



She felt some guilt because she might've treated you bad and she saw that you kept trying on her, this is a step for both of you, either you keep trying and she decides to either accept you or push you back OR you let go and she also decide to either try hard with you or get some space... It's 2 choices from you crossing two choices from her Because she made the step to tell you all of this
Sounds like he thinks you might be too good for him. Or he's not sure what you want from him. Maybe this is the first time someone has tried so hard to be with him. Some people have a problem where they push away the people they care about because they're afraid of being left by someone their attached to.
If I could speak to that girl directly, I would say: Go for it, give him everything you got, trust him, but know how it may end. Be ready for it and understand why in advance.
Ugh too long
Ok ok I read it. I guess you’re being too nice or too naive to her and she’s taking advantage or she treats you like shit and you take it that’s not right boo boo you need to be stronger and set boundaries.
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Means he knows he does bad shit, is starting to feel bad about it, knows she's way better than him and deserves better, but at the same time wants her and can't give her up.
Because he probably doesn't know any better and was never taught how to act when he likes someone.
He basically needs a lot of work, and if she likes that kind of thing then good for her, but I wouldn't enter into a relationship with someone who treats me badly, got too much pride
Believing in the power of love is not a bad thing but by the time he will accept her effort... i'm a guy and sometimes don't understand ourselfves either. He is either being held back by insecurities, feels threatened by her seriousness or held back by another girl. He does not want to hurt her tho. She should draw a line for herself untill when she wants to keep giving/investing into this relationship.
That guys a straight fuck nigga
from the way he talks, I can tell he sucks a dick or 2
nigga
Guy sounds like a shit head.
It's not that he doesn't try. He's trying to not try. He's pushing you away. If you think a girl don't deserve you break up with her. LET HER GO. He's waiting for you to do the hard part.
A little bit of backstory first
Okay here's what I know and have heard from her. ' they've been seeing each other for a while, he's currently gone to another city because of family things and all. Evertike they've met there's something special there but online it's always her making the effort to talk to him, ask him how his day was , if he's okay. And he's always seeming her and replying to wheb it benefits him, whiles she's here busy off her ass but taking the time to message "have a great day at work x" or someshit she's always devestated about it and mad , and when he hit her up about it yesterday she didn't know what to do... as her friend it Fucks me off
When will he be back from the other city?
Oh if that's the case, he seems like he is trying to fade away from the relationship slowly.
I would agree with helphope on this one
"She's clearly wanting to continue with him, but she doesn't know if she should" that
Sorry if I was a bit vague I did not try to be
He loves you
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