Was it ok for my boyfriend to slap me during sex?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend usually dominates me while we have sex but yesterday while we were doing it I was on my back and had my eyes closed, so he slapped me and grabbed my throat then told me to look him in his eyes. After that he was more rough and aggressive, I can tell it really turned him on. I let him finish but I was completely stunned after that. It was like a whole other side of him and I don’t know how to react to it.

[ladyblooking2]

Access denied. Thats it for him. Aggressive behavior like that should be introduced slowly unless he gonna get a smack back. You guys can do the research on whatever he is attempting to do. But for me, he would have a long cold wait. He will know what not to try with me. Its the same with choking... just ask first or explain that this is coming. Communication is best.

[lostgirl_searching]

Some couples are into it, but it can be harmful. I have heard some freak accidents when it comes to like dominate and rough sex. But if you didn't like it. You should tell him.

[MrOracle]

It's completely your call as to whether it's okay or not. Some girls would freak out, and other girls would ASK, even plead, to be slapped, so there's no one right answer, except that you have to set boundaries and he needs to respect them. You get to decide where the boundaries are.

[Skyglz]

People can be different in bed. If you really don't like it, you should at least express your feelings toward it. People get off to that stuff and I was dating some one who was like that was fine doing it to her, but if I didn't like doing that I wouldn't just keep it quiet.

[Kkaos]

If you have a problem with it, talk to him about it for God sake. You shouldn't need to be told by others if what someone does to YOU is ok or not, you need to think for yourself and decide what you think it acceptable or not.

[Asker]

I know, I just need to take in what happened first

[funguy90]

Based on the fact that you have never done it or brought it up before hand I'd say it was uncalled for. Choking and face slapping is something that should be talked about before doing. My follow up question is how did you feel about it?

[Asker]

I don't know, I wasn’t turned on by it but if he warned me before I wouldn’t tell him no

[funguy90]

So you are open to the idea of it. Something you could prepare for next time? It sounds like he is going to do it again

[Bad_Man55]

He's gotta make sure you are ok with that before just doing it. I would be a little concerned

[JDavid25]

The real question is, was it okie wit you? We that's somethin between y'all..

[Modu1234]

Sometimes it happens like that coz he must be in some other thoughts and all was removed on u the stress n tension

[Ayer93]

Communicate with him what you feel is okay with you. Set your boundaries.

[BronsonG]

Did you like it or not? Both choices lead to very different meanings.

[hunterisback]

He was in his real sex mood.. he like to fuck hard aggressive and see u in pain.. just be normal it's not anger it's love for sex..

[Anonymous]

If you don't like that, tell him it would get worse if you don't.

[Battery]

Everyone have their thing, just let him be as long it doesn't botter you

[rapfan107]

That's rough sex but if you don't like it , tell him

[Anonymous]

Doing that under 18? Wow. I'd think he would just be pumping away for the entire 30 seconds that he can last.

[hsg14002]

Let him know you're uncomfortable with that

[gmrgrl]

If you like that then it's ok

[deeders]

If you're ok with it, then why not

[reptocarl]

Did you like it?

[Asker]

I’m not sure, it wasn’t that hard I’m just surprised

[malealpha00]

that is hot!