bum, and as long as it doesn’t hurt you and is within your privacy limits you should not be bothered.

He loves ur body more that’s why he likes touching you again and again, it’s not being disrespectful!!

[Irishboy42]

Be happy. He is attracted to u play along and grab his ass a lot

[Bleakeyed]

Depends what you mean and what it feels like. If it feels like you're in a bar and a random idiot is grabbing your ass, then I'd say you're not over reacting.

[wannastay1]

You need to just be happy it's you ass he doing it too worry when he not interested in it

[BeHappy1985]

Yes, yes you are, he does it because he loves you. I'd devorce you if I was him. The hell you mean can't grab your butt? Here are your bags, good bye.

[HamAndCheese]

Do you think he would be a sport about it if you did the same?

[Anonymous]

because it makes your pussy open slightly and causes it to wet without you knowing. Indirect contact with pussy is what men like grabbing women asses.

If you stop him do this, he will go find another woman ass to grab.

[TripleAce]

😂😂😂
Pussy opens 😂😂😂
Wth haha

[ciitruskiwi]

"my wife won't let me grab her butt, let's go grab another woman's butt" that's some immature childish logic you got there. I'm assuming you're single with that logic.

[ChancellorCharemagne]

U just hav. a thic booty whole. Lik a donnut he want eat

[Aphrodite92]

He worships your booty that’s why.

[jacquesvol]

Does he hurt you? Or is it merely touching?

[jacquesvol]

You're married and you're both used to more intimate contact, I guess.

[jacquesvol]

Yes, I too grab my wife's butt.

[jacquesvol]

"I've told him I don't mind it" thus he doesn't know.

[BIGboy12]

Does he grab your pussy daily?

[thegr8lion]

Wants to fuck it

[Anonymous]

He likes it a lot