How to get him to regret losing you?

[Anonymous]

up there ^^^^ But,

what is it that a gal can do to make him rethink what he's done by letting you go? And even regret it too?

thanks :]

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+1 y

WOAH! So much advice, thanks everyone so far :]


if it helps to clarify my situation more, we broke up say 5 months ago... he recently started talking to me again and we went out too, but now he's decided to ignore me again...

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+1 y

I thought I wanna show him what he's doing and what he's loosing here not as revenge, I'm not a bitter girl, I ideally as in the question want him to rethink what he's actually doing

[Jane_]

Its easy! :)

Start living your own life. Do everything you like and do it all for yourself. You are now the center of the universe! You are the best thing that has ever happened, and now you are gonna treat yourself in every nice and respected way possible!

What activities did you like to when you started going out with your ex boyfriend? Perhaps you gave up those activities so you can spend more time with him? Well, start doing them again,and ENJOY!

Treat yourself! Find new interests or pursue your old or current ones. Keep busy by satisfying yourself with activities that you love doing!

Once he sees how busy you are and how HAPPY you are with yourself and your life, he will DEFINITELY start to at least thisnk "hmmm maybe I shouldn't have let her go?"

Also, think back to the beginning of your relationship. What were you like? What did you do? Whatever you were at the start is what he fell for. Try doing the things you used to do at the beginning.

Good luck!

If possible, let me know how things turn out :)

[Asker]

Thanks hun :] il do my best to update you on what happens, if anything lol....lets hope so though :]

[JerseyGirl]

This is the best advice right here!!

[Jane_]

Thanks JerseyGirl!

Question asker, add me to your friends so that you can contact me later ::)

[shadowcom245]

Simple start going out with a guy as soon as possible and make it public.that way ull show him that there are plenty of guys interested in you and he just lost out nd hell be jelous

[Jane_]

Thats def an option but I am going to suggest it if all else fails. He will get jealous and may want her back, but may not make a move because she is appearing to be happy with someone else.

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Showing that you're better without him would seem a lot better & mature, rather than this don't you think?

[Jane_]

Yes but she will be using another guy to get his attention. And she is not going to be truly into that guy. She needs to first find a guy better than him too. Just too much work.

[shadowcom245]

Well if she continues to be alone that means he knows she has nowhere else to go and so he wins

[jhova23]

Move on and don't worry about him. Easier said than done, I know, but that's the best way without doing something that you will regret/

[Asker]

I see what you mean. I've tried hard to move on for 5/6 mnths, but I just can't seem to stop caring about him or even thinking about him. He crosses my mind practically every day at some point. And I still feel exactly the same about him :-( I know he doesn't probably, and I doubt he knows how I really feel. I just wanted to make him realize that I'm not a rag doll he can pick up and drop without caring about me. I am worth it and to make him see that he shouldn't loose me. Without sounding pathetic.

[Gregs]

Be a really cool chick, someone who is better than any of the other girls he will date.

[Anonymous]

You can't either he wants you or he doesn't nothing you can do to make him regeret it unless he changes his mind..

[Xx_DRE_xX]

Honestly, In time he'll realize what he lost. Karma will come back to get him wheter it's next week or 2 years from now.

[Anonymous]

Start dating his friends...