What are the disadvantages of girls courting the boys?

[lilchick]

i am a girl, and I'm a type that traditionally guys have to court me before I say yes or no...how about other women?courting guys?sort of giving flowers and everything that the man has to prove including sex...i think that lowers the girls respect to her self..how about your opinions?

[scribble]

Well, I think it's only fair for girls to be able to court guys. I mean, what if a girl never gets asked out? It doesn't mean she's ugly or anything, maybe she gives off a defensive vibe or something without realizing? She should be able to walk up to a guy and declare interest too!

And guys shouldn't have to do all the work! It's not fair to them to have to jump through all the hoops.

It'd be way more convenient though, if guys would accept flowers in the same light as women do. Flowers are so easy to pickup and can range from cheap to expensive for every budget. Most guys aren't interested though. Chocolate is okay, but again, guys tend to reject it too. Same with stuffed animals. There should be some sort of bouquet of delicious snacks or something. Hahaha.

[KERMlT]

You see movies where the guy jumps through hoops to prove his love for the woman. How does a woman prove her love to a guy?

[Lilywhite]

Lol good one !

[Kjpuppy7]

My love language. If I like a guy, my actions are a certain way to depict where my heart lies. I do actions such as helping him on a project, writing something for him, or even something considered masculine(holding the door open) My sisters guy holds the door open for her and refuses to let the girls carrying heavy items. Check out my question on Love languages for more.